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Is she just teasing me?
This girl I like told me that shes not interested in me, and she has done this several times. But she keeps acting like she does and says things all the time that make me think she does.
She says she loves me but shes not in love" with me. She told me that for my birthday coming up "I got you something special that your average female friend wouldn't get you if you know what I mean." and when we were talking on the phone I overheard her sister saying "you really have an obsession with him (my name) dont you?"
Then last night we stayed up talking and I told her I was upset, and she asked what I was upset about, and I said "nevermind it doesnt matter anyway" and she responded with "you do this to yourself."
I dont understand. She flirts with me all the time and says she always wants to spend time with me but in the end she says shes not interested in me. Why would someone do all that if they didnt like you? Its been like this for years.
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- i think she does the things she does because she knows that you like her so she is trying to take advantage , she doesnt want anything from you , she is messing with your mind , my honest opinion is to not show her you care , dont let her know you want her & she will back off if she really doesnt & if she keeps trying to mess with you than maybe she does want you , but has a weird way of showing it , or doesnt know how to show it
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Yeah it sounds like she's teasing you. I think she just like the attention she gets from you. I just think you should move on and find someone who won't mess with your mind. Good luck!
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Move on, Why are you sticking around giving someone attention when all they enjoy is the attention? You are wasting your time, She pretty much told you that.
Your life value should be more then focusing on someone who is all about getting attention. As long as you give it too her then it will never end and somewhere down the line you are going to burn yourself out. Meet someone who is worth while and won't spend years of your life leading you on.
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After years of this, she's right: You are doing this to yourself.
She IS a tease. She keeps you on a short leash for her own pleasure. She's been pretty honest about this.
As long as you keep giving her the attention she desires, she'll keep flirting and suggesting there is more to it than friendship. This is what your friendship is in her mind.
You can either choose to be friends with this attention-seeking flirt, or you can decide that being her friend makes you miserable and move on with your life.
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