I am an 18 year old girl who loves to give advice. My advice will be direct at teens though, since I am still a teen myself.
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i am 13 and my boyfriend is 19. he wants to have sex with me ? what should i do ? (link)
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You are underage, and that could put him in jail. You might want to remind him that. After both parties are 18, age is but a number, but right now, it\'s a slippery slope. And if you don\'t want sex, tell him so.
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I met this guy last year but only recently started talking when we saw each other at a party last week. We exchanged numbers and everything. We talked a lot at the party and it was obvious he liked me. Even afterwards he would flirt with me and stuff. Later I found out he had a gf and I asked him about it and he said it was true but she is never there for him. I let him know that I wasn't the type of girl who would mess around with a guy who is already in a relationship but he said he likes me a lot and I guess I kinda like him too. I don't ask him to break up with her but he tries getting me to kiss him and stuff which I don't feel comfortable doing. What should I do? I am a 15 year old girl & he is 16. (link)
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Tell him no and then tell his girlfriend too. She deserves to know just what kind of guy she is dating. You both deserve better.
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So me and my boyfriend were on our scool email chat and he tells me that he is going to see his ex-gf from like 3 years ago, this weekend. I am super paranoid and jealous. His mom hates me and suggested that he go to the thing that she will be at, and said "Katlyn will be there". I trust my boyfriend but I don't know this girl and I'm worried. Also she will be going to the same church camp as him and I am even more worried. Am I being overly jealous or paranoid? Or is this a normal reaction? Thanks (link)
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Honestly you have normal feeling about your boyfriend's ex. Honestly I'm worried about the mom. Why does she hate you? If you trust your boyfriend, then he most likely won't cheat on you.
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ok so.. im 14 , girl with light brown hair, light blue eyes, average weight, i wear glasses, people say i have a beautiful smile....i smile alot... i like this guy (14) .we have been friends for 2 years or so now we just see eachother in school. nothing has happened between us. i have started to like him A LOT but the problem is he is a total man whore and loves sluts,he also smokes. i dont really know if he likes me, but i always see him looking at me while we are in class and he is always teasing me in a fun way, my friends say he likes me but i dont know. i dont think he would ever like a girl with glasses..... does he like me too, and if so should i go out with him even though he likes sluts and smokes?
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My advice is to steer clear of him. I don't think that he would be someone who would truly care about you for you. If you want to date him, you would have to tell him, you are not like the other girls and you don't like smoking. Let him know your limits.
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Okay, so. I promised my bf I'd send him some of my private stuff. I only promised because he sort of forced me into promising but then I said it was no big deal. So I told him I would send it to him by the end of the day. But it turns out that things went wrong that day and I ran out of time to send it to him. I was gonna text him a sorry but then he called me a bitch for not sending it. How should I react!? (link)
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I only have two words as advice: Dump him. He is not worth your time and he is awful for forcing you to send that. Thank God you didn't have time to, because you saw his true colors. So once again, dump him.
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I have had sex with my boyfriend now for about a year. He recently started going away for university so I only get to see him about once a month, which means I have sex about once a month. Lately, my vagina has been very itchy. It is not a yeast infection because i've had one before. The skin around my vagina is sometimes itchy, but hurts when I scratch it, yet feels relief at the same time. My boyfriend is home again and we've tried having sex but it hurts me so much. I also don't feel as aroused by him, like I have to close my eyes and try not to picture his every flaw. I don't know, something just isn't right! Please help (link)
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Okay do not break up with him if not necessary. It could be he was a carrier of the disease and it hadn't shown up in him. But go see a doctor for sure and talk to him to see if he was cheating on you. If that is true, tell him to get treat for the infection as well and then dump him. Don't dump him if it wasn't his fault about the disease or if he didn't know he was a carrier.
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Hey,
okay so me and my ex broke up over a year ago.
Since then he went back to his ex,then broke up again. Then got another gf and split up. Now he fancies some other girl.
However, we met up the other day at college and he seemed into me. But on fb it's obvious he likes this new girl. Basically there is an agreement we are 'friends' and he gave me a christmas card.
Should I delete him off facebook? Because basically I keep on getting hurt-but then I don't want to look like a cow :/
Any advice much appriciated :) (link)
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Delete and block him. He sounds like he is one that is not ready to commit to one person and you'll only keep getting hurt. Ignore what others say if they call you a cow. If you think you did what was right for you that is all that matters.
