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I think I'm pregnant..
So, over the summer I fell in love with my best friend. You see, I moved to Germany and left him behind and went to visit him over the summer. Well, we slept together, numerous times. Towards the end of the summer I got a UTI (a urinary track infection)... and I couldn't get it treated until I got back to Germany. So my mom made a doctors appointment for 2 days after I got back. Well, the doctor wanted to give me a pap smear, but she checked my urine and found too much bacteria in it, so the pap smear wouldn't make a difference. Now I've been taking medicine for my infection for almost a week. yet I'm still bleeding a little bit, and I bled the whole week and a half I had it. Which I don't know if that was my period gone astray or if it was because of the UTI. I've been noticing some symptoms of pregnancy. I'm eating more, peeing more, feeling nauseous in the morning, and sometimes all day. My boobs are swollen and I've been tired a lot. And I'm going to try and get a pregnancy test sometime this week, but I'm afraid. I'm not afraid of being pregnant, I'm afraid of not being pregnant. I love my boyfriend very much, and can't stand to be away from him anymore. His parents won't even let him come visit me. Maybe if I was pregnant, they'd have to let him come? And if not, I'd have something of his... something we CREATED together to keep me sane. Do you think I could be pregnant? Or just crazy? Maybe it's from stress. I know if you think you're pregnant, you're body will sometimes think you're pregnant as well and you'll get the symptoms.
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It sounds like your pregnant. But you even said yourself && you can make yourself think you are pregnant. So no one on this site can be positive that you are pregnant or not. Your best bet would be taking a pregnancy test soon. And hopefully it comes out like you want it too. Heres a site & as far as everything on this site you are pregnant.
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-As for the bleeding Im not sure if your boyfriend is your first . ( took your virginty) Bit if he was then just the whole fact of the cherry being popped & you being streched down there may being causing the bleeding. It happened to my friend when she lost her virginty.
as for the boyfriend. Im glad you love him but getting pregnant just so you can be together && have him go to germany may not of been the right think to do. What if his parents dont let him go to germany? Raising a kid on your own till you go see your boyfriend again is probly verrry hard. and it may keep you sane but kids can also drive you insane.
But you sound like a veryy strong female && i bet you can get through this.
Hope i helped
Kimm:)
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this is a maybe or maybe not question because you can be causin g your symptoms like you said but then you can be did ou guys use protection im guessing not since you think you pregnant all i would say is take the test and i hope you get the answer you want.
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Hey there hun! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your AG on this lovely monday evening ( or morning, or night... I have no clue what time it is where you are ). I'm no doctor, and frankly I'd rather not become one (blood... ick...) but it sounds to me by the symptoms you described in the earlier message that you indeed are pregnant. I'm 16, so I've never been pregnant before, but I've heard about it and I think you hit the nail on the head. I can't give you a positive answer, that's what pregnancy tests do, but I can guess that you are carrying your boyfriend's child. First off, please let me inform you that having a baby around may ruin your relationship with your bf, but it could help it all the same. You shouldn't hope that you're pregnant to paste together your relationship. I know it hurts to lose someone you love, and it probably scares you to look ahead. It scares everyone. Ever notice how a child seems to be wary before they try something as simple as a food? They get scared too. It's natural. Don't fret one bit until you've got a positive yes/no answer. But don't count on your bf coming to your side. You may be out of luck there. For the most part, you sound so excited to have this child. And GOOD FOR YOU! Many women become very scared and have abortions or become rather clingy to other people. You're facing this situation head-on. Great, great job! I'm proud of you for that. Honey, whatever happens, don't be scared of the future. Embrace what happens with open arms. you'll need a positive attitude for the baby, if it even exists (once again not giving you a yes or no answer ^^). I wish you the best, best of luck with your boyfriend. I really hope things work out with you and you have a beautiful baby and end up together with him. Disney ending would fit you just fine.
If the advice isn't to your liking, or if you are unsatisfied, there are plenty of more Advice givers that can kick what I just said in the rear. (I sound like a corny advertisement xD). So don't be afraid to turn to any one of us. I really hope things work out and my advice helps.
Luvs
~PPP~
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I can't tell you what is going on with your body, but these are a couple of links from coolnurse.com that may give you some information you are looking for. Of course it is possible that you are pregnant. It's always a possibility the minute you have unprotected sex. It's even possible with protection. You should definitely keep that doctors appointment! You may also ask your doctor to test you for sexually transmitted diseases (STD) if you don't have a UTI or aren't pregnant.
Word of advice: NEVER try to be pregnant or hope to be pregnant with the thoughts of having your boyfriend around, no matter how much you love him. That is a very immature way to look at it, and is very unfair to the child you may or may not bring into this world. That child is a little person, not a tool.
And having a child won't help to keep you sane. A baby is a HUGE responsibility, and raising a child is very tiring and stressful.
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