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Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?
tell me ur honest opinions please (link)
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While I don't see anything morally wrong with it (Almost every girl I have dated has been between 2-8 years younger than me) you do have to be careful of the legality of the matter. In some states and type of remotely sexual contact between minors usually ends up beng illegal for the older person. For example in Florida a 16 year old can have sex with a 23 year old and it's legal. But that same 16 year old with a 15 year old is actually a crime! Check up on your local laws before getting to far and don't get caught if you do!
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ok today i was supposed to go to the mall with a clsoe friend of mine except the person that was goin to take me is in LA right now and CANT take me today.. except me and my guy friend have been watin forever for this day and really want to go btu there is no way i need to tell him i cant go the easiest and nicest way possible.. how can i do this ?? thanks (link)
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Just be honest. Tell him you're sorry but you can't go today since your ride went to LA instead. Then suggest you go another time. I'm sure he'll understand that these things happen.
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hey everyone. im sorry if this will be long, im not sure what all to say yet. anyway, first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. she is gay. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, including EVERY day this summer. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about any boy either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian? (link)
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Well it would seem to me this is more of a crush than anything, but if you tell her how you feel you could very well end up with something more. Personally I would just go for it. Now, as far as you being gay or straight or whatever, I believe that 80% or more of the Earth population is Bi-Sexual. They just don't know it yet.
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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing? (link)
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Whenever they feel they are ready. I didn't until I was about 17. I couldn't find anyone I cared for enough to do it with. Some people don't like it at all and won't ever do it.
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my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me (link)
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Most cheaters will cheat again. It's more stress than you need, unless you truly believe he won't do it again. If you're going to be worried about it then leave him for good.
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I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks! (link)
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Well first don't rate me a 5 because I tried. only give me a 5 if I deserve it. Now, if you don't like this guy you should break it off now. If you wait it will only hurt him more because he will grow even more attatched to you. If you have feelings for your ex still, and you both want to date again then by all means. If you'd rather be single for a while then do what ever you feel will be best for you.
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My name is Danielle and i am 14, i really like this guy. well i cant get him off my mind like ever. i cant even imagine what to do to get him off my mind. he broke up with me and i still dont know why. everytime we talk we get in a fight about one of my ex bf's that was killed. he doesn't believe it. but everytime we talk i end up almost in tears. i think if i cry over him one more time i will just roll over and die ! i dont know what to do anymore. but he told me he still liked me and the next day he hooks up with one of my friends who he used to like a lot but she broke up with him a that night. but i don't think that he likes me at all. i woke up one night when the phone rang and it was him. and he was askin me a/b my ex and i told him he was killed. then he just broke up with me like 30 minutes later and i dont know why. i got kinda pissed off at him. but its been WEEKS and i still cry over him when we talk or even when i hear i slow song on the radio !! im just so lost and i dont know what to do anymore. and i understand if you can't help me out with this cause it might just be something that can't be fixed. but i cant stand to cry over him anymore. so if you can please help me !
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It sounds like you need to do some thinking on your own of what you really want. Take a break from relationships and focus on your own needs for a while. Get a job, work out, start a new hobby, just keep busy.
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Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!
~K.J.B.~ (link)
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I love this. Usually this is the case. Most of us guys really are crazy. Don't let our idiotic mistakes get you down.
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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ???????? (link)
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If you don't like him don't date him. Explain you don't have those feelings for him and suggest staying as friends.
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Okay so here it goes!*Greg* keeps teasing me like playing around.He tells me im a stalker and he says he doesnt know where he got it from he just says its funny.So he goes to my church,school,and hes in my carpool.Today he told the girl in my carpool*julia* that I asked him out.Shes like "*mary* how could you"! And then she told me and I like looked at him and he started cracking up!And when we wait for our parents to come pick us up he takes my backpack and puts it somwhere.He also looke through it when im walking with it on.
So acouple of weeks ago I was at *julias* house and *greg* was there. Cuz julias brother is friends with him. We mostley were in julias room for the time so he kept coming to the room and talking to us which julia said that he NEVER does. So we all played uno attack wile we were there and he never won so he told me that i jynked him.
Oh and hes one year older then me. So im not sure of anything really.
And whenever im wearing a sweater he decides to pull my hood and send me back and he LOVES to flick me! Its kinna anoyind, but I'd like to know Does he like me or what?
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Seems like he does. If he doesn't then he's just an annoying jerkoff.
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a girl likes me i dont like her and she wont leave me alone.what do i do
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Explain to her you don't have any feelings for her and that should be that. Girls usually get the hint long before guys will so you won't have to tell her more than once unless she's some depraved lunatic stalker. If she is, see the movie swimfan. Then hide in a corner weeping uncontrolably. Or you could just tell someone in a position to help what's going on, like a parent.
