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moving ~ dont want to leave him!!
ive been dating the same guy for a year, i am completly in love with him! i love being with him and everything about him, so my dad got a job offer for brazil! i live in colorado and were moving around august. i told him im moving and it didnt go so well. everytime i think about leaving him i just want to break down and cry tell i cant cry anymore. im im in love with him and i dont think i can just get up and walk oit of his life like this, i dont think its fair for me or him. he was my first everything. first kiss first holding hands first sitting on lap first make out first everything i even lost my v card to him. hes told me he still wants to be with me after i move, i told him we cant see each other or anything and he said he doesnt care he wants to be with me and he would even buy a web cam to speak and just to see my face, what should i do??? im so lost!! everytime i think about leaving my heart breaks more and more
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I hate to tell you this, but long distance realtionships normally don't work out. Honestly, i think you both should go your separate ways because staying together will be too hard!
:)Good luck!
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you only live once . when you move my best advice to breakup & go seperate ways , if you find someone else then you do , if he does then he does . if you guys both stay single & wait for eachother thats great too , but dont be in a long distance comitted relationship 9 out of 10 of the times they never work
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1. you need to take a deep breath. After that is done and you have calmed done and relaxed, you need to think. Would it be fair on either of you to keep up a long distance relationship which won't work nine times out of ten? My advice is to enjoy what time you have left but slowly fade out of the relationship. Remaining friends is a good idea and will help keep contact, but it would not be fair to either of you to try for a long distance relationship.
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I agree with Girly101. The same thing happened to me this year. but i jus didnt move states let alone continents i gess. but you definitly wont see it now because your in the moment but if it was to be he will wait and you'll come back or you'll jus find eachother later, but dont do longdistance relationships cuz those suck cuz you get paranoid and all sorts of problems. being frieds is like your parents letting you keep your favorite puppy after it dies but its better than nothing. but you will find someone els if it doesnt work out. its not the end of the world. trust me. it might feel like it but give it a year or less depends on how you are. :)
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Hard to say as one would have to be there and have it happen. Because of your reason for questioning who ever is at risk needs to get test now and in six months. During that time that person needs to refrain from sex until they have a clean report from the doctor. So as not to put anyone else at risk.
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Can I ask how old you are ?? Speaking from experience if you are young - trust me there are plenty fish in he sea. Your first does mean a lot - if it's true love it will always come back.
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