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Okay, so I need advice on how to deal with my parents' extreame aggression.
Here is the thing, I am not a perfect child, and I know I can do wrong sometimes, but sometimes my parents get mad for littlest things. Their way of dealing with situations is not pleasent. Whether I deserve the trouble or not, this is usually their dealing process.
1. Extreamly loud shouting (not bothering to listen to explanation)
2.Hit me/Throw stuff at me (they have punched me, pulled my hair, whipped me with a cord, slapped me, etc. I wouldn't considerit child ABUSE, but rather excessive force.)
3.Threatening to kick me out/police station (I've been taken their, and kicked out of the house on a cold night)
What should I do? I don't know how to deal with their anger rages, and all the hurt... (link)
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- tell someone what they do to you . as much as it may hurt , that is child abuse/neglect . dont let them do this to you any longer . you need to talk to someone that can help you
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ive been dating the same guy for a year, i am completly in love with him! i love being with him and everything about him, so my dad got a job offer for brazil! i live in colorado and were moving around august. i told him im moving and it didnt go so well. everytime i think about leaving him i just want to break down and cry tell i cant cry anymore. im im in love with him and i dont think i can just get up and walk oit of his life like this, i dont think its fair for me or him. he was my first everything. first kiss first holding hands first sitting on lap first make out first everything i even lost my v card to him. hes told me he still wants to be with me after i move, i told him we cant see each other or anything and he said he doesnt care he wants to be with me and he would even buy a web cam to speak and just to see my face, what should i do??? im so lost!! everytime i think about leaving my heart breaks more and more (link)
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you only live once . when you move my best advice to breakup & go seperate ways , if you find someone else then you do , if he does then he does . if you guys both stay single & wait for eachother thats great too , but dont be in a long distance comitted relationship 9 out of 10 of the times they never work
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This girl I like told me that shes not interested in me, and she has done this several times. But she keeps acting like she does and says things all the time that make me think she does.
She says she loves me but shes not in love" with me. She told me that for my birthday coming up "I got you something special that your average female friend wouldn't get you if you know what I mean." and when we were talking on the phone I overheard her sister saying "you really have an obsession with him (my name) dont you?"
Then last night we stayed up talking and I told her I was upset, and she asked what I was upset about, and I said "nevermind it doesnt matter anyway" and she responded with "you do this to yourself."
I dont understand. She flirts with me all the time and says she always wants to spend time with me but in the end she says shes not interested in me. Why would someone do all that if they didnt like you? Its been like this for years. (link)
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- i think she does the things she does because she knows that you like her so she is trying to take advantage , she doesnt want anything from you , she is messing with your mind , my honest opinion is to not show her you care , dont let her know you want her & she will back off if she really doesnt & if she keeps trying to mess with you than maybe she does want you , but has a weird way of showing it , or doesnt know how to show it
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I a few months ago started watching porn which lead to masterbating. I also have cyber sex. I have seen dicks but only through pics and a video (live and not). I have masterbated with alot o things but never had a girl or guy like have sex or finger me or eat me out or butt sex. Am i a virgin?!? (link)
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your answer depends what what you consider a virgin . some people believe that if its a dick going into the vagina you are not a virgin & some people consider it as anything like sexual toys anything like that will make you not a virgin . it all depends on what you believe . in my personal opinion you are still a virgin
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So i have a boyfriend and im 12. I went to my friends house for a sleepover and he slept over , i went home and i lied to my mom and told her that he didnt and then she didnt belive me so i told her the truth and now shes pissed and wont even look me in the eyes, she doesnt belive a word i say and we didnt do a thing. What do I do ? (link)
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i think your mom is just upset for the fact that you lied to her to begin with , once you lie to someone they will never know when your telling the truth or not , what you need to do is start being honest , your mom will always be there for you to help you make the right choices , as you grow up you will begin to realize your mom is your only REAL friend
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I'm 20 yo, and i want to break up with my bf but i dont know how. He isn't really a bad guy, i just dont fink we're suited. The thing is we've broken up and made up thrice within the last four yrs. I want to end it officially nw cos i dont have feelings for him anymore. He keeps talking about sex but am a virgin and am proud of it. I dont want us to be enemies cos we go to d same university. (link)
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- just be honest with him , tell him exactly how you feel & what you want . you only live once do what makes you happy . if he doesnt understand than he doesnt care for what makes you happy & you shouldnt feel bad for something you want
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I am a 15 year old girl, and I feel that my parents don't understand ANYTHING I do, or want.
I have not been to the mall with my friends EVER. My parents do not let me go, and they say it is because they aren't going to let me be like other teens roaming all around the place. I only want to hang out with my friends and be a normal teenager. I have a crappy phone plan wich gives me 50 mintues and texts per month, so my social life has gone down the drain. They are constatntly down muy throat about everything I want to do. I need some advice please! I need to know how to let my parents see my view and just let me be a teenager... (link)
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- i say that if you cant talk to your parents about whats going on then you should try to talk to someone else , maybe a counsiler that can help you over come you fear/anger to talk to them . but your parents just want the best for you , maybe when you get older things will change , but for now just go with the flow , hope this helps
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