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ok my boyfriend asked me this question and i dont know what to do. ok first of i am 14 and my boyfriend 15 (turnin 16 in sept)and well i have known him for 3 months but i have been going out with him for 2 weeks and everything has been going great except one thing.. MY PARENTS. out of two week i have only seen my boyfried once...y bc i meet him online and i talked to him on the phone then meet up with him at the mall with a friend.. i noe i shouldnt be meetin up wit guys online but i did it. (plz dont say anyhting about that because i already did it) my parents wont let me out of the house. my boyfriend gave my two things i can do 1) either wait until i am 16 and he is willin to wait for me and in the mean time we stay close friends (i dont know about that i am scared that i will never have a secondchance) or 2) keep going like this and see my boyfriend wheveer i can?? dont knwo what to do?? i mean sometimes i will probably be able to see my boyfriend once every 2 months and i dont want to hold him back from liking or going out with other girls.. does someone one get what i am talking about?? can someone please helps me out??? i need some advice on what to do?? and i cant fallow my heart it is confussed...
well it really all depends on how much you like and TRUST (
hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?
If I were you I would call him up and talk to him for a REALLY long time. It doesn't matter what you talk about (school, friends, party's, etc.). Just kinda laugh and carry on the conversation and let him get to know you better, while at the same time your getting to know him a lil more. Then after yall have been talking for like an hour or so I guess, just tell him that you like him. Of course you don't want to just blurt it out, but say it kind of slowly and not straight to the point. Be like.. well I've been meaning to tell you something, and I don't want you to think of me differently, but I really like you and I've always felt that you've hated me.. or something like that ya know? I really hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!! an keep me posted!
I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
omg your JUST liek me!! i do that too! i've been doing it since like the 6th grade (in 11th grade now) i haven't told anyone about it, i just wear pants all the time and if i wear skirts or roll my pj pants up a little bit.. or if i wear a sleaveless shirt. Nobody ever notices it as long as whenever you do deside to show your legs or raise your arms, their smooth.. plus if someone does find out, be like it's winter and im not gonna where shorts of skirts and show my legs right now anyway, so why waste my time in doing it. make up some stupid excuse that's pointless, but makes sense.. It's perfectly normal, i wouldn't worry about it.
I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?
just ask her and get it over with.. if u leave notes in her locker, yeah it'll flatter her alot.. but she might find it kinda weird not knowing who it is thats writting her.... but hey, thast just me-- hope i helped! Keep me posted on what happens!! (like wut u do, and what she says)
ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and i think our relationship is just based on sexuality and looks... i mean when we first started our relationship we were like awesome friends and we loved to talk all the time and now i feel as if we never talk anymore and he isnt the person i once thougtht he was.. like we never talk anymore and i feel all we do is like make out... i try to read books and see if he is interested in what they have to say and sometimes they have poetry and i leave him sweet notes in his locker but we still like never talk anymore... help!
how do i tell him how to change without looking like im tryin to make him the person i want him to be?
awww. you kinda sound like me. but i've been goin out with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I thought at one point that our relationship began to become about sex to so i told him that we should stop for a little while and he was fine with it. that's when i knew that our relationship was more because i told him i didnt want to and he respeted my decision and didnt try to talk me out of it. Just tell your boyfriend that you want to stop for a little while, if he's okay with it then your good, but if he doesnt then ask him why it's so improtant to him b/c use to he didnt really seem to mind, but now thats all he thinks about. i hope everything turns out!
->ME!
See my boyfriend isaac lives s=in a hole diffrent town but this other boy Colton lives in the same town and he goes to my school how can i cheat on isaac without him noing.
you shouldnt cheat on him period.. if you dont like him enough to just have him and only him then you should be dating him. how would you like it if he cheated on you behind your back? just think about if he finds out.. he's probabley gonna dump u
i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
ur a dumbass! lol i've had the same problem but it just turned out that i over reacted and wasnt pregnant.. i hope the same turns out ofr u--I'll pray for u
ok i like this gurl and i want to tell her and this is my plan but i want to kno if its corny or not. ok i was gonna ask her to take a walk with me and then take her hands and b like "i really like u and i was wondering if u could see me as a b/f?" abd then also if she says yes wat am i sapposed to do and wat do i do if she says no?
awww! thats soo sweet!! you should definatly do that! if she says yes be like, "really? cuz i was real nervouse that you were going to say no, but i'm really happy you said yes b/c i didnt think you even looked twice at me." (*say it with a big smile on your face*) then just try to find stuff out about her. ask her where her favorite place is to eat, then that weekend on your first date, you should take her there. i hope i helped! i wish you lots of luck! -->ME!
I was talking to the guy i like, and I thought that he liked me, so i started asking him who he liked and i was going to tell him that i liked him if he liked me, but he didnt like me ( i thought he might have been lieing because he thought i didnt like him) so i just made up a person, and said i liked 2 people. He guessed that i liked him but i was like NOOO! cause it would be embarrasing (plus hes my bestfreinds ex). Should i have told him the truth?
(sory this was so confusing)
yes you definatly should've told him the truth! but you didnt need to sound like you were obsessed with him just sounded like you liked him but if he didnt like you then you could get over it and it would be okay.. like you wouldnt kill yourself if he didnt like you back-- i hope that makes sence-->ME!
im in 7th grade , nd theres this 7th nd 8th grade dance comin up , nd i wanna go wit this guy , but im not sure if , he wants to go wit me, should i ask him to the dance???? plz help
Well what I would do is have my best friend go up to him and ask him if he would ever go to the dance with you. Your friend doesnt need to ask him to the dance FOR YOU. But she needs to let him know that SHE thinks you might be interested. She needs to say somthin like..>so would you ever go to the dance with -(ur name)-?< an he's probabley going to say >i dunno why?< and your friend should say >oh because i THINK she wants to go with you, but she wont admit it
Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?
