Question Posted Thursday December 29 2011, 12:06 pm
Hey,
okay so me and my ex broke up over a year ago.
Since then he went back to his ex,then broke up again. Then got another gf and split up. Now he fancies some other girl.
However, we met up the other day at college and he seemed into me. But on fb it's obvious he likes this new girl. Basically there is an agreement we are 'friends' and he gave me a christmas card.
Should I delete him off facebook? Because basically I keep on getting hurt-but then I don't want to look like a cow :/
Denabella answered Saturday December 31 2011, 8:43 pm: Delete and block him. He sounds like he is one that is not ready to commit to one person and you'll only keep getting hurt. Ignore what others say if they call you a cow. If you think you did what was right for you that is all that matters. [ Denabella's advice column | Ask Denabella A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Friday December 30 2011, 9:29 am: Do you want to be in contact with him anymore? I say delete him! What's the point of being friends with him when you are driving yourself crazy just looking at his profile. I deleted my recent ex off of facebook because we aren't friends anymore and why torture myself? Get rid of him on facebook there is no point in keeping a person like that on. Who cares what everyone else says. Good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Xui answered Thursday December 29 2011, 8:26 pm: It's entirely up to you but from what you've posted, The guy isn't about getting down to business with just one person. If you want an opinion I would remove him and keep it at that not only does he not sound serious but don't let yourself be another doormat he can wipe his feet onto whenever he pleases.
xChaos answered Thursday December 29 2011, 5:28 pm: Its always tough to be friends with your exes, especially after bad breakups. You have to keep seeing them talking to people and going out with other people and being happy without you. I always end up blocking and then deleting my ex girlfriends just because seeing them at all makes me really mad.
You don't have anything to gain by staying friends with him, and really only have everything to lose. Its best if you block him, because if you don't it will be hard to move on.
Additionally, if he tries to come back to you now, its a clear sign that you're just a backup plan. Don't let that happen. You need to be either his first choice, or not with him at all.
angie101 answered Thursday December 29 2011, 12:35 pm: I agree with you. Stand up and finally delete him if he keeps messing with you. Totally delete him, he doesnt have any rite to mess with you and causin you to get hurt. If he sees you deleted him and asks to be friends again just say no...Or the other opition is to talk with him meaning ask him why hes doing that to you or ignore.... your choice well GOOD LUCK with that guy!!!
-Angie! [ angie101's advice column | Ask angie101 A Question ]
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