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Something isn't right!


Question Posted Saturday December 24 2011, 12:56 am

I have had sex with my boyfriend now for about a year. He recently started going away for university so I only get to see him about once a month, which means I have sex about once a month. Lately, my vagina has been very itchy. It is not a yeast infection because i've had one before. The skin around my vagina is sometimes itchy, but hurts when I scratch it, yet feels relief at the same time. My boyfriend is home again and we've tried having sex but it hurts me so much. I also don't feel as aroused by him, like I have to close my eyes and try not to picture his every flaw. I don't know, something just isn't right! Please help

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Denabella answered Saturday December 31 2011, 9:10 pm:
Okay do not break up with him if not necessary. It could be he was a carrier of the disease and it hadn't shown up in him. But go see a doctor for sure and talk to him to see if he was cheating on you. If that is true, tell him to get treat for the infection as well and then dump him. Don't dump him if it wasn't his fault about the disease or if he didn't know he was a carrier.

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adviceman49 answered Sunday December 25 2011, 11:53 am:
You need to be checked for STDs. Even if you and your boyfriend use condoms they do not protect from all STDs.


See you GYN, get tested. Regardless of the results tell your boyfriend to take a hike as he has brought home someone else infection to you.

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xChaos answered Sunday December 25 2011, 6:05 am:
See a doctor, those are all very clear signs of an infection of some sort. Its probably not going to go away, and might only get worse with time.

After speaking with your doctor, and getting yourself taken care of, its to to have a serious talk with your boyfriend about how you may have gotten your infection. If you find out hes been cheating on you, dump his ass.

Good luck.

xChaos

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Matt answered Saturday December 24 2011, 10:04 pm:
Time to visit your OB/GYN and break up.

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