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so i like this guy alot. he's really nice and sweet and funny and he likes me a lot too. he told me this about two days ago, then broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out. he hasn't asked me out yet, and i dont know what to say. i really do want to go out with him, but there hasn't been one girl he's gone out with that he hasn't cheated on.. so what would make me any different? should i talk to him? he's a really great guy but i'm just not dowm with the cheating thing.

You probably won't know until you ask him because there is a chance he could cheat, like you said.. he has cheated on every girl he's gone out with. I would talk to him & ask him how you would be any different, tell him anything that's on your mind about it. Good luck, girl. Hope everything turns out alright.

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I was just at the slopes last night, and i saw this really cute guy. me and him made eye contact the whole night, then at the end i saw his friend and told him that his friend was cute. He then told him, then the guy came up to me and i got his number. I dont know if i should call him or when to call him. I'm also afraid that if i do call he will think im weird, or we wont have anything to talk about. Any ideas what to do?

He must like you if he gave you his phone number. I wouldn't call right away, I'd give it a few days because I play hard to get but that's just me. If you want to do that you can or if you want to call him right away that's totally fine. When you have a conversation just talk about if he had fun at the slopes, school, friends, family, life, what's he doing next weekend, ask if he wants to hang out, etc. hope that helps & good luck! :]

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Alright, I need some cute pet names! The ones I usually use are like "cutie, sweety, honey" you know, the norm.

if you guy could, it would help A LOT, just anything, and if its something a little...odd, explain please? lol. one day I called him stud muffin.. it was really funny, but he didnt like it :D

thanks a lot guys!

I usually call my boyfriend handsome, sweets, babe, or baby. If you can make an abreviation out of his name than you can use that, like my boyfriend's name is Kevin Montgomery so I call him K Mo most of the time, too.

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ok so i use to go out with this boy named jacob he was soo sweet . nice . lovin . caring basicly wat a girl wants inna guyy but the only problem was . was that he was boring we never did anything other than go to each others houses . but thats beside the point . we broke up i think the beginin of December because i just felt like it wasnt goin any wher . now i miss him more than ever i didnt think i would want him bac but the tables turned on me & i really miss him ALOT & i wanna get bac together with him . i mean we didnt even speck after we broke up & yesterday was the 1st day sence . but i found out he has a girl friend . idk wat to do i mean if hes happy i dont wanna mess anything up because im not THAT big of a bitch ya kno . im scared 2 tell him how i feel cause he'll prolly just be like well your the one who broke up with me & i dont feel like hearing it .. WAT DO I DO ??

thanks for yall who answer me

I'd wait until him & his girlfriend break up. If you tell him that you still like him now & it effects him, he'll end up being very confused on who he should go to. If he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, that's totally unfair to his girlfriend. So, just wait until something happens to them than you can tell him. Don't mess up anything for them right now though.

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I like two wondeful guys, they like me too. I really can't decide between them. If I could merge them to one person, I would call him mr.perfect! I can't make up my mind! What guy do you think sounds best?

Guy #1:
hot, brunett, goes to my class, popular, sensetive, confident (not really, just pretends to be), same humor as me, but don't have alot in commmon, lives in the city, globetrotter, short for a guy (but taller than me), looks up to his best friend, totally charmig and a smile to die for! Style: Trendy and casual

Guy #2:
hot, blond, goes to my best friends class (stil same school though), semi-popular within class, lack of confidence exept when it comes to music and sports, same humor, have alot in common (exact same music taste!), very tall, plays giutarr like a god, writes songs, down to earth, totall cutie and has puppy eyes. Style: punk/rock and casual

In order to make your desision on who might ound the best, a short description of me:
brunett,exentric, talkative, cute, weirdo, playful, could be serious when needed, have a history of BAD X-es, (don't wanna sound ego but-) popular, can hang out with anyone, very nery intrests though (like starwars, battlestargalactica and chemistry). Style:Chic and laidback

There, descripetions of my to guys and me. Which one sounds best? PPLEASE HELP! Guy#1 or Guy#2??? Because I'm clueless, I really can't decide, I like them both in different ways!
please help me!

