ive been hooking up with this guy for awhile and at first it was just sex but i really like him and he acts like he really likes me then does something to show he doesnt but i let him use me just so i can see him and wait till he acts like he likes me again but everytime he calls me i cant tell him no even though he just wants sex i guess i still have hope that he really likes me should i keep having sex with him?
No one should be used in anyway. Stop all of this with him, I don't think he has any real feelings for you. Guy's that do that, they don't actually care about anyone..they just want the sex.
I'm sorry, but you can find someone much better than this guy.
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I am a very emotional person, and moreso, I am a teenage girl. In my past relationships, I was left heartbroken and abandoned, cheated and lied to, promised so many things that were never fulfilled. I know this will be a long question, but hear me out.
My first boyfriend was fake. I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore. I met him at church one night and thought he was the most amazing person. However, I quickly learned he wasn't who I thought he was. He manipulated me, used me, and brought me to the point where I ran away from home for him. He pretended everything in our relationship, constantly on and off, always using me for his needs and not caring about mine. I finally broke it off for good with him.
My second boyfriend was my friend at first, and he was the same as my first. He was fake. Never kissed me, never touched me, and always talked shit about me. He faked the whole thing. It hurt, but I moved on quick.
My third boyfriend was my best friend at first. I liked him a lot because I could talk to him openly. We eventually went out for about three months, but he was very overbearing, obnoxious, and pressuring. He would always pressure me to show him my boobs. I was hurt and then thought he loved me and accepted me for me, but then he was a coward and broke up with me with a lie, saying his dad hated me. I've never even met his dad... But later found out he broke up with me because I was negative.
My current boyfriend is probably the best thing that has ever happened to me. We had a lot of hardships before we got together. I've known him since I was a freshman. Our friendship started on Facebook mostly. He would always cheer me up, and we started texting each other over the summer. I quickly fell for him, but I was so scared to tell him, so I was stupid and dated another guy. That relationship lasted three weeks, because I broke up with the other guy because I was in love with my current boyfriend. It was hard for him to forgive me afterwards, but we worked it out. He then decided to date a girl that lived by him while I was on vacation, and he called me, telling me, and I cried, telling him I was madly in love with him and I only want him and he can't date her. He earned my trust back, and we've been dating for about five months now. He is everything I have wanted in a guy. He is so patient with my insecurities, my negativity, and my sensitivity. He makes me laugh and makes me feel loved. He never yells and goes out of his way and spends every moment with me. He is so thoughtful, funny, and witty. I fell so hard for his charm and I continue to. I sometimes think I don't deserve him, but he treats me like gold. I can be my true self around him, not afraid of revealing my secrets or goals. He embraces the things I like, and he even got into a few bands I love, and he bought their merch t-shirts and such at the mall. It made me really happy. He never gives up on me when I get insecure. He sticks with me no matter what, and he never ever pressures me to do anything I don't want to. I just feel so comfortable and beautiful around him. I can't believe I found this amazing person who truly loves me for me.
I cried just a few moments ago, because I love this person so much and I'm so glad that I have him because I don't know what I'd do. I see him in my future and in my dreams and in everything I do. Is it normal to get very emotional and tear up when thinking of how lucky I am to be with him?
Of course it's normal! When you finally find someone who actually cares for you the way you need it makes you feel that way, and finally it's the good kind of tears, you know?
With what you were put threw in the past, you deserve this guy. Things may not always be perfect with him ALL the time, but the way you describe him it seems like you guys could get threw anything.
I hope I helped!
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My boyfriend got in a wreck a week or so ago. We used to see each other every weekend and every Friday. We were never apart. It was great. But now we barely see each other outside of school and I'm just not feeling our relationship anymore. This distance is terrible. I barely have the money and gas to go to his house and he has no car. We always said that the distance would never effect our relationship. I'm the first girl he ever felt strong feelings for and I never stop thinking about him, but not seeing him a lot makes me lonely and depressed. I try to hang out with friends and keep busy but I can't. How do I make these feelings go away? I could never ever break his heart.
Distance really makes things difficult, but a lot of people can get threw it. My boyfriend and I broke up since my boyfriend felt the same way you did..because he became really depressed when he couldn't see me as much as he wanted to, but that shouldn't stop you from dating this guy.
If you don't want to break his heart, than don't. Stay with him, that will show him how much you care..and since he's been in this accident, you shouldn't want to break up with him, or lose interest in him, that's not fair.
