Well my name is Cheviann.I know, I know it's kinda wierd, but my sister named me that at the age of five. I'm 13, I like to dance to hip hop, dancehall and rap, I like to draw and I also like to write stories. I am from Kingston Jamaica {HEY-Y-Y REPPING MY HOMETOWN}. If there's anything you need an advice on, you can call on me. I will ansewr them with alot of thought and encouragement!
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Age: 13
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Ok i'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend is 16!
I don't know what i should do about that cuz he's 3 years older then me. And he's never kissed a girl... so should i stay with him or should i dump him cuz he might do something with me?? (link)
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DAM GIRL HOW YOU FIND HIM? ANYWAY I THINK YOU SHOULD STAY BUT THEN AGAIN YOU SHOUILD'NT. YOU SHOULD BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT HE ASK YOU TO DO IS YOUR CHOSE NOBODY ELSE. YOU SHOULD BECAUSE THOSE LITTLE BOYS SOMETIMES ONLY THING ABOUT GETTING IN YA PANTS. HOW LONG YALL BEING TOGETHER? IF ITS A GOOD WHILE AND HE DIDNT TRY NOTFIN YET MAYBE HE LIKES YOU. BUT IF HE WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU AND HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU DONT BUT IT.
hope i help, and if there's anything you need an advice on yoou can call on me and also bacause i dont got nobody asking me notfin
EbOnY =]
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I still love my ex boyfriend Dean. he wants to go back out with me maybe but i hardly ever talk to him so its kinda hard. my friend Cody i think likes me. i like him too and i would go out with him but i still love dean. and another guy named Cody (we'll call him Cody2) that i work with, i like him ALOT! and i would really REALLY like to go out with him. and I would go out with him in a heartbeat but I dont know if he likes me. we talk alot at work but were not exactlly real good friends. I like all three of these guys and I know Dean wants me back, Cody i think likes me, and the Cody2 might like me. out of all these guys i like Dean the most. i like Cody2 the second most, and Cody i do really like him but not as much as the other two. I talk to Cody more than either of them. i see Cody2 more than eitehr of them too. (Dean lives in Polo and Cody lives in Oak Grove (I live in Kansas City (all the citys are in missouri))) Cody2 calls me alot Cody talks to me all the time at work but I hardly ever see or talk to Dean. I dont know which guy to go out with. but keep in mind that I really like all these guys but i still love Dean. (link)
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i aint trying to be smart, but dam girl. i really dont know who you should pick. but its waht you want, what you choose. and find out if cody2 likes you. im not trying to change the subject and i know im suppose to be answering you question but do you have to drive to missouri to your jod our something, because how come you live in kansas and you work in misouri? however back to the point just go with your heart and mind.
hope i help, and if there's anything you need an advice on yoou can call on me and also bacause i dont got nobody asking me notfin
EbOnY =]
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Hi, everyone. I'm a 15 year old male, and so is this girl I like. I honestly don't know why I am attracted to her. She is overweight, and that's just a turn off for me, like most other guys. But beside the few extra pounds (actually about 30), she's gorgeous. (or so I think) She had chestnut colored brown hair, and paleish skin in contrast. Her blue eyes are amazing. We sat next to eachother in biology all of last year, as the teacher never changed the seating arrangement. We talked a lot, and I'm very shy, so it was a change for me. She talked to me first, and from then on we became very good friends. She bought me a cake on my birthday & gave it to me in class. She laughs at everything, so I don't know if she thinks I'm funny, or not. But I love it. I love talking to her, I love her laugh, I love how random she is, how different, how uncaring of what people think. (dont get me wrong, shes not a geek or anything, shes in with all the right kids, shes just overweight). I couldn't tell if she liked me, but there's something about her that makes me want to be with her all the time. As I said, this would be awkward for me, because she is overweight, and my friends would definitely have fun teasing me/her over that. I don't know what to do, I asked her for her number & aim screename, so I have those now. Whenever I see her get online, I IM her. I told her when I was doing driving school so she could maybe sign up. I think I'm just confused on what to do. Why is it I'm so attracted to her? Should I tell her how I feel? What about my friends? (link)
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why do you care wat ya friends think? is it because you like a fat girl and you scard people will make fun of you. you should givea a shit what people say bout you . people gonna be like that. everywhere you go you gonna have people that cant say out there beez or they always got to say something. but you got to be a better person than that. no matter waht people says you should go for waht you belive in. hold up do you dislike fat girls because ya friends tease them? if so thats not a good thing and you need to change and be yourself. maybe you think you gonna lose your friends, but if they are RUE friends they leave you alone with this fat thing. im niot fat bour not thing is that i hate the fact that niggahs got to juge girls for what they friends say. if you really like this girl you should go for it.Oh yea you may be attracted to her beacose you interest you and you not really lokking at her for how she looks, maybe its her personally you like.
if there's anything you need, dont be afriad to ask.
