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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE? (link)
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All you can do is wait it out...love hurts...
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today me and my boyfriend were surpose to hangout...well his parents came home early from work so i was going to go to his house...but then he called me and he said he was going to go buy a game with his older brother real quick and hell be right back and hell call me when he got back...he left @ 2 30 today.....its now 4:20!! i called at 4 but his mom answered and said he still wasnt here...im giving him till 5 to call me....when he calls me later when he does get home and its past 5...what do i say? how do i handle this? its pretty rude what he did.... (link)
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Do juss wat he did to u. Don't call him bak or anything. Thats so messed up that he would ditch you. If he does call bak juss be like o i cant. And dont do anything with him for a week to teach him a lesson...ha ha revenge is o so sweet
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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That's definitly not a problem by having those feelings. Everyone gets them! You say you like being single but want to have a bf so u dont feel left out...hmmm well i personally think tht you should do watever you feel lke and dont let your friends let peer pressure make you do anything you dont want to do. If you like the guy go for it! Bf's are always great to have!
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I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????
* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too (link)
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Well if youre shure that you have no feelings for him anymore then break up with him. you dont want it to get any serious than it is and end up breaking the guys heart. Break up with him gently by telling him that you still wanna be friends and that maybe later on in life you guys can maybe hook up. good luck!
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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!* (link)
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Well when you have those awkward pauses, ask him some stuff about his life. That way there won't be any awkwardness and you get to know more about him!
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i really really love this guy but hes might best friend. im not sure if he likes me so i dont want to tell him how i feel. what should i say? (link)
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This may sound redundant..but tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Don't leave any details out. That way he will really know how u feel and maybe he will feel the same
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I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
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Talk to him about it. He says he loves you but then again he has a gf...hmmm intresting. If he really does still love u he's probly just with this chic to try and get over you. Tell him your feelings for him and that you still love him and want to get bak together. Good luck! Lemme know how it works out!
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hi im 14 f and i want a boyfriend! where is the best place 2 meet one?
thanks love nicki
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The best place is school! That way you can see your boy toy every day!
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help! (link)
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Those are definite signs of flirting!! Flirt bak gurl...if you like him go after him! Bf's are good to have...specially round Christmas time and birthdays! lol jk jk! I'm not that shallow! Anywayz go after him before someone else snatches him out of the "single club"
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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on? (link)
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Hang out with just you and him...like watch movies at one of your houses and things will unfold from there. Just make shure your ready to go to the next step and you trust ur bf enuff. Trust is the most immportant key ina relationship. As for turnig him on, diffrent things turn on diffrent guys....so I dunno wat to tell ya! sorry lol happy holidays
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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If you flirt enuff and drop those signs that you want to be more than friends, he probly will start liking you again. Try talking to him about it too. But member...Actions speak louder than words so FLIRT GURL! Good luck happy holidays!
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i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!? (link)
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You should feel guilty. How did u ever let your cuzin finger you? I'm sorry but I hafta say it...GRODY!!!!! It's really hard to give advice to this..but here goes. You can never take bak wat you did but the past is the past but NEVER let that happen again...especially with your cuzin
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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion? (link)
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I don't think you should go after her....juss yet. I mean it sounds like she is in a serious relationship with her bf. A year and a month is a long time to be with someone. Juss be there for her like you've always been. That's wat she really needs at this point. Wait it out and if her and her bf break up...wait about a month for things to settle down then maybe make the move. Right now you juss need to be there for her and comfort her cuz thats wat she needs the most.
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im in love with this dude lets just call him perfect!! n he was supposed to ask me out yesterday after school but now he wont because i told ppl that he was gunna ask me out When I DID'no!!!! this is so bad !! n his friend lets just call his friend liar and he lied to me about perfect liking me and now i look like a idiot.. please help me i dont know what to do!!!!
signed
broken (link)
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Dont sweat it! Are you for shure that this guy "perfect" doesnt like you? Maybe "liar" is juss lying about that too. If "perfect" really doesnt like you then move on. You don't need a guy giving you mixed signals all the time.
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Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it! (link)
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Well you said that it was "kinda no big deal" when he said that he couldnt go out with you anymore. If you have that attitude now, juss use the same attitude when you all are hanging out. Who knows...maybe you guys can still end up being freinds.
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Hi
I'm a 13 grl. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 5 months.. I really love him and I always want to be with him and he feels the same. We say we r going to get married someday.. well! I have a best friend and we've always kinda've liked each other and our friendship is growing.. my bf is going to high school next year and im going to be stuck behind for a year... he skipped a grade. but he's still my age. well! I don't know wut to do bc i want to kinda give our relationship a break when he goes to high school and get back together when i get there... but he wants to stay together.. and i dont want to break his heart or anything. please help!!!
confused girl (link)
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Well if you really feel that you want a break then do it. Just expect taht its probly gonna hurt the guys feelings. But why would you want to risk a perfectly good relationship that you have? Chances are that if you do take this break that he will go to highschool, find another gurl and might forget about you. I really dont think its a good idea but thats just me. Do wat you think is rite and will be the best for you.
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Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me. (link)
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You can always be just friends with this guy but still have feelings for him. Just dont let those feelings get out of hand. I really dont think its a good idea that you tell the guy how you feel. Especialy if he has a gf. You dont want to get in the middle of all that. Especially if your only a freshman. His gf could start to hate you and turn the whole school against you and thats never good. If you juss be friends with this guy soon enuff your feelings for him should die down and you will find a better guy for you. Hopefully one that isnt 3 years older than you! Good luck!
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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~ (link)
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I hate when guys do this!!! Well gurls do it bak tho! lol! I think you shouldnt give up on flirting with him cuz if you like him why not give it a chance. He probly said I dont kno to you out homecoming cuz maybe he wasnt comfortable with you yet. Keep getting to know him and if he doesnt ask you out soon enuff then maybe you should move on and stay good freinds with him. Having guy friends is always a major plus! There's never any drama and their always fun to kick it with. Maybe he is JUST guy friend material.
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
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Well if his ex says that he needs a few weeks to open up, dont rush him. That will just scare him off. JUst wait for him. And for the whole hand holding and kissing thing goes, some guys like for the girl to make the first move. Maybe after a few weeks after he opens up to you, make the first move. That will show that you really care and like him enuff and it will take all the burdens of his shoulder. If you want to make it last over christmas break, MAKE AN EFFORT TO SEE EACHOTHER!!! You guys can always go to the movies or juss chill with some friends. If you never see eachother when your not in school, then that has got to change! Make an effort to see him out of school and things will unravel from there
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now. We dont get to see each other that much because we go to different schools, but im going to his school next month so things will get better. Well this weekend he wants to do somthin, but its up to me to find out somewhere for us to go on our date. We went to the movies last weekend so i want to go somewhere new. So if you have any good date ideas, please help. (link)
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You should go putt-putt golfing! It shows your guy how you can really cream at putt-putting. Or if your not a golfer (depending on the weather) you should go swimming. Or if that idea doenst float your boat, double date with some people! That always breaks the ice and its fun for everyone!
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