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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da Answer

Jazzy**

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Boys always go out with me and end up dumping me after i get attatched. They tell my friends the only reason they go out with me is because they think i am hott and easy.What can i do to change that?

i dont think ou can change they way people look at you because that you all i would say his let these guys no from the start that if they think your easy and going to give it up fast they minds well let you go now cause it aint happening . basically start being straight up with them

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So, over the summer I fell in love with my best friend. You see, I moved to Germany and left him behind and went to visit him over the summer. Well, we slept together, numerous times. Towards the end of the summer I got a UTI (a urinary track infection)... and I couldn't get it treated until I got back to Germany. So my mom made a doctors appointment for 2 days after I got back. Well, the doctor wanted to give me a pap smear, but she checked my urine and found too much bacteria in it, so the pap smear wouldn't make a difference. Now I've been taking medicine for my infection for almost a week. yet I'm still bleeding a little bit, and I bled the whole week and a half I had it. Which I don't know if that was my period gone astray or if it was because of the UTI. I've been noticing some symptoms of pregnancy. I'm eating more, peeing more, feeling nauseous in the morning, and sometimes all day. My boobs are swollen and I've been tired a lot. And I'm going to try and get a pregnancy test sometime this week, but I'm afraid. I'm not afraid of being pregnant, I'm afraid of not being pregnant. I love my boyfriend very much, and can't stand to be away from him anymore. His parents won't even let him come visit me. Maybe if I was pregnant, they'd have to let him come? And if not, I'd have something of his... something we CREATED together to keep me sane. Do you think I could be pregnant? Or just crazy? Maybe it's from stress. I know if you think you're pregnant, you're body will sometimes think you're pregnant as well and you'll get the symptoms.

this is a maybe or maybe not question because you can be causin g your symptoms like you said but then you can be did ou guys use protection im guessing not since you think you pregnant all i would say is take the test and i hope you get the answer you want.

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every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single

you cant blam your self for dumb ass males honey it's not your fault that they beat. only thing you can blame yoursel for is picking some bad ass boyfiends and if your guy friends beat you than their not your friends honey



JazzY**

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Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what?

just try to ignore him but if that dont work try to find a nice way to tell him that your not comfortable with wat he doin. so can he please stop. i think that should work

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my boyfriend and i have had sex before. i love him and really care about him and i wouldve rather lost it to someone i care for a lot now then i wouldve to someone when im 21 and dont care about them. for our 3 months he got me a ring, a really nice ring, but it wasnt a promise ring or anything he just likes to buy me a gift every now and then so i have something to remind me of him. sometimes i feel though that because of the ring and because of having sex [he was my first] that im trapped. i mean right now im happy with him, but about a month ago it got weird and i felt like this was never ending, we broke up, but got back together, but i mean, is it just me or does everyone seem attached to their first?

honey we all feel attached to our first. that is normal every gurl has felt or is still feeling that way becasue yall shared something so there will always been attachment

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Ok, well I had this boyfriend for a few months. He was my perfect guy, the type I've always dreamed about, my dream guy. In that amount of time, we went through alot together and I came as close to loving him as I've come to anyone ever (you know, in that way). Well, a whole lot of crap happened and he broke up with me and I still miss him like every day. I've been out and about alot and my girls have been like wicked supportive but it's been a few weeks and I still cry about it every day. I can't stop thinking about him or anything and I feel pathetic. So how can I get up and move past him?

first of all your not pathetic this is what you call life and love honey you cant make your sekf get over him it will happene but u cant force it thats just the way life is. so keeping going with your friends it will get better day by day

Jazzy**

p.s WE ALL GO THROUGH IT

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so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do???

sorryyy but i dont think there really is much that you guys can do because your so young. i hope things change so yall can go out'



Jazzy**

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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?

not is't not weird. people do it all the time and their ages be much further apart.I did the same thing


Jazzy*8
good luck on your relationship :)

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To graduate high school I had to take a theater class but I wasn't really into that stuff so instead of doing my assignments, my teacher let me do other things for grades (stay after and clean the stage, stuff like that). Whenever I'd do that, we would be together. We talked all the time and started to get really close. We ended up making out once but we didn't let it get in farther. We got together a few times outside of school for coffee and such but nothing more because we knew we couldn't


Well, now that I've graduated, he not my teacher, and I don't even go to that school anymore. So do you think it'd be okay to try to pursue a relationship with him? I'm 18 and he's 24 by the way.

im glad that you guys didnt do anything why you was his students. but your not in high school he's
not your teacher. so if you feel it's the right thing to do(and if he feel the same way) than go for it.


Jazzy***

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13/f i have a boyfriend & we have been gonig out for about 2 months. i'm wicked happy with him and i've liked him for almost a year and whenever i see him i am always smiling. i've kissed him on the cheek and i know he wants to kiss me but when we are about to do it i get kinda nervous and i know he thinks i dont wanna, but i do. howw can i be less nervouss? this isnt my first kiss, but i dk why i act like it.

stop think so much about it. You have to just let go. Your thinking to hard on what your about to do you just have to close your eyes and do it. hope it work out

Jazzy** ;)

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Hello, I'm 13 and I really like this guy and I've liked him 4 about three years... and I told him i really like him and he sed he likes me to. And I want him 2 be my boyfriend so bad and I know he will say yes. But we go 2 different schools and I barely ever see him. And I'm going crazy trying 2 decide what to do... And I also want 2 kiss him.. But I'm not sure what he would do.

your only 13 take a chance you have so many more years ahead of you try it. make him your boyfriend and if dosent work it's just one of those lessons that you have to learn. YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN. go ahead kiss him if he likes you to i dont think it would be a problem.

