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is it ok for a 13 year old girl to masterbate?
i am a 13 year old girl and i feel like a freak! none of my friends masterbate and they think its groos and weird! i havent told anyone though and i plan to keep it to myself! OMG i feel like a freak!! is it normal??? i do it daily in my bed and rub the leg of my stuffed animal on my vagina!!! is that normal! help me and please dont say mean things!!
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None of the girls I know admitted to masturbating until we were about 16. Up until that point, they had always sounded "appropriately disgusted" by the idea. Then it turns out that all of them had been masturbating since at least 14 (some as early as 11, myself included!).
Girls rarely feel comfortable admitting these things, but that doesn't make it any less normal! This is something that is personal to you, and you shouldn't feel any pressure to tell anyone what you're doing. It is nothing to be ashamed of, it is completely natural and healthy.
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You are not a freak. Everyone is different. Just dont make a big deal of it. If you do you never know, middle school is a nasty place of rumors that spreads like wild fire. So, dont tell the wrong people. It's ok you do that. Everyone is different!(:
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Chill...it's perfectly normal you're a teenager and everyone is bound to get curious at some point. Half the people you know have probably masturbated before and just to scared to admit it so they say it's weird. So I think you're good, no need to freak.
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Here's the truth. Your friends masturbate just as much, if not more than you do. 100% guaranteed.
They would never admit it, because its considered socially inappropriate for girls to admit that sort of thing. Its mandatory to deny it at your age.
Masturbation is a normal human behavior. The only abnormal sexual behavior is no sexual behavior at all. So if they didn't masturbate, they would be the weird ones.
If someone ever tells you they don't, or have never masturbated, you can pretty much be sure they are lying.
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It's completely normal to masturbate. Chances are your friends do it too, but feel too ashamed to say so. You don't have to tell anyone you do it and you have no reason to feel like a freak.
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