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I want to break up with my bf
I'm 20 yo, and i want to break up with my bf but i dont know how. He isn't really a bad guy, i just dont fink we're suited. The thing is we've broken up and made up thrice within the last four yrs. I want to end it officially nw cos i dont have feelings for him anymore. He keeps talking about sex but am a virgin and am proud of it. I dont want us to be enemies cos we go to d same university.
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Hi! First of all, I think it is great that you are a virgin. It is good to protect your innoscence. I also feel strongly that individuals should "trust their gut". Therefore, if the relationship you are in does not feel right... then get out. In my opinion sex is supposed to be sacred. Therefore, if he keeps talking about sex without respecting you... well, some flags should go up in your mind. Sex is about mutual satisfaction, not just one individual getting satisfied instead of both. If you do not feel comfortable being vulnerable with this guy then I would say call it quits.
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tell him you want to break up. you shouldnt have to saty with anyone if you dont want to.
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Be honest with him
There is really no way of telling someone without getting some sort of reaction from them. You both knew when you started dating that there were always a risk of it not lasting.
If you don't know how to tell him you could say "I feel we are drifting apart and I am no longer happy in this relationship and I think it would be best to go our separate ways." You are not entitled to be in a relationship that you are not happy in. If he decides to sweat it then let him make the situation miserable on himself and eventually he'll get over it.
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- just be honest with him , tell him exactly how you feel & what you want . you only live once do what makes you happy . if he doesnt understand than he doesnt care for what makes you happy & you shouldnt feel bad for something you want <3
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The best solution is - be honest. Tell him that you don't have any feelings for him anymore.
I think it is almost impossible for you to break up with him, without him being hurt ( you sayd: He keeps talking about sex - so, I think he has feelings for you still ). You just have to be strong - if he hates you afterwards, you have to suffer through it until he gets over it.
Good luck!
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