hope i help =]
EbOnY
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16/f
i dont know how to cope with the loss of this guy who i almost could have said i loved. hes not dead but he might as well be. he doesnt treat me how he used to, infact we dont talk at all really anymore. i know he doesnt have any feelings for me anymore but that doesnt mean i still dont have them for him. no one has ever made me feel the way he did. i dont want him back though because it wouldnt be the same. i just want to get over him. i try but it always fails. i dont want to hang out with my friends and when i do i always think about him and when im on the raod to a softball tourny, all i can think about is him and im always depressed.im never happy or excited for anything anymore.
anyone have any ideas on how to get him out of my mind for good?
thank you much
xo (link)
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LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING THERE'S GONNA BE BOYS EVERY WHERE NICE, MEAN . YOU NEAVER KNOW. BUT THERE IS ONE THING YOU GOT TO KNOW THEY COME AND GO. ITS NOT GONNA BE EASY FOR THE COUPLE OF WEEKS AND STUFF. BUT IF HE REALLY LIKE YOU YALL WELL BE TOGETHER RIGHT KNOW. RIGHT? BUT DAM GIRL IF YOU SOBBING FOR HIM FOR ABOUT A MOUTH OR TWO YOU NEED TO GET SMACK IN THE FACE. HE MAY GET OVER YOU HE MAYBE DID. BUT YOU HVAE TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. YOU WILL HAVE SOME GOOD MEMERIS WITH YOU BOTH. BUT YOU WILL HAVE SOME BETTER NEW ONE.
HOPE I HELP
EbOnY nad if there's anything you need, dont be scard to ask. =]
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16/f
i've never had a real relationship. im not fat, or ugly. i have a lot of friends but i can't seem to find a guy for me. every time i meet one, they sweet talk, and i fall for them and they get what they want out of me and then leave me. i fall for it everytime and i hate it because i am a mess because of it. i started doing really stupid things because im getting depressed. i hate that fact that i did that and im changing. but im still depressed. will i ever find someone for me? it seems all of my friends have found their special someone. whats wrong with me?? i dont want to be an easy peice of ass. but i am. i dont mean to be it just happens because all they need to do is tell me im beautiful and i cant say no. im longing for someone to care for me. and anyone i trust, they betray me.
help, or anything would be greatly appreiciated.
xo (link)
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well i dont know how ya feel, because i never been in that kind of relationship.well girl dont let NOBODY take advantige of you. you can be a better person than that. the first thing a boy gonna tell you " oh baby i love you". some girls being stupid { not all girls and im not calling you stupid} fall for it. then boys go back to his homeboy and tell them everything and calling them names. i know some girls just what to be love and shit. but you gonna know that they are some little niggah out there just trying to get some quick pum pum , and you got ta be the one that they no better not to play that shit with you. you also got to figure out they little playa shit. and i ganretide you gonna find some one that love you or like you for who your are and not what you got. and for my advice dont start to givre it up and soon as you meet them and shit, at least wait a couple a months and see if they want to be with you. BUT BE CAREFUL you do have some niggahs that is really smart and THEY well wait, but they well find some other girln to mess around well he waiting fa you. some of them can be real slick but you suppose to be slicker. also if they trying to be all up pon you, controll yourself and back them off. like i said be fore be slick wit it { it dont mean go and cheat while you wit him}. you can TRUST htem but dont trust them too much.oh yea let they KNOW that you aint a girl that you and do wat you want with and leave.
and if there's anything you need you can just ask me.
sorry i wrote so much, but hope i help
EbOnY =]
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First, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a 40 yr old man, Chris, for a couple of weeks, and we get along really well, I like him a lot, and he feels the same way. Last week, I met a guy online, Jon, who is 26, much closer to my age of 22. Jon and I have an amazing connection, he's everything I ever wanted in a man, except that he smokes...and he lives two hours away. I'm having trouble deciding which relationship to pursue. Should I drop Chris and see where things go with Jon, even if I'd only see him once or twice a week, or forget about Jon and keep seeing Chris, who lives in my town? I'm so confused, and I really need help! Do you have any suggestions on what I should do to decide? Thanks! (link)
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Well i dont know if you want advice from a 13 year old. however if you like older guys you should stick with cris and seen you more about him. seen jon is more what your looking for in a guy and its just 4 years differant maybe its him. nevertheless you should go and what you heart and mind says. if your not sure try find out more about them two then make your finally dision. hope ya pick tha right one
hope i help =]
EbOnY
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my boyfriend and i have known eachother for a year but we have only been dating for 4 months...we liked eachother longer than that but its a long story but anyways, almsot every girl i know likes him and i get really jealous which starts fights because i am so scared he is going to leave me, but i dont know how to stop being so jealous..i love him and he says he loves me but i feel like one day he is going to realize he can do better and i will be left by myself. i also have really bad trust issues because while i was at the beach about a month ago he went over to his ex's house and he said they didnt do anything but after i asked him if he went he lied and said he didnt which makes me wonder if he lies about other stuff so i just dont know when i can trust him, i have started trusting him morebut its just really hard whenso many girls like him...so how can i start trusting him and get over my jealousy? (link)
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Im not sayin you should just give all your trust all out to him,but trust him. i know the one lie make you cant even know if he telling the truth next time.but if he really likes he won`t leave you. well what i think that was outa odda was that he went to his ex's house without telling you.Everyone has a little jealousy in every relationship, all if you get out of the relationship and you see him/her with someone else. What i would do is tell him how i feel.