I think #2 sounds better. You describe #2 like you like him a lot more than #1 because you say #2 plays guitar like a god & down to earth. For #1, you don't have a lot in common with him.. if you don't have a lot in common with someone, you're relationship probably won't last very long. You get along better with #2, you're both popular, & you both have the same humor. You also say he's good looking, too, & that also adds on when he has a good personality. I'm not saying #1 has a bad personality, but I think you're a better match with #2. Good luck! :]

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i'm always scared to IM this kid, I mean I kinda like him, but I also just wanna be friends w/ him & i feel tottalyyy weird, just being like hey! like.. i dno. should i just IM him? or will he think im tottaly weird or something??!

Yes, IM him. He won't think you're weird, he'll more than likely think you're trying to be friendly & be friends with him.

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Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say!

Just ignore the height differance. I dated a guy that was shorter than me & no one really seemed to care. Talk to him like you usually do whenever you're around him. If he doesn't know that you like him, tell him. :]

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theres this boy and hes been going to my school for like 3 weeks and he is like a thug boy and my best friend really likes him but i do to and he is such a flirt with all of us.i just cant get him out of my mind. he hangs out with us all the time but he has a girlfriend. And just the other day he asked me out when he had a fight with his girlfriend...i said no but deep inside i was thinking yes! so if he asks me out again what should i say? also i dont wanna hurt my homies feelings

I wouldn't go out with him. If you two end up going out & you have a fight, he'll more than likely go to another girl & ask her out. I can't believe he did that to his girlfriend, that's just horrible. If you did start going out with him, your best friend would probably be very sad because she likes him & you'd be going out with him. So, I'd save the drama & your friendship & not go out with him.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we have a great relationship for the most part but lately we've been fighting a lot...the other day he got a message from his ex gf on his myspace and he replied to it. i told him it bothered me and he told me it was okay and that he was only gonna say that. then today i came home and he left his myspace up on my computer so i checked the messages which i know i shouldnt have done but i found more messages back and fourth with her. i dont know if i should be mad or not but i feel like i cant say anything because i kind of violated his privacy but it really does bother me. i know he doesnt like her i just feel uncomfortable with it. HELP PLEASEEE!!

If he's flirting with her on the messages, question him about it. If it's just a normal conversation that two friends would have, let it go. Just because they're friends doesn't mean that there's anything going on between them. Keep in mind he's with you & not with her, so you shouldn't have anything to worry about. :]

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what are some good gifts you can get your boyfriend for valentines day?
thanksss

If you've been going out with your boyfriend for a while, you could make him a scrapbook. I made one for my boyfriend & gave it to him for Christmas & he loved it. It's so much fun to work on, too. If you only have a few pictures of you guys together, you could pick your favorite picture, frame it, & decorate the frame. Last Valentine's Day, I gave my boyfriend a big box of his favortie candy & he loved that, lol. Another thing you could do is you could get you & him tickets to his favorite sports game.

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i'm trying to get as many peoples opinions as possible, so please answer honestly: if you went to a school that is pretty open minded and liberal, etc, (this is a question about two girls, so ignore the homophobic aspects, pretend thats not an issue, what i'm talking about is age) do people think it would be weird for a junior and a freshman to go out? you see it all the time with older guys and younger girls, but would any of you think it was strange if it were two girls?

No, people don't think it's weird. It's a pretty common thing in high school when older guys date younger girls & vise versa. Some people don't think anything of it if two girls would go out & of course some do but like anything else, they'll get used to it.

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Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.

I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?

If you have these feelings for him, the best thing you can do is break up with him. Don't feel bad about it because it happens in a lot of teenage relationships. If you keep leading him on, than he's gonna think think that you still like him & than he'll probably be more hurt. So if you're going to break up with him, do it soon.

