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i want him to eat me out
17/f
When my boyfriend and I first had sex he tried to eat me out but I wouldn't let him cause I was scared. Now I keep hearing its so good I want him to try it but idk how to tell him I want it done. What should I do or say to him to get to do it or want to do it?
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Hey! I really think you should give being eaten out a try. My suggestion is to just ask your boyfriend. Tell him that you think it might be fun and give you physical pleasure. Considering he offered this to you when you first were sexual he would probably be understanding and thrilled to do that for you. Women don't always verbalize their need for pleasure, orgasims, etc. out of fear. But if you verbalize your needs it leads to mutual satisfaction. Men verbalize their needs so why shouldn't us women verbalize ours? Furthermore, from experience being eaten out is an out of body experience. Basically when it happends you need to relax, let your mind go, and focus on the sensation. Don't be scared and only do this if you feel safe being vulnerable with him. I hope this helped.
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If you don't want to say anything, chances are if you give him a blow job he will most likely return the favor.
If that doesn't work, just tell him. He shouldn't mind if he tried before.
Good luck (:
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