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I'm Pathetic!
Ok, well I had this boyfriend for a few months. He was my perfect guy, the type I've always dreamed about, my dream guy. In that amount of time, we went through alot together and I came as close to loving him as I've come to anyone ever (you know, in that way). Well, a whole lot of crap happened and he broke up with me and I still miss him like every day. I've been out and about alot and my girls have been like wicked supportive but it's been a few weeks and I still cry about it every day. I can't stop thinking about him or anything and I feel pathetic. So how can I get up and move past him?
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its hard, its easier for people to be like oh get over him he's not worth it anyway. just realize that you can do better and involve yourself in new things and don't think about him as much. i know thats easier said then done. but your doing good by hanging out with friends... remember they are always there to lend you a helping hand. just hang out with friends... have a girl's night out to take your mind off things. maybe get back on the dating scene! good luck!
-Bess
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If you really really cared for him or even loved him like it sounds like you did, it's only natural for you to still be upset over him even a few weeks after you broke up. Stay busy and hang out with your girl friends alot and try to think about yourself and what you need right now, more than you need him.
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My friend had the same problem and yes she cryed for a couple weeks but you have to think to yourself and say is he right for me, sometimes you have to just move on find someone new, but if you really like this guy find out if he feels the same way, and then work it out with him.
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i have a couple things you nmight be able to do. you can either talk to him, maybe you have a chance back with him. or you can find someone new. and he can take the pain out of losing yur love.
hope im a help:)
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first of all your not pathetic this is what you call life and love honey you cant make your sekf get over him it will happene but u cant force it thats just the way life is. so keeping going with your friends it will get better day by day
Jazzy**
p.s WE ALL GO THROUGH IT
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its ok itll take time its only been a couple of weeks youre not pathetic we all been through breakups and time heals everything youll meet new guys and hes not the last guy on earth the sooner you feel your feelings the more youll get over it later on just dont block your sadness out stubbornly now cuz ull feel it l8er on
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It takes time to slowly get over a boyfriend that you truly loved and cared for. I had quite a few boyfriends that it took me several months just to get over him. Try hanging out with your friends more often and have a good time with them. And also, try going out with other guys if you are up to. (If not that's OK). Don't feel pathetic at all about how you are feeling. Things will get better. It usually does. Or you can try talking to the guy you were with to see if there is a possibility of going back together soon or later on.
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i don`t think you should feel pathetic!! a lot of girls have been through this before. including me.. well, i don`t think he actually the perfect guy for you because he broke up with you.. &&part of a relationship is when you fight you learn how to stay together and work things out.
It`s great that ure girls have been supportive, it`s nice to have friends that really care. One boy isn`t everything, you`ll find someone perfect for you when the time is right. remember, there are many fish in the sea. but for now, hang with ure friends and chillax for a while..
=] good luck
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