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i'm an ass
i'm 17/m
she's 15/f
i'll start out by saying that i'm one of the shyest guys alive.
so there's this girl i'm really into, she's one of the shyest chicks alive. i think she's into me too because on aim she always starts conversations with me. so we talk a good amount on aim and occasionally see each other and talk, like in school and i drove her home once and she visits me at work all the time.
thursday i asked her to go bowling with me. here's why i'm an ass: i went with a friend of mine because i was too scared to go with her by myself. i told her ahead of time though and asked her to bring one of her friends but she said that none of them liked bowling. it was really weird because me and this girl are really shy and my friend kept rambling on about his favorite subject, drugs. i talked to her , like chit chat but never got into any real conversations like i had hoped to. i texted her later that night and told her i made it weird by bringing my friend and told that next time it would be just us.
today after work i'm gonna call her, no texting just talking, and explain that i made a big mistake cause i'm an ass. we're kinda awkward around each other cause we are both deathly shy but i'm really determined to make things work. i'd appreciate any opinions or advice very much.
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haha you are much too hard on yourself. The fact that you took a friend along does not make you an ass at all, you are shy...and you warned her, and you didn't expect it to be the way it was. All you can do next time you go out is just be yourself, even if you are really shy. Some girls find that really cute, btw. Just treat her with respect and show her that you are into her. Maybe buy her a single rose because you feel bad about what happened ;ast time, girls love flowers. So at least if you feel like you can't quite express yourself, you are trying to show her that you are thoughtful. But, you are not an ass in any way.
Good Luck!
Teacup
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Your not an ass.
Your a caring guy, and as you can see, it was a mistake. It doesnt mean your an ass. hah.
Yeah your doing the right thing, tell her your sorry and make another time for you and her[just you two] and go to bowling or even a movie.
I hope everythiing works out. You guys seem like the perfect couple.
I hope I helped!(:
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You're doing the right thing by making sure you call her and explain to her how you feel. Girls are funny sometimes, and hard to interpret, but she was probably just as nervous as you were, so I'm pretty sure she could understand. Next time, try making sure it's just the two of you, and don't do anything too big when you're together. Just kind of hanging out for a while.
And remember:
-Shy boys are cute.
-You aren't an ass for being nervous.
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well your doing the right thing, by calling her up and explaining that your sorry, just explain to her that you reall shy, pretending that you dont realize she is really shy.
definately dont hang out with your friend with her again, thats bad that all he did was talk about drugs, thats not what a girl wants to here about. it kind of makes her wonder if you do drugs too. tell her that you dont do drugs at all either on the phone, just to clear it up.
your not an ass for doing it, its just kind of awkward that he did all the talking. you'd probably be more comfertable with just you and her. you dont have to only talk, do more bowling and flirting, or whatever your going to do with her next. just apologize and that will show her that you care enough about her to apologize.
hope that helps a little :]
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