16 females.
Ok my friends and I all jus broke up with our boyfriends! We want to know the best way to get over them? Its been awhile, but we still like them! (A month, 2 weeks, a week)
Ok please don't tell us to "think happy thoughts" or something temporary. Hahaha. Thaaaaaanks!
if you still like them, why did you break up with them? haha
but if you want to get over them; its easy
Look for other guys.
Find the cute irrisistable ones and before you know it you will be after them and have the other ones totally out of your lives.
Easy as that , right?
ORRRRRRRR.
Just stop talking to them and soon you will lose interest.
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Just ignore
and
replace.
Hope I helped
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Ask me out already!!
I thinks he's shy with me. (He's pretty popular too. Got the ladies screaming! Hahaha.)
I think he's intimidated. ALL his friends and my friends tell me how much he likes me...
I'm pretty well known, a lot of guys like me, but I only like him & he knows that. Maybe its because I'm older than him. We've been talking/liking each other for a MONTH. Omg he's even gotten mad when he saw me eat lunch with this guy. Well gawsh hurry!
So tomorrow..... I'm going to talk to him about it! I've got the courage now! Yay! What are some good things to say? So far I have:
What's up with me & you?
You said when we get to know each other more we can go out.... well its been a month!
What else?
Thaaaaanx! =]
haa. a month is nothinggg LOL!
i've been waiting for like 9 months now. lol Oh well
well just bring up how you like him . and if he says he likes you too just be like " well. we should do something about that huh ?"
and yeah; just say whats on your mind.
Good luckkkk!
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15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.
the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.
what do i do?
oh god it sounds like this one kid i know..
hes a total flirt.
Well your guy. Well.. not' your' guy but.. Okay you get it. BUUUTTT Dont answer his texts. His IM's (if you have aim) Or his messages. Just block him out of your life.
When you answer him back, hes getting the idea that you like him too . Which i dont know why because, like you said its only been two days. Hes getting way ahead of hisself.
but ignore him.
Or bring someother guy up.
Even if you dont like any other guy. Make up one. You dont even have to say his name.
Just give him a hint that you dont like him and you like someone else.
And wow. COMPLETE STALKER ha.
he went to your work?
wow. that HAD to be awkward.
Next time if he comes by your work again and he actually goes through the drive-thru just play it cool.
Dont look all EXCITED to see him.
Just say HI and well. ocasionall Whats up?
If he askes you to hangout with him, and if you dont want to, make something up.
Yup, it takes lying.
Say you had plans
Im just telling you IF it happens.
Butt yeahh.
Or you can do it in an easy short way.
Say " I dont like you, and i dont like you following me"
Or whatevver.
Mix it up however you want it.
but .. that kinda seems harsh BUT true.
Anyways
i gave you all i had.
I hope i helped
PEACE;
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so there's this guy named R, and i had the biggest crush on R last year and i had 5th period with him. He's really nice ans sweet and i loved talking to him.I think he liked me, but then i wasn't sure b/c he's a really flirt. Then school ended and then it started again. So now me and R don't havge any classes together, but i used to see him in the hallways all the time, and i would say hi or smile. Then i did'nt see him for a while. Like 6 months. Then i started seeing him again starting this semester, and i know he sees me. My friend says to say hi, but i'm not sure b/c i think it'll be weird if i say hi all of a sudden after 6 months. And on thursday an amazing thing happened. Okayy so i see him rite and my friend was like omgg look it's him, and i was just looking down and smiling, and stuff saying no. Then she was like omg he passed, and i aws like whatttt and i turned around and we made eye contact, and he was smilling, but i think he was smiling before i even turned around. Then i was acting like i was looking for someone else. Then i walked away pretty fast. It was soo baddd..lol...
but what i really want to know is that a good sign??
and if i should say hi to him.
DUUUDE! lol your going through what i went through. Well kinda.
SAY HI.
TRUST ME
Ive liked this kid for soooo long and we never talked, and i was pretty shy too. My friends would be like " Just say hi" and i was like " UH.. noo . Its ninth period, i didnt even say hi to him in my first period. How awkward would that be?"
But guys can careless what period it is or when you say hi to him or how.
If you say hi, its good.
JUST SAY IT
I did, and me and the guy talk everyday now.
Actually. hes close to being my boyfriend
A Hi starts with everything.
Hi-- smile-- walk away
* if a conversation doesnt spark up walk away i mean.
And yeah, if he was smiling at you, He deffinitly noticed you.
Yeahhh ive done that too. The " Im going to look passed you to act like i DONT see you when i really DO see you and act like im looking for 'Billy'."