Jazzy**

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(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be?

i dont think that he's ready and that might break up the relationship because some of the things you said he said makes me think maybe it's not the best time for him just wait

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I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?

you can try to convince her to do it. or you have to be a man and grant her wishes but still be her friend

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Okay my friend is 14, soon to be 10th grader and her boyfriend is a senior. So she's having sex. Her parents don't know.. but she has NO problem flaunting it around everywhere.
She's doing it because she thinks she's in love and she doesn't want to be alone. Being alone is her biggest fear so she latches onto any good guy, you know? I've known her for 5 years and I've seen it over and over.
And a couple of people think her boyfriend is only in on the sex.
They have only been going out for about 6 months.

Should I try to talk to her? Or talk to her parents?
Because she keeps hurting herself.
And I've seen her cry in her sleep and it bothers me..
She's going way too far and I don't want her to get hurt.

I know your trying to look out for her but if you talk to her parents you will LOSE HER FOREVE (trust me) try talking to her and tell her stop moving so fast her life hasnt started yet. and if things start to get deeper than you go to the parents


Jazzy**


Than in that case do what you got to do. in the end you will be a better than she could have been.

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I'm 17 and my boyfriend will be turning 19 soon. We have been together for several months, but this is the first birthday that has come during our relationship. I have no idea what to get him! I know whatever I get him should come from the heart & be sentimental but I was thinking things along the line of a few tshirts he likes, gift cards, a new wallet, cologne, things like that. Any ideas/suggestions would be great appreciated!

boys are hard to buy for no matter what age so when my b/f turned 19 i took him to a store of his choice and let him got anything he wanted. so just give a gift card (atleast you know he will like it because he picked it)

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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer..

i feel you But i dont think that you have to break up with him just let him know that he bet not do it again because you or your friend isnt havin that shit

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I met this guy in like, February. Freaking awesome. He was totally hitting on me and he was always smiling. We hooked up that night. I gave him my number, just to see if he would call me. 2 weeks later he did. He said he enjoyed his time with me and wanted to hand out again. We tried to get together for 4 months, but nothing worked. I won't get into detail on that. Everytime I talk to him, he ALWAYS makes me smile and feel wonderful about myself. He said he appreciates it when I call and when I talk to him. He said he doesn't care what other people think. He said that he really likes me and wanted to be more than friends. Well we became more than friends. Ever since then I've been feeling like I love him, not like him. I mean like really love him. My horoscopes make perfect sense, my intuition is leading me in the right direction, and I've been oh so happy. I told him that he makes me feel like I'm worth something and he said, "You deffinately are." He helped me get through a tough time, and he helped me stop cutting. I helped him stop smoking...for a while, and he's just perfect for me. I just don't know how to tell him I want to date him. plus, my dad doesn't like this at all, and i want him to understand. Any ideas? SORRY IT WAS SO LONG.

follow your heart if you feel like he's worth it than tell him and your dad will start to like him when he see how much he makes you happy. Good for you i wish all can find happiness like you did

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me and my boyfriend just had a fight..a really big one, i screwed up i know. but i apologized
he hasnt called me in over 3 weeks. so i guess that means were not datin anymore?
i tried textin him about a week ago tellin him that i was sorry. he didnt reply, and he didnt call me back. i want to know whats going on with him sooo badly!!! i want to call him sooo bad, but i dont want to make it seem like im desperate. but i dont want to wait around either. i need him in my life..i just dont know what to do. and if i do call him..i dont want everything to be akward silence, i want everything to pick up the way we left it..i just dont know. help!!

honey if your in love you always look desperate sometimes you have to put your pride to the side to get what you want. if you love him and need him that much make the phone call better yet go to his house and get your man.

Jazzy**

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hey! well i have always thought this one kid was really adorable, sweet and everything but i have never talked to him in my life well i was over at my friends house and he i/m her and said somethin and i was like heyy this is lexie my friend is upstairs and then we kinda started talkin but then....he had to go :[ and he saw what i looked like and said i was only alright...well then the next day i added him on myspace and left him a message saying hey werent you the one i was talkin to the other night tryin to act stupid and i was like well yeah i was just checkin! but he never responded back..and now i feel like a total idiot!! what do you think i should do?...because i really wanted to talk to him again and was hoping he would send me a message back or something but does this mean that he does not want to talk to me or what?
thanks..

first dont send him any more messages you dont want to be like a (stalker) any way calm down and relax sooner or later he'll say something you have to have patience. you cant rush it. but if you feel like your waiting to long have your friend say something to him for you that always work


Jazzy** GOOD LUCK

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Ok, so there's this guy that really likes me, we'll call him Joe. Joe is going out wiht my best friend we'll call Sarah. Well Joe dosen't even like Sarah and I have a boyfriend, but I like Joe a lot.
I like my boyfriend AND Joe.
Joe really likes me, like once, we almost kissed. We got close and then my cell phone rang.
My boyfriend is sweet and I love him to death, but I don't know what to do.
Like if I dump my boyfriend then go for it with Joe, Sara will hate me!
What to do what to do?

I'm just really confused. please help.

you cando what you want but i DONT RECOMMEND you mess with koe friends are forever boys are whatever so what if you mess with joe sarah stop being your friend then joe play you your gonna need sarah. STICK WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND

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