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How do I create peice?
Well I resently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and I'm trying to forget about him but now his friends know what happen kinda and they are looking at me like I'm the evil one in this. They don't know how he treated me and what went on behind doors and they keep trashing me I don't know what to do I look really bad to everyone and I get dirty looks. How do I make peice?
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The best thing to do is to just ignore them. They only know what they have been told by your ex, so if all he's said is negative, that's what they are going to think of you.
To be honest, as long as you know the truth, what other people say or think doesn't matter. You are who you are and if people want to judge you, let them. They know nothing about you and they are the ones making a fool of themselves, not you.
Just ignore them though. The best revenge is keeping a smile on your face despite all the negative going on around you.
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Don't start any arguments with his friends or him. They probably are on his side mostly because they are his friends. Just because they are doing that you shouldn't give them dirty looks also. They haven't heard your side of the story only his, maybe that's why they aren't being mature about this. Just be a kind person that you are and don't let them bother you. You are your own person and they are their own person. It's better to make peace if you can be quiet about things.
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Try to ignore his friends, if there really that immature. They don't know what happened so therefore they really don't have any right to say anything. Sure, they probably know what your ex said, but that he's side of it. If they keep it up, tell them your side of the story, if they don't believe you, move on. Just forget him, try to..and his stupid friends. :)
I hope I helped,
Emily<3
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If you're getting dirty looks and such, then at least to some degree, the sides have been chosen.
I'm not sure that you're going to make PEACE with them, and I'm also not sure that it would be worth the effort.
You might try a calm "there are two sides to every story, want to hear mine?"
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Peace? You probably don't get to have peace with his friends.
If they are going to treat you this way, then they never knew you well enough to bother listening to your side of the story. Be respectful and friendly, but give them space. They aren't going to hear you out.
If they get aggressive, remind them that they only have one side of the story and obviously you were togeather for two years - they know you aren't evil.
Lots of people make the mistake of thinking that break up means they have to be nasty to the ex. Hopefully they'll get over it, but there is nothing you can do to make them stop all togeather.
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