Yahh. we've all done it.
and its your nerves.
You neeed to get over it.
Starting a conversation will make your day; trust me.
A little conversation that you havent had in 6 months will make your WEEK. and eventually, if you keep asking him little questions or start little conversations, you guys will do it daily.
You will feel so good after talking to him.
Just keep that in mind when you see him.
'Just say it.. Say HI/hey. If he says hi, and he doesnt say anything else; his loss. Walk away. He probably nervous too. Let him do the work. You said HI, all he needs to do is start the convo.'
MAN AM I A PRO AT THIS!! LOL
see, i have been through this. I know how you feel.
need more advice. dude totally message me more about this and update me.
.. you can message me back on here cant yah?
anywhooo.
I hope i helped
PEACCEE'
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There's this guy who i met in my freshie year and we worked on a play together. Well over the summer we saw eachother at a store and he made a few complements that were very sweet. Well now i have a crush on him and he's acting increasingly friendly: He came up to me in the hall and gave me a huge thumbs up just cuz he saw me and whenever we pass by eachother he does a little thumbs up or points at me, even when noone beside me and him are in the hall. Now we are in a new play together and he threw his arm around me and he gave me this whole " eyebrow" thing when we were sitting down. But sometimes he is friendly, though he doesn't do the same things he does for me, with other girls he knows. Is he just being friendly or is it possible he could just like me a tiny bit as something else?
usually when guys are acting 'unusual' it probably means he likes you. in a shyness kind of way. Its kind of like getting red when you say hi. In this case i guess he likes to throw up thumbs up when he sees you.
yoono what i meen?
-i hope i helped.
-Speakfreely
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Okay well there is thins boy that I REALLY like and he Really likes me but the problem is that he thinks he is so cool and Hott and when he goes to give someone a high five or give a girl a hug than they don't even see him and walk right away. Then he gives me an attude and is very rude to me and I really don't like this and I think im in love with him and I know for a fact that he Likes me so what do I do he is not acting like himself and I miss the old him...:[
thats easy.
What you juuustttt told us, tell him.
thats helpful advice right there.
(:
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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ok so there Is this guy and he is(how do I word it correctly)...GORGEOUS!!!! and I really want to talk to him but I have know idea what to say I dont have any classes with him but hes in my lunch and I see him around. I need to talk to him but what do I say to someone that i dont know and dont have classes with? I'm not usually the type who cant find words but for some dumb reason I get way nervous and dont know what to say around him! please help!
ahhaah zheart100. yeah do those " woops sorry" things. ahha. they work for me. like im in the same exact situation. this guy is freekin hot man, and hes in noone of my classes, and just like you, i only see him at lunch and between classes. Just smile at him. He'll see that your friendsly. And try to "accidently bump" into him. ahah. it sommeetimes works. I cant garuntee on that, but its a suggestion. You can try to make a joke infront of your friends while hes right by you. He'll see that your funny. And that would be good. I have to be taking some of this advice myself.ahha .
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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Sorry if it's a stupid question.Ok,school barly started this week and I keep staring at my last year crush all the time.Sometimes he'll catch me looking at him or at least I think he see's me.Anyway would he get very suspious if I keeep doing that?
He might.. It matters. Are you drooling on your desk or..? ahha. Just when you are starring at him , try to not make it obvious. Dont look straight at him to look like a stalker..just stare from the corner of your eye. It wont look obvious. Just dont get caught!
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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My best friend, lets call her... Emily is going out with one of my good guy friends.. lets call him Nigel. Well they have been going out for a few motnhs now and they are really cute. But Nigels best friend is telling him to break up with her because they live 20minutes away so they dont go to the same school. She is really upset and doesnt want him to. He says he isnt but we know that he has been thinking ab0out it. She really wants to stay with him but now hes trying to make her break up with him as well. He says shes just going to regret going out with him because of the distance. She doesnt know what to do. Any ideas? Shes sitting here beside me...
Well you guys, love can get through any distance. If you really love him "emily" then dont have the distance rip your relationship up. Hang out with him every weekend or something. Call him every night or something. Keep in touch that way, but if you feel that the distance will effect and have tons of doubts about it, then yeah, have the relationship go off. Talk to him about it. Things will get better that way. TRUST ME.
I hope I helped! (:
-Speakfreely
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Ok so i met a guy about a week ago and we tottaly hit it of. (were both 15 by the way) And we hung out then started talking on msn. He said he really liked me and wanted to get to know me a bit better, then would ask me out in person rather than on msn. That was last weekend. I tried to get a hold of him a few times. But he hasn't been talking much and has been acting kinda weird. Whats going on? Does he still like me?