Just call him and talk to him? Ask a friend to take you to see him? Couldn't you try that? Don't make a mistake and break up with him, he seems like he'd be a nice guy..and it's SO hard to find a decent guy now a days. I hope things workout! :/
Good luck
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Okay, I really don't want to sound pathetic but this has been bothering me for a while...
Would a guy ask another girl out right in front of me to see if I would be jealous? We had been talking and just asks this other girl out who was near us. I was pretty mad...
Guy's will always try to make you jealous, I believe. I think he intentionally did that..to make you jealous, or just to purposely hurt your feelings.
I say, try to not give in to what he wants you to feel..that's ridiculous and immature.
You don't need guy
guy's like that ;3
I hope I helped!
-Emily
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 and a half year and we care and love each other very much but soemtimes when we argue, he says,'it worries him, that we are so different'. what does he exactly mean? does he want to break up or something else? because i'm quite moody and he's stubborn but at the end of the day, we forget everything and act normal. the good thing is he doesn't hold a grudge. so, if a boyfriend wants to break up does he talk like that or is he scared of loosing me or breaking up? please help. thanks everyone for your answers.
Sounds like my boyfriend and I..
It's okay..my boyfriend and I are Ying and Yang. hha
We have different taste in music, movie etc.
He still loves me for me though, I don't think he wants to break up with you, my boyfriend told me that..but we haven't broken up yet? We've been dating a year and 7 months.. So.. it's okay if you guy's don't always agree..
It's that he loves you for you, and that is all that matters..
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I really think that i'm gay over the past year i have become attracted to guys i'm almost 16 male and i get turned on by looking at guys i talk to girls and that but i'm not attracted to them i'm only like guys i really want to find a boyfriend
it is normal to feel this way?
Yes, you can't help who your attracted to..embrace who you are and don't let anyone get you down about it. :3
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My girfriend is pressuring to have sex and i'm not ready yet she's had sex before i'm a virgin
were both 16 i maybe weird but i'm not sure if she's the right girl i want to find the right girl she's talks about sex a lot so i'm not sure if i want to be with her that may sound strange but i don't want to have sex for awhile yet there's nothing wrong with that is there?
Exactly what you last said, you don't have to have sex just because your girlfriend wants you to, and if she wants to have sex so much, I think she might be using you? ;/ Girls and guys do stuff like that.
It's surprising how some girls pressure guys into sex, I never thought they did..I was wrong.
I totally understand what you mean by you want to find your right girl, you sound like a really nice guy, don't let skanky girls trouble you. haha
I hope I helped, thanks for asking me a question if you need anymore help, feel free to ask!
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i am afiad telling him 'i love u'and he doesn't love me.....i'm not sure about his love...but iam sure he likes me and he love my character
thanks....
koky
If you love him, honestly tell him you love him..if he doesn't feel the same way about you, than just wait out..and try to get to know each other better.
Hope I helped
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i am 14 and my boyfriend has asked if he can finger me he keeps asking and i dont no what to say because he has told me we will stay together if i let him but wont if i wont let him , i was worring that i am two young so what should i say ??
No guy should break up with a girl, just because they don't want to do sexual things with them..
Tell him what you want to do, if you honestly don't say "I'm not ready". If he is going to be an ass about it (Excuse my language) break up with him..you do not deserve to be treated that way.. it's SO disrespectful.
Please stay strong, and tell him yourself you won't do things like that.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
I hope I helped!
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i am in a long distance relationship and i wanted to know how can i spice up our talks. we know so much about eachother and talk about the same stuff it seem like. what are some things i can say or ask him to start or keep a conversation going. please help me
Talk about each others days, and bring up things about how you miss him, and how maybe something you've seen reminded you of him?
My best friends in a long distance relationship, and she's going threw a lot of problems. Just make sure you stay faithful to him >.<
Try to make plans, to try to find a way to see each other. Ask him where he would like to go on a date with you. Stuff like that.
I hope I helped.
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My girlfriend and i are 15 and we have been together for 6 months and she says she wants to go further sexually im a bit nervous about it the other day we were making out for awhile and then she took of my pants and she was going to pull down my underpants and i got nervous i stopped her i dont think im quite ready for sex or anything sexual yet were only 15 my penis is not that big i'm worried about it she might not like me anymore its not weird to feel this way is it?
