Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.
It depends on the girl. I'm a girl and I actually play video games a lot...I love them. And, I also like computers. SO, it just depends on who the girl is and what they are into.
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!
Hey hunny!
You definetely did the right thing. No one deserves to be beaten. I know, even though he may have hurt you, you may still love him, but you deserve much better!!!! You were strong and smart about breaking up with him. Stay strong and if you ever feel that you may go back to him...talk to someone first, and remember...YOU DO DESERVE BETTER!!! good luck hunny! If you ever need ANYTHING, im here! :)
*FallenAngel*
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dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection?
hey hunny,
it is not weird at all. i know a few people who are bi, and you know, it doesnt make you any different than any other person, it's just your sexual prefrence. If you are not sure wether or not you like girls in that way, you should experiment and figure out how you feel. It's not weird, it's very normal, good luck hunny! Hope you figure it all out :)
*FallenAngel*
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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?
of course hun! Good luck!!! :)
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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?
Hunny...I know how it feels to be insecure about your body, but just know, if he wasnt into you, he wouldn't be with you. He obviously loves you and is attracted to you, especially if he gave up looking at porn for you. Most guys, especially teenage guys, look at porn, not because their girlfriends are not "good enough",but simply because they just want to. He obviously thinks your good enough anyways since he doesnt even look at it anymore, which means he has a beautiful girlfriend so there is no point. Don't worry...don't feel hurt, some guys just like porn...no big deal. And even though he was into porn doesnt mean he wasnt into you. He wouldnt still be with you if he wasnt...just be happy he's with you and tells you you are beautiful. If he didnt believe it, he wouldnt say it. Good luck hun. :)
*fallenangel*
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I really like this guy, and he likes me , but I might be moving to another school next year, and I want our realationship to go to the next level.If you can give me some advice, I would be greatful!
You should go for it. If the relationship works out...you could stay together even IF you do move. And plus, what if you don't move...you would miss out on a great chance just because you were worried about the possibility of going to a different school. And if you do go to a diff. school next year and you are with him then you can hang out with him outside of school anyways. So, take the chance. I'm sure it'll turn out great! Good luck hunny!!!
*fallenAngel*
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hey,for april fools these guys in my grade got a really popular guy to ask a girl that is really nerdy out! and she was so excited and said yes right away and sfter she said yes he told it was an april fools joke. everyone in my grade thatought it was really funny and everybody still laughs at her!!! i feel sorry for her and i want to stick up for her but i dont want to lose my reputation!!! what should i do???
CONFUSED
What these guys did was VERY mean. It's great that you want to stick up for her, she deserves a lot better than to be treated like that. You may be worried about losing your reputation by sticking up for her, but I bet there are a ton of other kids in your grade that want to stick up for her too but don't have the guts to do it. So be the brave one and help this girl out. Just think of how lonely, depressed, and scared she must feel. I'm sure she feels absolutely horrible and if someone doesnt help her soon something bad may happen to her. The least you can do is be there for her as a friend and fellow student. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do??
If you have a really good relationship with him then you need to sit down and talk with him. If you are not ready and you want to wait, let him know that. If he really cares about you then he will understand and respect your feelings. But..if he keeps pressuring you then he is not right for you. Any boyfriend that doesnt respect you isn't good enough for you. So, if he doesnt respect your decision...then you should break up with him and find someone who will respect you. Good luck! if you need anymore help, I'm here.
*FallenAngel*
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okay listen my boyfriend id an asshole he treats me like shit and i don't know why he does i treat him with love and respect well i said i would give him one more chance i told him if he pissed me off or he broke a promise it would be done for good well he broke a promise he said he would call and he didn't so i'm really upset and i did break it off! he said it's not his fault that it's his staff's fault but that's a lie! he says he should have just one more chance so should i put up with his shit or just stay away?!?
Hunny...You have given him sooo many chances. Don't let this guy walk all over you. I know you like him a lot and you care for him, but you deserve better than that. You deserve someone that is going to treat you with the same love and respect that you treat then with. So find another guy, his loss, not yours. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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My friend "Liz" and her boyfriend "Lucas" never talk AT ALL. I hooked them up so this is my problem. He never has anything to say to her, and vise versa. He reallys likes her and i know she likes him. How do I get them talkin?
Signed,
A confused friend
Go on a double date with them...and when you do don't go to a movie bc then you can't talk anyways. a good place to go would be to the bowling alley or out to dinner. both those places will kind of break the ice. Also, having you there would definetely calm both of them down. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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I need advice and your opinion.