hope I help
EbOnY =]
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this boy is mad at me because i go with one of his friends but before that he push me away more and more know my self esteem is low do you think i should give him a nother chance and im for real ill rate you if you answer (link)
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well i dont think you should go with him girl your self esteem is low only if you let it. and having low self esteem is when dont have faith in yourself so have a little faith in yourself girl cause if you dont who will n you can do better than that boy cause i think he is tring to use you i think if you take him back he is going to do the same thing he used to do to you.
hope i helped
EbOnY :)
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Okay this boy just asked me out and I said yes. I'm 13 and I'm in 7th grade and he's 17 and he's in 9th grade. That's a 4 years age difference so I'm not sure if I should keep going out with him what do you think? I know he loves me he said he said he will respect me and he doesn't care how old I am. He doesnt want you know what, and he's really sweet. I'm sure he really likes me. What do you think of this? (link)
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girl, he 17 in the 9th grade. first you suppose to be around 15/14 to be in the 9th. if you 17 you suppose to be in the 11/12. im not tryin to be smart but what the hell happen to me to let him FAIL so much. my judement to this question is just be carfull.
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Okay this boy just asked me out and I said yes. I'm 13 and I'm in 7th grade and he's 17 and he's in 9th grade. That's a 4 years age difference so I'm not sure if I should keep going out with him what do you think? I know he loves me he said he said he will respect me and he doesn't care how old I am. He doesnt want you know what, and he's really sweet. I'm sure he really likes me. What do you think of this? (link)
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girl, he 17 in the 9th grade. first you suppose to be around 15/14 to be in the 9th. if you 17 you suppose to be in the 11/12. im not tryin to be smart but what the hell happen to me to let him FAIL so much. my judement to this question is just be carfull.
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im going to be 17 years old in a week. and ive never really had a "real boyfriend" before. i mean i went out with like 3 guys, but that was all in middle school, and it wasnt anything like people have now in high school.. tomorrow im going to this party with my friend, and ive been praying all day to let me find a guy that wont just try to get in my pants and then leave. thats what always happens. it would make my birthday soo much better if i could just find a guy that i connect with, and that is actually interested in me and not only sex. especially the first night we meet. there are guys that want to meet me in person and hang out that are from myspace, they are my age and live by me but for some reason i always turn them down. every single one of them. does that mean that non of them are "right" for me? or am i just shy? i dont know.
tomorrow i want to get to know a guy and maybe even go on a date or two after the party. and then hopefully it can lead into my first real relationship
but i dont even know how to get started with that. i dont know how to act or what to say or anything..and how do i know that they actually want to get to know me and they arent just using me to get some? how can u tell the difference?
if anyone and everyone could help me in any way possible to make me think i might actually meet someone tomorrow night i would appreciate it soooooo much.
i always wish on stars that i see and i pray that i find a guy, but it never happens.
i really really think i deserve this. i know i can get a guy, because i do think im pretty. so thats not the reason.. but i dont know why i cant ever find someone that i like enough.
thanks sooo much xoxoxo (link)
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okay, i know in high school its probly really hard relationship wise, but to be honest, girl to girl you sound desperate. you dont need to look for a guy, thats how a lot of people make mistakes they go out searching for love. dont search for love let it find you, so what if you dont have mr right. right now, then you have more time for you hang out with ur girls chill go to the mall movies arcade just have fun and do you dont worry about guys now when the time is right he will find you.
hope i helped EbOnY =)
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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me. (link)
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first you to young to be on here and second to be a slut you have to sleep with more than one boy. i aint trying to make you feel bad, but damn girl you are 12 you should'nt even be thinking bout doing that.you already maked your decsion and all but next you need to be more careful, because you may not be his first and no matter what age you still can have STD's. Don't let guys take advantage of you like that. he probably was using you. you said that you like this guy and he kind of does too, but how you know he like you? dont let him think he can use you for sex girl. if hwe starting to inorge you, he used you. but if he do its ok nobody is perfect, everybody makes mistake. all im telling you is not to make that same mistake.
FIRST TIME: a mistake
SECOND TIME: wasnt thinkin
THRID TIME: you a damn FOOL
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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18? (link)
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Well i dont think so. just think of it when you turn 20 he turn 23 and it dont seem so bad{THATS IF THE RELATIONSHIP LAST THAT LONG}. But make sure he dont tell you to do anything that you dont want to do.
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whats a good non expensive birthday gift to give my boyfriend turning 13 in two weeks? he likes soccer, if that helps :)
THANKS! (link)
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Well I think you should go to a sports store and get him a jersey of his favorite team that's if he don't already have one.
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