Member Since: January 8, 2012
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Last Update: January 8, 2012
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I'm 20 yo, and i want to break up with my bf but i dont know how. He isn't really a bad guy, i just dont fink we're suited. The thing is we've broken up and made up thrice within the last four yrs. I want to end it officially nw cos i dont have feelings for him anymore. He keeps talking about sex but am a virgin and am proud of it. I dont want us to be enemies cos we go to d same university. (link)
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Hi! First of all, I think it is great that you are a virgin. It is good to protect your innoscence. I also feel strongly that individuals should "trust their gut". Therefore, if the relationship you are in does not feel right... then get out. In my opinion sex is supposed to be sacred. Therefore, if he keeps talking about sex without respecting you... well, some flags should go up in your mind. Sex is about mutual satisfaction, not just one individual getting satisfied instead of both. If you do not feel comfortable being vulnerable with this guy then I would say call it quits.
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17/f
When my boyfriend and I first had sex he tried to eat me out but I wouldn't let him cause I was scared. Now I keep hearing its so good I want him to try it but idk how to tell him I want it done. What should I do or say to him to get to do it or want to do it? (link)
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Hey! I really think you should give being eaten out a try. My suggestion is to just ask your boyfriend. Tell him that you think it might be fun and give you physical pleasure. Considering he offered this to you when you first were sexual he would probably be understanding and thrilled to do that for you. Women don't always verbalize their need for pleasure, orgasims, etc. out of fear. But if you verbalize your needs it leads to mutual satisfaction. Men verbalize their needs so why shouldn't us women verbalize ours? Furthermore, from experience being eaten out is an out of body experience. Basically when it happends you need to relax, let your mind go, and focus on the sensation. Don't be scared and only do this if you feel safe being vulnerable with him. I hope this helped.
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