If your not ready to have sex, than your not ready..make sure you tell her that. I think you guys should wait anyway, 6th months isn't really long enough.. but it depends on how mature you guys are.
Don't worry about it, if your uncomfortable with it..than don't have sex. Don't worry about your size, it doesn't really matter. If she doesn't like you anymore for you not having a big penis..than she is a very very, shallow girl.
If you do have sex, please make sure you use protection o.o..
I hope I helped.
Good luck!
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OK, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and i thought that i liked him but now i realize that i don't really like him, i am still in love with my past boyfriend and this is really hard i don't know what to do at all with the boyfriend that i have now??? And i think that my past boyfriend still likes me also so i am stuck between the to and did i mention that my mom and my boyfriend now's mom work together and are really close!! PLEASE HELP!!!!
I am 13 years old
and well duh i am a female.
I say, break it to you boy friend kindly..you can't stay with him if you still have feelings for your ex..make sure you tell your boy friend..so he can move on from you. :/
..Make sure you truly like someone before you date them. It only makes the other person hurt more.
I hope things work out for you!
I hope I helped,
Emily
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lately ive been getting this yellow liquid stuff on my underpants im 14 its happened a few times and i get a little itchy down there is that normal? im worried could it be an infection? i read that its better to wear cotton underpants and maybe use a perfume or soap to help is that true?
That's usually called discharge..and it happens before or after your period. (If you have started your period) it could be a yeast infection..to cure that you can drink more fluids, and cranberry juice could help.. using perfume sprayed directly on the area is not good..it can irritate..you can spray perfume a few inches away from the area onto your underpants though, I've done that :3
anti-bacterial soap is good to use..to clean down there , or vagisel..wash..
If your seriously worried about it being something bad, like if when you urinate it burns..that is not a good sign..you could have an infection but..I believe theirs nothing seriously wrong with you..
Hope I helped!
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My girlfriend and i are both 16 the other day we were in my room we were lying on the bed we started dry humping after awhile i came we both had our underpants on she a bit worried about being pregnant is there any chance she is?
Well, honestly I don't believe so. I'm not to good at that subject, but I don't think so if she's worried about it, she should probably just take a case for sure. I have heard and I researched it, and it says it's like wearing a condom, but condoms don't always work? I don't know.
If she is worried, just take the test like I said. That would calm her worries.
Be careful! :3
Hope I helped,
Emily
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Well I resently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and I'm trying to forget about him but now his friends know what happen kinda and they are looking at me like I'm the evil one in this. They don't know how he treated me and what went on behind doors and they keep trashing me I don't know what to do I look really bad to everyone and I get dirty looks. How do I make peice?
Try to ignore his friends, if there really that immature. They don't know what happened so therefore they really don't have any right to say anything. Sure, they probably know what your ex said, but that he's side of it. If they keep it up, tell them your side of the story, if they don't believe you, move on. Just forget him, try to..and his stupid friends. :)
I hope I helped,
Emily
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Im 15 male and im gay ive been attracted to guys for awhile now i havent told anyone yet and ive become really close to this guy we hang out a lot
weve become real close hes friendly towards me im not sure if hes gay but everytime i see him my feelings get stronger im a bot nervous to tell him not sure how he will react i unsure i really like him how do i find out if hes gay? how do i tell him how i feel?
I really think you should tell him that your gay, so he knows, and maybe he feels the same way about you? I suggest you tell him your feelings about him, if he doesn't feel the same way, stay friends. If he gets upset over it, and doesn't want to be around you anymore he's not worth your time.
If he's really your close friend, and if he cares about you, he'll stick around :3
I hope I helped,
Emily
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Im gay and 19 now and I met him at 12 , I didnt realize that I love him he just came onto my life first time we talked and never separated,Hes a straight guy , his porno is straght , what he says is straight lol but the ways he acts with me makes me think thas hes not, sometimes he touches me a little to much and once he tried to kiss me but now things appear to be different , he thinks that im gay and he still touches me...closer to me legs on me (weird I know) now hes lost in hes video games and Im tired that he doesnt show much importance to me( other subject)We got many projects. IM always after him but now it hursts to much and I dont know if I should forget him even if there no one I love more
To start off, does he know that your gay? If he does than he shouldn't touch you in those ways, if he doesn't feel that way. Some guys are real close to there friends, but not usually that close. My boy friend and his friends call each other babe, but that's it. No touchy feely stuff or anything, so I think perhaps he does have feelings like that towards you but he doesn't want to act on them, because he's scared of what people will think, or you think?