See, thats always hard. because guys tend to say their feelings on the computer and not in person and then when there done typing what they had to say, they get self-concience. They're not lieing but maybe hes shy. Maybe shy to face you knowing that you know the truth. Just keep on trying to talk to him.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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Okay,
Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(
-heartbroken
All i can say is that you have to let go of him. Move on. Its hard to hear, i know but he has a gf. Just wait until they brake up or somehting. Just dont wait there and dream about it, hes taken. It happened to me before too. I know exactly how you feel ):
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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I'm a 13 year old female. There's this guy I like A LOT, it's different from the other guys too. I was planning on kissing him tomorrow night at the movies, but now I'm having second thoughts, because I was on the phone today earlier and we were talking but his friends were at his house, which whom I can't stand, and vice versa. So they kept grabbing the phone and hanging up. I quit trying to call back but then I tried one last time, and then he answer, not his friends. And we talked for like 30 minutes, because he told me he was supposed to be meeting a girl B which I have no problem with but more girls too. And I was like oh, then he was like who are you going with and I said my friend A which he can't stand, and he said not A.C right. I was like nope wrong it's her. And he was like then don't bother trying to find me, and I'm not calling you when I get there. I was like you are so inconsiderate and mean. And he said how, I said because your inviting all your little girlfriends, and I can't bring my one best friend? You don't even care about anyone else's feelings! And I don't know but he went to go do something, and I heard one of his friends say I don't want you to talk to her. So I decided I wouldn't call back. But tomorrow night what should I do? Should I act like none of it happened and kiss him, or just not watch the movie with him at all and keep ignoring him? Please help, sorry if it was long.
If he cant except your friends then hes not even worth it. He sounds like a Big jerk to me. I think you should ignore him. But did he stick up for you when his friends kept hanging up?
Dont kiss him becuase he'll think that what he said was ohkay and you didnt mean what you said. You got to show that that had an effect on you.
I hope I helped!
-Speakfreely
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Okay.I'm really stuck guys.I'm so mad and sad and frustrated with everything.There's this guy that I like.Let's call him Clayton.And Clayton is such a sweetheart and I can tell him anything and I know he'll listen.But me and him like..I don't know..he just doesn't like to make conversation at all.Unless I bring something up.And it usually goes like this:
Me: ...
Clayton: ?
Me: Oh nothing
Clayton: say it
Me: no
Clayton: why
Me: because
Clayton: just say ittt
And it goes on and on.And usually I only do that so he talks.Lol.Because otherwise, I really don't know what to talk about myself.And he doesn't like to open up to me..and it makes me mad.What do I do?
Say "hey whats up" or whatever and then he'll answer and probably ask you and then it goes on fromt there. Talk about your day. What usually works for me is that i be just plain random, and it works!! Hey, at least it starts a conversation!
I Hope I helped!(;
-Speakfreely
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okay so theres these guy from a town close to me that ive been hanging with, one of them i cant tell if he likes me or not but he flirts allll the time with me, but hes one of those guys who always does, but i get the feeling he likes me more than friends....then the other guy i can tell likes me, and i think i like him back...but the problem is i think i might like the other one too, whut should i do?
ahh thats a hard one.
Well, take time to think abou tit carefully. If you have doubts about the other one, then you know you dont have the true feelings for him.
Take some time and think about it really hard and then you'll get your answer.
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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i have this friend and ive gone with her and her boyfriend and a few other people to the movies. well when they are at the movies she lays on him and he puts his arm around her and stuff. and she sometimes like sits on him and they make out and its cute.
well im going to the movies with my boyfriend soon and i want to do that kind of stuff. how do i get him to do that. i dont just want to throw myself on him. how do i know he likes to do that kind of stuff too? i dont want to ask him cause thats kinda of weird.
First see how teh first 10 minutes is in the movies. Dont hurry to much to jump into that. you have to be patient and see how it goes first. If he gets a little touchy, go with it, you'll see if he wants to do it or not. But dont jump riight into it, you have to wait.
I hope I helped!(:
-Speakkfreely
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Okay, I'm 17/m,
Recently I said some things to my gf that made her wonder whether she should stay with me or not. I called her after work and she spent half an hour assuring me that I am the one, but before I talked to her I made a promise and labeled it "An act of love"
Before all of this I had an addiction that is common in a huge % of the human population. This addiction is masturbation. So here I am, worried sick that the one I love most hates me for flirting with this girl she's worst enemies with (I told her after the phone call to my gf that I never wanted to talk to her again) When an idea pops into my head. The idea "devote yourself" so I spent the entire night tracking down anything in my home that is related to another woman and disposing of it. After doing that I made it clear that I would not do anything sexual on my behalf until I was with her. So my question is guys: If you were in my situation, would you consider this option? Why and why not? Girls: If your man told you this how would you respond?