Hi, I have a bit of a confusing situation, but maybe it's just in my head and so could you help me out? I'm 22 and see, I've been a friend with this guy for the last three years. I met him my freshman year at college and we went on a double date with his roommate and his girlfriend. After that, we saw each other around campus but not much else. He would im me every once in a while though to talk. I noticed last January he had left school and he emailed me that following February or so telling me that he was in Iraq. I freaked of course, worried about him instantly. Since then during the summer we emailed each other off and on and messaged each other but he was the one to initiate most of the conversations while I emailed him most of the time and he was good about replying every time. Then in September he brought up the idea that he was coming home for 15 days of R and R and mentioned he was coming here to get transcipts to transfer colleges when he got back and would i want to get lunch with him? I said yes of course and he came, we had lunch and he cracked me up the entire time. He then went to get his transcipts and I went in with him, and sat for half an hour but after that time he said I didn't have to stay but I said I wanted to hang out with him and didn't mind. While all of this, he was opening doors for me and the gentlemanly things and said thanks for staying with him. We talked for about five minutes before he left and then I gave him a hug, he hugged me back of course and said he would email me. When he got back to Iraq he did email me to tell me he was safe and then we kept emailing each other off and on until Thanksgiving. Well after thanksgiving he couldn't get emails so he mentioned I could write him if I wanted. So I've been writing him since December and we write each other about every other week or so. He started out signing his letters As Always, or something like that but then switched it to love. And he says how great it is to hear from me and writes alot to me. He keeps me updated on when he thinks he is going to come home and mentions getting together this summer once he gets out of Iraq. The last letter I got from him, he told me an official date since all the changes and said he wasn't going to tell his parents though since the dates have changed alot and he just didn't want everyone knowing he was going to be home and how he wanted to be by himself for a while in peace and quiet. I've always considered us more of acquiantances before we started writing and was wondering if you thought he might be interested in me as more than friends? or does it just sound that he now considers me to be a friend, the thing is that I have never had a guy sign love to a letter who wasn't romantically interested in me and I really do care about him and have come to like him as more than a friend, am I just reading hidden signals because he didn't have to invite me to lunch or keep in contact?. Thanks :).
-Mixed but likes
Hey :) I truly think,from what you have written, that he is romantically interested in you. When he came home that time, I'm sure you were one of few people he saw, and that shows he really really cares about you. Also, since he told you the date he was coming home, and he didnt want anyone else to really know, i think that means he really wants to see you. Also, he obviously loves to talk to you since he has written to you a lot. I bet he finds comfort in you, and he finds you someone he feels he can tell anything to. When he comes home, you should try and see him. Keep talking to him and eventually you should ask him how he feels about you. Tell him you are interested in him and ask him if he would want to go on a date with you. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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Everyone says I am really rpetty, (if you wanna see me, then go to http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=winona1992
but Ive done everything to look different. When I have a new boyfriend, he only wants to have sex...help
(PLEEZ SEE MY COLUMN SO U CAN HELP ME MORE)
first off...i agree with ferngully...i think that picture is of mandy moore. and your name is winona ryde which is very close to winona ryders name. but if you are telling the truth then dont stay with a guy if he only wants you for sex. thats not right. obviously they dont appreciate who you are so instead of being with someone who only wants sex, find someone who will make you happy and treat you well.
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i have a bf who is cheating on me and wat shold i do
He's cheating on you? Dump his sorry ass. You can find someone that will treat you much better than that. You're too good for him. Don't let him walk all over you, just move on. He doesnt deserve you.
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I've liked a certain guy for over a year. I know that he used to like me, but I don't know if he still does. Whenever I get a friend to ask him, he won't answer them. But he always stares at me, which is really confusing, because it's in a good way. Like, he'll smile as he looks at me. But his friend said that he doesn't like me that way. I know that I should just get over him, but it isn't that easy. There's no other guys like him.. He's the only nice, sweet, and funny guy at my school who isn't taken. It's all so confusing.
You should talk to the guy. It sounds like he really likes you, but he must be shy. I don't think he's going to tell anyone that he does like you because he's scared you'll find out through the grape vine. I think the best thing to do is talk to your guy about how you feel about him and then ask him how he feels about you. good luck!!!
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HOW DO YOU TELL A BOY YOU LIKE HIM. BUT YOU ARE SCARED?
Telling someone how you feel about them can be very scary. For one thing, try and get to know him and try and feel really comfortable around him before you tell him how you feel. If it's still too hard to tell him in person, you might want to try and tell him in a letter, on the phone, or online. Good luck hun! :)
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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere.
I went on the pill to regulate my period a while back but I had to be taken off of it because it caused me to have migrains. Some other possible side effects are nausea, dizziness, upset stomache, and blood clots. The pill can cause blood clots, but you only have a small chance of getting one unless you smoke (then your chances increase greatly). My suggestion is talk to your doctor about all of the possible risks and side effects. There are soooo many different pills and they all could effect you differently. You could also go on Orthro Evra, which is a patch. It's more convenient. So, just talk to your doctor about all of this, I'm sure he or she will be able to help you :). Good luck hun :)! I'm sure your boyfriend will be there to support you through whatever happens too! :) but only go on the pill if YOU want to.
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