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Hello All,
I love a girl but am confused how to talk to her, how should i start what to talk every day i think i will talk something but will do nothing at the end of the day. (link)
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Okay it's not really love yet, but a crush. And try to be friendly. Ask alot of questions, people like talking about themselves. And take it slow. You never want to rush something.
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I just started to talk to this guy and he keep's going me hints that he likes me but i don't like him, how do i tell him i don't like him but i would like to stay friends...what should i do? (link)
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Be straight with him. Be as frank as you can but do not be harsh. Just tell him you don't like him like that and that you value your friendship.
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so my boyfriend and me have been going out for 5 months now. and we never fight its great. cause were both really chill :) .... but .... :( **iam 16 years old btw. (female)
(now i kknow this is going to sound bad please dont judge it just happen.... i feel aweful and i regret it but please dont judge with what i am about to say.)
--> so i really do love and care for him and he tells me he feels the same way. but his personality is always humor not to serious just likes to joke and have fun which i dont mind i find it amusing :p and im kinda the same so it works great. but last night i was sleeping over at his friends house with him and we were all in his friends bed. (me, my boyfriend and his friend) and were all pretty close haha but jokingly to piss off / amuse his friend as a joke me and my boyfriend started having sex. in the bed. and his friend lying right there (dont judge i know it sounds bad) but to be honest i only do this stuff cause he tells me to and i just wanna make him happy. i will admit im kinda whipped. but anyways so then as a joke he told his friend to join in. and hes always joked about 3 some. / sharing me (jokingly) and we had something like this happen before but not that bad just kiss. (same guy) as a dare. with him there. and so anyways he kept telling me to. and they both kept telling me to and to be honest i felt really pressured. and so i gave in. at first it was like jokingly i let him fuck me. :( with my boyfriend right there in the bed. and i just did it cause i felt pressured to by them. and my boyfriend just laughed at first and made little comments. then lied there and \"slept\" per say but i know he was awake but i dont know why i let his friend keep going. i honestly just didnt know what to say i wanted it to stop but i didnt have the guts to stop him. i was frozzeen. i didnt enjoy his friend at all i just wanted to be with my boyfriend. :( anyways i think this time it made him mad. cause he left the room. got up and walked out. and i was left there with his friend . and his friends like i think he cares this time... im like well then why did he tell me to? :( ugh!!! anyways i got up and left to and went to the couch away from them both and just cried all night. think im stupid and just fucked up how could i let this happen. now hes mad :/ which isnt what i wanted i really love and care for him i just wanted to make him happy. not mad. i did what he said i went along with his joke. and anyways his friend told me this ....
\"yeah he never admits to liking you and or any of his girlfriends and he wont ever admit it to us cause he just is hiding his emotions but i can tell as his bestfriend he really does care and like you cause of what he got you for christmas and the fact that what we just did effected him (it apparently never effected him in the past) but he must really like you cause he never spends money on his girlfriends and in the past hes onlydated a girl about a month or two and they fight all the time and we have been together 5 (almost 6) months and no fighting. and the fact he is moody and u effect his moods shows he cares.
(but the next morning he just walked by and left the house. he didnt say goodbye or anything to me....)
so basically im just asking. was last nights incident proof that he cares about me cause it effected him to see me with another guy? cause it never used to effect him apparently when he had a 3some in the past. and is what his friend saying true? or did i just fuck up and loose a guy i really care about :( i dont know what to do. or should i dump him cause he is treating me like a trophy and has no respect for me? :/ :( like i dont know what to think anymore. i do not want to loose him though cause all our friends are the same. i just dont know if im being treated like a trophy and used. or if he really cares and hes just starting to show it. please help :( sorry for it being so long :/ (link)
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Okay, sweetie, this maybe hard for you to hear. But I am going to come right out and say it. Dump the bastard. He sounds like he has no mortals when it comes to girls and you are being taken advantage of. Do not let anyone make you do something you are not comfortable with. Peer pressure is apart of life and you will be pressured to do things. It is a fact of life that will never change. But what you can control is how you react to it. He doesn't not deserve you or any girl for that matter. Don't give him another glance and warn the others so they know what they are getting into.
