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advice

i like this guy, patrick, but yesterday i found out he likes someone else, alexis. i cant get over him. he asked her to the movies and he was turned down, i heard it was harsh too. what should i do? i still like him

try to talk to him and give him a vibe that you like him, hopfully he likes you back!
good luck!

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i like to look at girls bodys..like boobs..butt..and girls online.does this mean i am BI?i never made out with a girl but i almosted did..i made out with a couple of guys..and i like guys but do i also like girls?

please help

your not bi. Its just something you go through at a certain age. But there's nothing wrong about looking at grls bodys if your ompairing... which alot seem to do...
As long as you never actually did anything with a girl then you should be fine.

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

If she was literally raped then YES you should tell someone... even if she gets mad at you know she'll definatly thank you for it in the long run.
so tell someone, like an adult or even the police.
good luck!
nat*

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ok im really shy around guys. And when i like them i end to ignore them... i hate it!
There's this guy i like, i see him every once and a while but when i do i get all nervus and i shake and i ignore him! I dont want to but even just looking into his beautiful eyes is hard for me.. how can i get over this ignoring??? PLZ help!

next time when you see him just say hey or something that usually take alot of cerage so yea just go for him if you really like him.

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I've been dating this girl for quite some time now and we've just recently slept together for the first time. I'm 24 and she's 18. She wasn't a virgin so it's nothing like that but after the sex, it felt extremely wrong. I never wanted to ask her out in the first place because I was 6 years older than her but my friends kept saying that "It's not a big deal; You're both adults, 6 years isn't much, blah, blah, blah etc." So I eventually asked her out and I'm glad I did because she's an amazing girl. Her being only 18 did bug me before but not as much as it does now. The sex was great and everything and it wasn't until after we finished that I started to feel like absolute shit. If it helps any, it happened on Saturday night and now, I've been trying to avoid her. I still have strong feelings for her and I don't want to end things with us, but I just don't know how to get past this. I'm not quite sure why I feel this way either. I want to talk to her but what am I supposed to say, "Hey Hun, I felt like I raped you the other night...How did you feel about it? Did you feel as if you were being raped?" I don't think I can sleep with her again until I get past this and I'm not sure talking to her about it will help.

Well being 6 years appart isnt that bad. I have an older friend and she is married to a guy that has kids her age! But i mean thats like 10-15 years appart so i think 6 is fine. And don't worry about it so much. I think going out with a girl 7 years or younger is the perfect time appart. So just ignore that feeling and feel what you actually feel with her.
h.i.h.
nat*

P.s. Im only 14 so its not like i KNOW everything... but i do try to help

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Hey everyone,
I'm 15 & I've liked this girl since about August last year & we just started chatting & then I found out from her friend that she liked me. So we went out for about a month & she dumped me for another guy (her ex-boyfriend that she broke up with to go out with me). Now she says she just wants to be friends, but she is always flirting with me & I'm getting really confused.

Maybe she can't make up her mind. Just try to keep in touch with her and if you still like her flirt back just so that so knows that you still like her too.
hope i helped!
Nat-

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there is this girl i really like in my science class. shes kinda out of my leauge but i cant get her outta my mind! ive asked her out but she said no but i dont know why. what should i do?

Try to hang out with her and let her get to know you better so she might changer her mind. Or she might just be shy thats all. But talk to her ant tell her how you feel.
Good Luck!
Natally*

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes?

well if you really like him, talk to him. But to me he sounds like a playa'.
good luck!

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Why do guys care so much if a girl has big boobs and butts? they don't even care about if your pretty or about your personality?

i guess thats what guys are just attracted to. but i would go for a guy that likes you for you not ur body. but guyz are stupid and they dont know any better lol. i think they care because its attracting? but well.. i think its kinda wierd if you ask me lol.
h.i.h.
xonat

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Hey Guys... I'm 17 Years old... and I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who ive been with for 5 months... I had my period the first of this month and it lasted about 5 days... and thats pretty normal... But my boobs are starting to hurt.. and I feel like I'm getting fatter... I'm scared.. is there any way i can be pregnant???

:(

if you had your period after you had sex then you should be fine. but if you're still worried then i would take a pregnancy test just to make sure. but i don't think you are.
xo

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

Well if you really don't wanna date in school then don't but I personaly would give it a shot.
h.i.h.
Nat-

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Im terribl at askin people out. girls. And i wanna know how to do it. And i cant talk to beautiful people eihter. help

well i never got asked out or have i asked anyone out before but i think it would be sweet if you first talk to her and maybe lead her into a conversation and ask her out. You could also, well this would probably work good for valentines day but, you could place her favorite flower in her locker and have a note attached saying either "Will you go out with me" - your name... or if you wanna talk to her and ask her face to face tell her to meet you somewhere. but thats just a few ideas...
h.i.h. and good luck!

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15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.

Its fine, your probably just alittle jelouce or maybe you still like her and (which ever broke up) you don't know why you did. But hey! he asked you and i think thats pretty good. But talk to him if you think you really still like her and maybe you two can work something out.
h.i.h.

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Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!

maybe go to the park, the stores always have a few... um, depending if u would go for sprot guyz... maybe the bball fields or w.e.
You could also talk to your friends even if its just by phone, and ask them if they know anyone. But just be patient, he'll come along soon!
Nat*

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I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to post these type of questions on this site... but... what they heck...this is actually an english-y type question... you see, I was just wondering... there's this quote that I heard and liked the sound of, but I dont really understand it... maybe some adults in here (or some really smart teens) could explain it to me please... *batts eyelashes*?? anyway, the quote is... "All is fair in love and war" please answer... i know this is a boring question; i rate high!!!

well i'd say, it means that everything that between love and war is fair. but thats just what i'm thinkin that it could mean, but hopfully i helped!
Nat*

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Well there is the girl at my school who i like but i found out today that she dosent want to go out with me and i still have feelings for her and i just cant seem to get her outta my head even though i know she wont go out with me i am still crazy about her and i dont know what to do please help i reall cant stop thinking about her no matter what i do i just cant stop thinking about her like right now i am and i just dont know what to do.

talk to her. ask her why she wont go out with you. but dont push her away. hopfully you'll change her mind.
:D Nat*

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



well im some coltures you can but i'd say its way to young, maybe talk to her about it but let her tell her parents, unless you think the need is very seriouce. But yes... getting married to a 17 year old at the age of 14 is way to young in my oppinion.
Nat*

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i really dont know what to say theres this girl i know.. the thing is i still have alot of fellings for her but one of my friends are with her.... the thing is my frind is going out with her but the catch is that shes best frineds with his ex and i think hes just useing her what should i do........?????????

talk to her and tell her how you feel. maybe try and hang out with her and well easiest, just talk to her about how you feel.
Good luck!

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Ok well i have this really really hot boyfriend and his hottness cannot compare to me. And plus it seems he doesnt really want to get in a big relationgship, and he wants to be more of a friend. WHat shood I do?

just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. that should so it.
:)

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my boyfriend already gave me 2 bears and a carnation (the carnation was being sold at skool) and its not even valentines day yet. now he thinks im not gonna get him something i think because i didnt buy him a carnation (which is really dumb) but at the moment all i have to give him is boxers and i really dont want to be there when he opens the present because id feel really weird. what should i do?

give him candy or a cool CD something you think he would enjoy. Or drop the boxers off at his house lol :)
Nat

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