so we went out a year ago and recently started talking again, he replies to a bunch of my myspace bulletins and ims me on msn all the time. he recently called me to walk around with him at warped tour, but then backed out, and when i saw him at warped tour he invited me to walk with him but i walked away, and when i saw him again there he stared at me and spit water at me and threw a condom at me (jerk) and then when i ran into him a 3rd time at warped he wanted me to walk with him again but i said no again, and he was supposed to talk to some other chick and i asked him if they were going out and he said i dont know and my friend told me that was because he didnt want to tell me the real answer, and ive asked him where we stand before, but that was after him and a serious gf broke up, so he was still upset over that, and like he asks me to chill, but he always just wants to have sex, even though i always tell him no not unless its with a bf.. so i dont know, what should i do. does he like me and if so, how do i find out, and if he doesnt, how do i get him to lol
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mariahneu answered Saturday July 21 2007, 3:22 pm: I would not get mixed up in this particular situation. This guy doesn't sound like a good guy to be hanging around with, much less having a suitable relationship with either. You deserve better than a guy like that, so I wouldn't worry about it. I would start looking for another guy that is more mature and that actually wants to have a relationship with you that is based on trust and true love, rather than sex.
Deana answered Saturday July 21 2007, 3:00 pm: well, first, make sure if he has a gf. Because if he does, that wouldnt be so good if he starts flirting with you. He's just showing you that if you guys go out, he might as well flirt with someone else. Bad signs let me tell you.
And lol. He obviously likes you. Guys show 'love' in the weirdest ways. If he talks to you right when you get on aim or myspace or w/e you can tell he likes you. Or when he asked you to walk with him, Thats a BIG sign.
Talk to him and ask if he does have a gf. And then start from there.
Oh and you obvuiosly you'have' him because he 'wants you' lmao.
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