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ok i was having sex with this one guy tony and i couldnt stop. but finnaly it was time u know to take off my thong and put on a condom (on him of course) and so my thong wouldnt come off (it was one of the ones that u r supose to tie) and so he ripped it off and when i was putting the condom on him the door bell rang so i had to get up u know and i was like oh damn we have to stop but he was like oh let it ring we need to do it anyways i hope i am going to do it all night and i was like oh u bet ur luckie ass on that and i couldnt stop and we were burning rubber (when u go really fast and it starts to burn) then i had to go pee so i told him i had to stop so i did then when i came back i saw his friends looking and they have been looking since we started! so i told them they can come in in 10 mins so they were still looking and i was yelling oh tony oh tony and he was like oh jenny oh jenny and then i told his friends to come in. then i got drunk then i was having a three sum and then another guy came in and so in was like a 4 sum. and then they had to go home but i told tony to stay and we were doing it all night. then the next day was school and everyone was staring at me and i was asking the guys i did it with wut wuz going on and they told the whole school and i turned around and 3 guys were humping me so i told them to come to my house so when we went to my house i grabed a whip and everything so i was doing it all night with them! but i took a pregnantcy test and it said i was pregnant but i didnt know whos baby!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It may be none of my business but what the HELL are you thinking! First, it's never time to take off your thong and put a condom on him AFTER you've started having sex! CONDOM ON BEFORE ANYTHING! Now I don't know how old you are but you're obviously not old enough to drink since you're still in school. You're acting like a complete slut and this is going to have long term effects on your life I guarantee that. After six guys in two nights pregnancy is the least of your worries. Get yourself tested for sexually transmitted diseases right away. I cannot stress enough how important this is. Also, no more drinking and definitely no more sex. If you are determined to ruin your life use protection all the time and make sure its on before ANY contact at all. You can get pregnant from a guys pre-ejaculatory emissions just as easily as if he blows a load inside you, understand? I can't tell you whether or not you should keep the baby bacause thats too much of an emotionally charged issue. I lost my first child with my first girlfriend due to a miscarriage and let me tell you it's the most painfull thing you'll feel. If you decide to keep it and find who the father is make sure you put his name on the birth certificate so he can't run out on you and no pay any child support or anything. I wish you the best of luck now and in all your future decisions whether they are good or bad.
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I have been friends with this guy for 6 years ever since i was 9 as we got older things started to change i started to like him for more than a friend. he is the guy that when i see him i always feel better i haved some major medical problems and afterwards he always cheers me up but latly he hasen't been comming to his moms house that much so i don't get to see him but once a month i don't know what to do? (link)
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Well you could start by asking if there's anything going on to keep him from visiting. He may just be busy, or maybe he is going through some hard times. If that's the case then maybe you can cheer him up. After all he did the same for you, right? Once you get to the root of this, you can find more ways to get together more often. Life has a way of working itself out sometimes.
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I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
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If that's the lifestyle you want to follow then do it. There's no way to make someone believe you like taking action. Just don't rush into anything.
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HERE IT GOES!!
I answer Questions but its time for YOU to HELP me.
I know this guy "Keagen" and I totally like him! I THINK he likes me but I can't be sure! I don't know of I should tell him how i feel or not. we can't date til' were 16 but thats not the problem. I mean we have been alone togather before and stuff but its hard for me to really know. when i think of him i feel as if im floating and there is nothinkg better in the world than thinking of him! i have this feeling at pit of my stomic when ever ithink of him i can't get rid fo it! i think of him even if im trying not too! when he see's me he is allways watchinkg me and when he looks at me its different then when other guys look at me. his voice sound TOTALLY different when he talks to me. its like he is be EXTRA sweet to me! and he is guy that goofs off ALOT! i just don't know what to do! last year i sent him a valentine marked and "the cat" well the next time he saw me he said "hello cat" well i lied and said that i didn't send him a card but when told him that his face just fell! like he was dissapointed! so I REALLY need some advice! PLEASE help! should i tell him or not? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sincerely
KATHLEEN (link)
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OF COURSE you should tell him! You have nothing to lose right? He seems like he really likes you. Life's no fun without a little risk anyways. Next time you see him pull him aside and let him have it!
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How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do? (link)
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You're only 13. You don't even need to worry about this yet. But if you are going to do it anyways don't worry about it. It's all a learning process and theres no "right" way to do it. Just do whatever feels right.
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I know this guy lets call him CTW and i told me friend to call him she did and she told him i liked him... i do. and i don't know him that well but i'm in 7th grade and he rode my bus in 5th grade he's been at a couple partys and i think he's really nice. There is only one thing, i think he has some brain problems cause my friend said he is dangerous and he spazes out and hurts people while he spazes like on purpose but uncontolably he is going to sit at our lunch table when he is unsuspended for punching this kid but He would never purposly hurt someone. I know he will go out with me i just am not sure. can someone help me? (link)
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Unless you're talking about a married couple you're better off not getting involved with someone who could potentially hurt you badly. Also since you don't know him all that well you won't have any emotional attachment. You may like him but in this case it just isn't worth the risk.
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I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
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Why shouldn't you tell him you'd like to hang out sometime? If he's your friend it shouldn't be much of a problem. He'll probably enjoy spending more time with you. Go ahead and ask him.
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hey, this guy in my math class keeps lookin at me and i think he likes me, but how do i get him to ask me out? (link)
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Make it clear that you're interested first. If he likes you he will probably make a move. If he doesn't and you still think he likes you don't be afraid to ask him first. Risk nothing, gain nothing.
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how can you tell when a guy likes you? (link)
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With most guys you will know. They have a habit of showing off and flirting. If a guy is shy you may catch him looking at you sometimes. If you do SMILE! If he smiles back try talking to him. It's simple and it works!
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