Of course!! anythings possible
HI!! my boyfriend dumped me for another girl and now their broke up i still have tronge feelings for him and i dont kno if i should tell him. I need help i dont kno what to do.
well if your feelings are that srong for him then never hold back, always tell. I had really strong feelings for this one guy but i never took the chance to tell him about it. Then later on i told him, but it was already to late. i was really upset and really dissapointed. Your ex-boyfriend seems like an okay guy because obviously he really cares about you and respects you enough to break up with you and go out with that other girl. Most guys wouldn've done it behind your back without telling you. Just always keep him in check, ask him questions about it every now an then, but not to often because then he'll start to get annoyed by it. Find out what he likes about you the most and make sure you'll always have it. Like if you have long hair and thats what he likes about you most, then dont cut it off, keep it. Or if he likes your smile and/or your laugh make sure you always show/let him hear it when your around him. I really hope that helped..if you have any more questions fill free to ask and i'll answer the best i can!-->ME!
I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!
We dont get to pick the people we fall in love with they just come into your life and bring a whole new meaning an purpose to it weather you expect it to or not. In this world you have to take chances or you'll never know whats real and whats fake. Think about it this way. Would you rather take a chance and yall stay together forever or not take a chance and spend the rest of your life wondering if yall would still be together or not. Or it could turn out that he hurts you and yall break up. but trust me its so much more worth it for him to hurt you and KNOW yall weren't meant to be than break up and not know. Face-it you've already fallen for this guy so if you break up with him, you're only going to be hurting yourself.
You know whats going to happen? your going to be so worried about him hurting you, that eventualy your going to be the one that hurts him.
15/f. I have liked this guy since last year. And he told me last week that he liked me too. I am not allowed to date until I turn 16, which is in a week or so. The thing that worries me about going out with this guy is that he has done things that I have never done. I've never made out wiht a guy and he has made out with all the girls he's gone out with, and he has fingered a girl. I wouldn't mind making out with him, but getting fingered is not what I want to do. What should i do if he tries to finger me. Thanks in advance.
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Unsure
I was nervous the first time i got fingered too. I didn't really know how to act or what to do. Just let him do it, I mean it's not like you can get pregnant or anything. If you don't do it now, you'll have to do it later. I mean if you say no then the next time this situation comes along your going to be even MORE nervous. If you really don't want him to do it, then he should respect that about you and wait until your ready. But you've liked this guy for a year, why wouldn't you let him do it? obviously there is something that you REALLY like about this guy to have like him for soo long. If you loose him you might regret it. But then again, if he doesn't respect your decision, than he's not worth it.
Me and my girlfriend are going out.We have goten in trouble twice for macking out in school and people are spreading rumors about us . We both want to stay yo gether but its going in the back of our mind that we want to break it off too. We also cant hangout with each other.I dont think its fair to the both of us . should i break it off or try to keep the relationship
i think you should try to keep your relationship. we have somthing in common because i don't get to hang out with my boyfriend all that much either, and people do say bullshit about us, but we've grown to love eachother so much. It's kind of an advantage because if you and your girlfriend did get to spend time together it would be like everyday and yall would get sick of eachother, but if u see eachother every now an then, you'll appreciate your time together alot more.->ME!
I love this guy so much. His name is Ryan and he lives in Florida, I live in Texas. We talk to each other on the internet and on the phone and we've gotten in alot of fights and he would tell me sweet things like "Molly, you're so perfect I love you" and my friends tell me not to feed off of his words but I can't help it! He's in love with another girl but she lives far away too. I love him sooooo much and I'm in love with him but it's stupid cause I haven't even met him. And I know he doesn't love me back. Please help!
I was in love with a guy on the internet once too. His name was matt, he was 19 an lived in Florida. We stopped talking for a little while. Then 3 years later i imed him again on another screen name, so he wouldn't know it was me. He was STILL 19 years old, and sent me the same EXACT picture that he first sent me 3 years ago. If i were u, i wouldn't take my chances on this guy. You've only talked to him on the phone. You know nothing about his background. For all you know he could be a mass murdrer, or hell he might even be a priest-- who knows.. i would stop talking to him, if yall are TRUELY ment to be together, it'll work out. Yall might meet at a bar, or a grocery store. Let him go, and see if yall join back together..-- hope i helped!->ME!
well i need advice on where to have my new years party. i dont want to have it at my house becuase my parents would never let me and my firend wont have it at her house and we are trying to beat this other party that people are going to so i need advice and help on where we should have it at. i will rate for effort,
go buy some alcohol and get drunk and by that time it wont matter where you are or who your with!!!
i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should.
you cant just expect him to make the moves because u told to.. but have to teach him-- everyday, tell him wut u want him to do and maybe he'll get the hang of it, and keep doing it more, WITHOUT you having to say sumthing to him-- Maurie
oh. well i have a friend, and we both have gotten wicked close in the past two years. we hang out with each other and all our friends and its usually at her house. but all of a sudden i started talking to her brother a lot. he talks to me online and stuff and we make plans together. i dont want anything to go on between us because i know that if something goes wrong then i might lose her friendship, which is really tough to get anyway. me and her family [including her brother] have plans this week and he said he was going to show me how to play the guitar. what should i say to him? cuz i really do like him. thanks x0x0 * jp
i say go 4 it!! but if u really love ur friend an wanna still hang-out with her.. boyfriends come and go but friends always remain the same.. just keep that in mind an hopfully you'll be able to decide.