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I dont know how to last a long time?
I'm a female and I'm in 7th grade, I am very mature for my age. I recently got a boyfriend who is a freshman. I've liked him for 5 months and got the guts to ask him out. We've been going out since 12-11-11. And our days we spend together are simply amazing. He act the same as bestfriends like we were before but now we have more benefits obviously. So he's a smoker & I truly hate smokers , but I try to make it the best when he tells me he smokes. Recently a boy that hates me doesn't want me and my boyfriend together and wanted to ruin my plans for me and my boyfriend tomorrow. So instead of spending half the day with me he's going to get high with the boy. And I've honestly been telling him anything even lies to make him stop smoking but I guess he thought I wanted to break up with him when that wasn't the case at all. But I explained to him and I just really wanna know how can we last longer because I'm really in love with him & I wanna know what to say and what not to say to keep him as my boyfriend.
Thanks. (:
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I have to disagree with the first one. Asking him to not be with one of his buddies is the worst thing you can do. But talk to him, tell him the problem and ask that he at least don't smoke around you. It'll keep you healthy and he'll only have to worry about his health. If he is as nice as you say, he'll agree to it.
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Communication is key in every relationship you will ever have in your life. Your relationship with your parents,siblings, best friends, anyone! If you have something to say to your boyfriend (like, for instance, something that's bothering you) you have to say it. Don't ever say anything without thinking it through in your head first. This isn't to say that you need to second guess yourself, just make sure the words you're going to say aren't going to hurt or offend anyone.
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I think you should tell him squarely that the guy he smokes with doesn't like you and you don't like that guy. And ask him, to not be with that guy. I am sure he will understand.
Good luck. :)
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