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I'm a female and I'm in 7th grade, I am very mature for my age. I recently got a boyfriend who is a freshman. I've liked him for 5 months and got the guts to ask him out. We've been going out since 12-11-11. And our days we spend together are simply amazing. He act the same as bestfriends like we were before but now we have more benefits obviously. So he's a smoker & I truly hate smokers , but I try to make it the best when he tells me he smokes. Recently a boy that hates me doesn't want me and my boyfriend together and wanted to ruin my plans for me and my boyfriend tomorrow. So instead of spending half the day with me he's going to get high with the boy. And I've honestly been telling him anything even lies to make him stop smoking but I guess he thought I wanted to break up with him when that wasn't the case at all. But I explained to him and I just really wanna know how can we last longer because I'm really in love with him & I wanna know what to say and what not to say to keep him as my boyfriend.
Thanks. (: (link)
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I have to disagree with the first one. Asking him to not be with one of his buddies is the worst thing you can do. But talk to him, tell him the problem and ask that he at least don't smoke around you. It'll keep you healthy and he'll only have to worry about his health. If he is as nice as you say, he'll agree to it.
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I used to go out with this guy. We had an amazing relationship. We bearly fought about anything,talked to each other about everthing, spend time together, and we got soo closed to the point that I knew what he was thinking before he even told. Its very easy to talk to him because he understands me so I never feel like I have to explain myself, are personalities are alot alike. But during our relationship we had some problems with people accepting us being together, since he's 7 years older then me, so they thought he was using me because of my inexperience things began to get weird between us, right during that time i went on vacation for a whole month, thinking that the time away from him was going to benefit turns out, that when i came back he was done with me, and I never heard from him, and he never tried reaching me knewing that I was back.... Six months have passed and I still have the same feelings I had since I met him, I love him more then anything I would give anything to find out what happend that made him abandon me. then a few days ago he finally contacts me though facebook and gives me his number because he wanted to talk to me. When I texted him he asks why I never reached him, then he calls to explain what happend, and tells me he still has feelings for me and would like to see me and apologize, when he tells me all of this I couldnt be any happier. He finally comes over and he apologizes and I ask him what his intentions are with me, and he seems very unsure, i told him i didnt want a friendship with him, or be a bootycall, I told him that I was willing to forgive him and i would love to make things work again and have a serious long lasting relationship with him, I told him if thats not what he wanted then he could just forget about me because I already felt better once I found out what really happend between us. When I told him what I wanted he says that he would like to atttempt things again and take things slow, and start with a new beginning, because i know him so well, I dont think hes ever taken anything slow and I feel like he doesnt want the same thing I want. I dont know what to do I dont want to feel like im pressuring him, but i dont want to wait around for ever. I love him, but im scared that hes going to break my heart again. I dont want to relive what I went through, but I dont want to be away from him...please help i know this is long, but i feel like no one understands what im going through, and please dont tell me thers other fish in the sea. (link)
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I think you guys should really take it slow. It sounds like you are both unsure and it will take some time to get to know each other again. Start out as friends and work your way up. Don't rush him and have him not rush you.
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hi. i am the same person that asked this question http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=600975. i was wondering, if i really decide to tell him how i feel, what would be the best way? text message? in person? i don't think i can get him away from his friends to tell him in person and if i try to talk to him around his friends he might be rude to me and he and his friends might make fun of me or something like that. but i'm not telling him how i feel in order to develop a relationship with him. i'm telling him because i don't want to lie to him, having him think i think of him as just a friend when i really don't. so how should i tell him? (link)
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Tell him in person. Ask him if you could talk to him privately and then tell him. The worse he can do is say no. But to me, telling him in any other way then in person is just... a bit tacky. Good luck
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ive been dating the same guy for a year, i am completly in love with him! i love being with him and everything about him, so my dad got a job offer for brazil! i live in colorado and were moving around august. i told him im moving and it didnt go so well. everytime i think about leaving him i just want to break down and cry tell i cant cry anymore. im im in love with him and i dont think i can just get up and walk oit of his life like this, i dont think its fair for me or him. he was my first everything. first kiss first holding hands first sitting on lap first make out first everything i even lost my v card to him. hes told me he still wants to be with me after i move, i told him we cant see each other or anything and he said he doesnt care he wants to be with me and he would even buy a web cam to speak and just to see my face, what should i do??? im so lost!! everytime i think about leaving my heart breaks more and more (link)
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1. you need to take a deep breath. After that is done and you have calmed done and relaxed, you need to think. Would it be fair on either of you to keep up a long distance relationship which won't work nine times out of ten? My advice is to enjoy what time you have left but slowly fade out of the relationship. Remaining friends is a good idea and will help keep contact, but it would not be fair to either of you to try for a long distance relationship.
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