Which I think he shouldn't be scared, if he does feel that way towards you. No one should judge anyones sexual orientation. :3 I don't think you should forget someone that you love and care about so much, tell him hoenestly what your feelings are, if he doesn't feel the same way its alright, there are others that you can be with. Tell him in a way thats suttle, so he won't freak out. Tell him you don't want anything to change between you guys, you don't want to lose his friendship. I wish you good luck >.<
Love,
Emily
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I met this guy on some website about a year ago and ever since we have never stopped talking. We know were both real people. He lives like half an hour away or more. We txt 24/7 . we have alot of things in common. We talk about everything, literally. I just feel like he's a great guy and everything. Should we try a long distance relationship ? Would it work? Oh & i'm 15 and he's 17 .
P.s. We've also talked about trying to meet up and hang out and maybe do some other stuff. Would that be okay or completely weird?
This just reminded me of my boyfriend and I :3 I'm 15 and he's 17. We met on facebook, it was never a long distance relationship, but I never knew him in person. I met him threw my use to be best friend >.< We met, and we have been dating for a year
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Okay so I'm 16/F and a sophomore. My boyfriend is 17/M junior. We've been dating since halfway through the summer before my freshman year. Ever since we've been together we've always been crazy. We both drink and party and he smokes (pot) occasionally but usually not. However, it's different now. He is an extremely talented quarterback and pitcher and this year a bunch of colleges have their eyes on him. He has chosen not to drink or smoke or party because he can't risk getting caught and ruining his chances in a D-1 school. And I have definitely cut back too. But I still wanna party, for like, the social part. I definitely don't get smashed anymore but I do drink when I go out (I also have a sober ride and friends with me). But lately my boyfriend has been getting mad at me. He says he doesn't feel comfortable with me going out without him by my side (I guess I never have done that before) but I can take care of myself and control myself. He says he doesn't like it cause he's worried some guy is gonna get me extra drunk and "take advantage of me". Being 5"5 and a 100 lbs it doesn't take much to get my hammered but like I said, I haven't gone past tipsy and mildly drunk for a long time. And I don't go out often, most of the time I'm hanging out with and it's not like there's a party every weekend. I'd say it's only once a month or two months. I think it's mayb him just missing being able to get crazy and what not... But I don't know. We fight about it a lot but it's the only thing wrong with us. I really love him and we both see us lasting a long time but I'm not doing anything that affects him and I like going out with my friends! What should I do??
Hello,
To start off I'm against drinking and smoking anything, because of my family's past expierences but I'm not the type to judge. I'm happy that your boy friend has a good chance at doing something he loves, and that is good at. It's really hard to find good careers in this economy, you should really support what he's doing now because it's a big improvment. You need to respect his wishes and not go out so much without him, he obviously cares about you. It's true that someone could take advantage of you, even though you say you can take care of yourself, and you can control yourself, sometimes you can go over that amount, and make a big mistake. Things happen. I understand that you like to go out with your friends, you still can. I suggest when you go out bring your cell phone, call him every so ours to let him know your alright, or tell him to call you..sounds childish but do you really want your boy friend to worry about you when your our partying? When you love someone, you have to be even on things. Listen to your boy friend, he just wants the best for you :3
I hope I helped,
Emily
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See at the moment I really like this guy Ryan we've known each other since last summer and someone told me he liked him which I could tell he did the only thing we did that summer was talk and just have the best time togther how we met is this group thing in the summer where we all met up everyday now that it's over I've liked him but now I can tell he doesn't like me anymore but I see him every day in some classes which I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore we like never talk anymore which makes me really sad now another girl from the summer group likes him but she goes to a diffrent school. And we talk sour him which at the moment the girl and Ryan keep talking through text and calls so after yesterday which I was crying I decided I let him go or a while then maybe later in the year bci think we have French togther next half so I'm having hope that one day we will talk again and it won't be awkward do you think he'll ever talk to me like he use to and like me again??
Hello :3
I think you guys will talk again, guys are strange. They have diffrent ways of liking someone then us girls, so if he liked you I still think he would like you now. Even though you guys don't see each other, you need to try to contact him some how. Maybe he didn't think you liked him anymore..and tried to move on from you. You never know with guys..try to talk to him again and if he doesn't like you anymore its okay, you can always find someone else. :3
I hope I helped,
Emily
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