This has been bothering me for the last few nights so any answers are greatly appreciated.
Thank you and sorry for the length.
If I was In your girlfriends shoes i would feel the same exxaacct way.
You just have to reussure her that you wont do it again. You have to make an effort to not do it again and she has to make an effort to think about it more. It takes patients.
Just try to make the best of your decisions!
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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Hey guys
17/m
Here's the deal.
I like this girl. I mean, i like her a fair bit. But i'm not sure if she likes me back or not. I mean, recently she has been saying in quizzes (i know not the greatest source of all knowledge in the world) that she isn't sure if she fancies someone. And its just the timing is kind of coincidental. So I was just wondering what you guys think I should do?
See, i don't want to say anything and potentially ruin what could be a good friendship, but then again if i don't take the chance i probably never will.
So yeah, I was just wondering what you guys thing I should do.
Well, you have to make your mind up bud. hahaah Do you like her? It seems to me you really do. Just keep talking to her everyday and you'll find out more about her and you'll see who she likes or if shes even ready for a boyfriend yet.
You have to be patient and find out more about her!
I hope I helped! that was a hard one.
(:
-Speakfreely
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i'm 17/m
she's 15/f
i'll start out by saying that i'm one of the shyest guys alive.
so there's this girl i'm really into, she's one of the shyest chicks alive. i think she's into me too because on aim she always starts conversations with me. so we talk a good amount on aim and occasionally see each other and talk, like in school and i drove her home once and she visits me at work all the time.
thursday i asked her to go bowling with me. here's why i'm an ass: i went with a friend of mine because i was too scared to go with her by myself. i told her ahead of time though and asked her to bring one of her friends but she said that none of them liked bowling. it was really weird because me and this girl are really shy and my friend kept rambling on about his favorite subject, drugs. i talked to her , like chit chat but never got into any real conversations like i had hoped to. i texted her later that night and told her i made it weird by bringing my friend and told that next time it would be just us.
today after work i'm gonna call her, no texting just talking, and explain that i made a big mistake cause i'm an ass. we're kinda awkward around each other cause we are both deathly shy but i'm really determined to make things work. i'd appreciate any opinions or advice very much.
Your not an ass.
Your a caring guy, and as you can see, it was a mistake. It doesnt mean your an ass. hah.
Yeah your doing the right thing, tell her your sorry and make another time for you and her[just you two] and go to bowling or even a movie.
I hope everythiing works out. You guys seem like the perfect couple.
I hope I helped!(:
-Speakfreely
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so we went out a year ago and recently started talking again, he replies to a bunch of my myspace bulletins and ims me on msn all the time. he recently called me to walk around with him at warped tour, but then backed out, and when i saw him at warped tour he invited me to walk with him but i walked away, and when i saw him again there he stared at me and spit water at me and threw a condom at me (jerk) and then when i ran into him a 3rd time at warped he wanted me to walk with him again but i said no again, and he was supposed to talk to some other chick and i asked him if they were going out and he said i dont know and my friend told me that was because he didnt want to tell me the real answer, and ive asked him where we stand before, but that was after him and a serious gf broke up, so he was still upset over that, and like he asks me to chill, but he always just wants to have sex, even though i always tell him no not unless its with a bf.. so i dont know, what should i do. does he like me and if so, how do i find out, and if he doesnt, how do i get him to lol
well, first, make sure if he has a gf. Because if he does, that wouldnt be so good if he starts flirting with you. He's just showing you that if you guys go out, he might as well flirt with someone else. Bad signs let me tell you.
And lol. He obviously likes you. Guys show 'love' in the weirdest ways. If he talks to you right when you get on aim or myspace or w/e you can tell he likes you. Or when he asked you to walk with him, Thats a BIG sign.
Talk to him and ask if he does have a gf. And then start from there.
Oh and you obvuiosly you'have' him because he 'wants you' lmao.
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.
Thank's
Much Love XoXoX
First ask Stacey if anything has been going on with both of them. And be honest of how you feel.
And with your boyfriend, You have to trust him. Everyone gets that feeling of something going wrong. Just sit down with him and say you dont want to fight. Tell him how you feel, and if he says nothingis goign on with him and Stacey, you just have to believe him. It takes trust for a relationship.
And also, he'll see how much you care about it once you tell him how you feel.
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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