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me and my bf have been dating for 3 months today! and i love him... i really do! and he loves me too! we pretty much been each others first for everything! first real love you know? and well we talked about having sex tomorrow and i really want to but i want peoples oppinions! i'm 14 and he is 16 but we are both fish in highschool!

also how much does it bleed when a boy "pops your cherry"?!

Oh geez girl, you're way too young. Yes, a lot of people do lose their virginity in high school but not many do when they're 14. If you want our opinions on if you should do it or not, you're not ready to lose it. You guys haven't been going out for very long either, three months isn't a long time at all. Just wait for a while until you guys are in a serious relationship, like about a year or so, than you can both can talk this over again. If something happens between now & about a year that causes you guys to break up, than you'll be thankful that you didn't lose your virginity to him. You'd more than likely regret it & think to yourself that you should have waited.

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When you get asked out on a date or asked to go out with someone... how would you say 'yes'?

Would it be like 'yeah sure' or what?

I'd just simply say yes, I'd love to, or deffinately. If you were being asked face to face, then I'd smile while telling the person your response.

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is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering



15/m

Some people take acne as a huge turn off & others don't really care about it. It all depends on the person & how they feel about acne.

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There is this kid and he really likes me. He says im beautiful and pretty and all this other stuff. Now.. he asked me out and i kinda said yes cuz i didnt want to be mean. but i dont really like him, like he has nice abs and he's a nice person, but i dont really like him,... if you know what i mean. What do i do? i already said yes... and i've never been on a date before. im a little nervous. :( ugh! i have no clue what to do...fake sick maybe? lol

Just give him a chance. See how it goes on your first date & if it's not that great, you could break it off with him & tell him you liked it better when you were friends. If the date went well & you start liking him, hang on to him for a while & see how things go.

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Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?

Thanks!!

Whenever my boyfriend & I would go to a movie & my parents had to take him home, I walked him to the door. It shows that you care about him & you boyfriend would think it'd be very sweet, so don't stay in the car. Have fun on your date!

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15/M Is it normal for a 15 year old guy to never have had a girlfriend? I have plenty of chances; I'm not desperate or anything. Girls say that I am cute or hot, and I talk to girls regularly. But I don't think that I am ready to have a girlfriend yet because I still act very immature, and I don't think that girls like that. I look phyically mature, but I'm not really emotionally mature. I mean, I don't act like that when I'm with them. Of course I want a girlfriend, but I know that I am not ready for it. But back to my question, is it normal for a 15 year old boy to never have had a girlfriend?

Yes, it is normal for a 15 year old boy to never have a girlfriend. If you're not ready to have a girlfriend yet that's perfectly fine. When you're ready to have one, you'll do great. You have nothing to worry about.

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Okay..I Like dis Guy But he dated my friend and my sisters bestfriend and he broke up with her lastnight at the club or whatever so we danced and you know how you get that stupid feeling and that stupid look in your eyes and you all just kiss? well that happened to me but we didnt kiss i told him he dated my friend. and i mean i relly like dis guy but friends are better than any guy but i dunno i mean i like him what do i do?

If you're friends with your sister's best friend, then I think you should talk to her before you go out with that guy. If she really liked him, then you're going to end up hurting her. If she does still like him, I think you should move on to another guy or wait till she likes a new guy but if she said she doesn't like him anymore, then go for it.

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ok so this year me and my ex have 2 classes together and whenever im around him all my old feelings for him come back. We broke up a long time ago, and we remind friends but he to told me that all of the old feelings are coming back. we joke around and hang out and we get along great....but im not sure ifwe should get back together. We roke up because I moved away...but then i moved back and we said that we should be friends but now we both want more. Should I get back together with him or no? Any help would be amazing.

Aw, you guys only broke up because you moved away & now you're back & you guys don't fight or anything so I think getting back together would be great for you two since he said his old feelings are coming back for you & you want to get back together with him. I hope everything works out for you, good luck!

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