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attached to my first
my boyfriend and i have had sex before. i love him and really care about him and i wouldve rather lost it to someone i care for a lot now then i wouldve to someone when im 21 and dont care about them. for our 3 months he got me a ring, a really nice ring, but it wasnt a promise ring or anything he just likes to buy me a gift every now and then so i have something to remind me of him. sometimes i feel though that because of the ring and because of having sex [he was my first] that im trapped. i mean right now im happy with him, but about a month ago it got weird and i felt like this was never ending, we broke up, but got back together, but i mean, is it just me or does everyone seem attached to their first?
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honey we all feel attached to our first. that is normal every gurl has felt or is still feeling that way becasue yall shared something so there will always been attachment
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Yes, it is normal to feel that way to your first love. You feel attached, and not wanting to be with anyone else and to keep that person forever. Don't feel ashamed of what happened in the past. And also it sounds like you are getting a little insecure about your relationship. Try taking it a little slow, talk with your boyfriend about the relationship and keep in touch, so you will get the feeling that you have him, and you care for him and that's what matters.
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