how can u tell that a guy likes you but dosnt wanna show it because hes ambaressed or something?
Guys never come straight out and say it unless they get a sudden boost of confidence...But usually they'll pick on you, or find some little way to touch you, or they'll try to make you laugh...little things like that. It's pretty funny/cute when they do.
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Jessie
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20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it?
No, you did fine! Just never bring it up again, forget about it, and hopefully she will too. And the fact that she came back into your arms shows she forgives you! Just hope it never happens again...and if she mentions a friend, and you go to say somethin to her, avoid saying her name. Call her by a nickname or somethin...Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.
-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.
-Please someone help me I really need it!!
Ignoring his stupidity, how do you feel about him as a person? How is he stupid? Literally stupid, or does he just do weird things to make people laugh..? I know alot of ppl like that, I'm alot like that. Just think about how he feels about you, and how he treats you, and him as a person, and try to think about how you feel about him after considering all of that. The best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?
(any nice girl out there?)
We're all nice girls!! When you stop lookin for love, that's when it stops hiding. There's a sayin that says somethin bout love bein around every corner, and no you're not walkin in circles...You're just lookin to hard. You're not pathetic, you just want to be in love really, and there's nothin wrong with that! There's a nice girl out there for you, there's a special someone for everybody, and she'll show up when you least expect it. Just loosin up, and be yourself. Good Luck!! Much Love!
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Jessie
P.S. Try Victoria's Secret...lol
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ok well you see i have mayjor problems because im in love with this kid who i cant be and well yeah were cool and all and he flirts but hes a ladies man you know and i love him so much and well i dont want to say anything b/c i dont know how he feels but please help me should i follow my heart and let my family and others hate me for a guy that may not even be interested and if he is what happens if we dont stay together i mean im willing to give my virginty help im in over my head please answer asap
Talk to him, no harm can come from that. And if he doesn't feel the same way, then his loss...if he does, then, well then whatever happens, happens I guess. A lil advice, don't be willing to give your virginity. You sound young, and you don't wanna lose it when you're young, there are a ton of consequences. Alot of girls think sex means love, and if you gave it to him, and it didn't work out, you'd be even more hurt. Just really think about it, cuz once you lose it, you can't get it back. Hope I helped, the best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!
That's called stalking, you can go to a counselor or vice principal at your school, talk to them about it, and have them talk to him and/or his family, saying you don't feel comfortable with him around, and they'll do somethin bout it. Hope this helped! Good Luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.
Everybody deserves a second chance, granted what your boyfriend did was wrong. Let him know this is his last chance, and if he screws up again, then it's over. Now since you love him, it'd be hard leavin him, and it'd hurt for awhile, but it'd only make you stronger in the end. If he does screw up, and you do leave him, then hopefully he'll realize he needs to do somethin, and stop usin drugs! One can only hope...Hope this helps! Good luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Okay,I was with this girll for like the longest time..Months & months.Everything was good then suddenly she broke up with me..She didnt give a reason.she still tells my friends she loves me but isnt with me again & I dont get It.should I talk to her or would that make her mad??:(
Definately talk to her, do you love her? If so, she probably feels in the same place as you. Talk to her, ask her how she feels. If it's the answer that you seem to be hopin for, then go hang out, get caught up, and save the first date for a little while...maybe this weekend! If it's not the answer you're hopin for, then go to your guy friends! Guys always have some sort of party in mind it seems...Wait, partying leads to bein drunk...don't do that, go to chucky cheese or something like that. lol Just kidding! Everything will be fine, no harm will come from talking to her! Just be sincere when you do, tell her how you feel. Hope this helps, and good luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.
~Nokomis~
I can totally relate to this one. I'm in a very very similar situation. This guy, who I've known my entire life, and is actually my best friend lives in Ohio, where I used to live, but we moved to Florida. He's about 758 miles away and 10-12 hours...And I love him more than anything. I plan on movin back in 2 yrs and 2 months, and I think there is maybe a small chance of somethin happenin between us then, we think that if I had never moved then somethin would have happened between us...But he knows I love him, and we're still as close as we ever were, if not more. Tell him you love him, he won't be freaked out, maybe a little surprised, but in a good way. And if you have a strong friendship, and can tell each other alot without judging one another, then things shouldn't get weird. I read this quote once that said somethin like since you never get to see them, hearing their voice is the closest thing to touching them...It's so true. Tell him how you feel, you might be surprised, for all you know he could feel the exact same way. The guy I love doesn't, but at least he knows...Hope this helps! The best of luck!
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Jessie
P.S. The guy I love even commented on your question...it's a small world after all...lol
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ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl?
First off, no matter what you decide, be safe! Ok, physically, you can go very far with this girl. Just make sure you both are ready before going all the way. If you don't, then there are people who are into touching, and/or oral sex. Now all of those have consequences if not practiced safely, so please be careful. After all, you are only 14 and you don't wanna go all the way, and be a daddy at 15. So, think bout it before you make a final decision! Be safe, be careful, and above all, Have fun!!! Hope this helps!
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Jessie
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
Girls wait for the one guy who will tell her she's beautiful instead of hot, who will call back when she hangs up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to her heartbeat, or just lie awake to watch her sleep, the boy who will kiss her on her forehead, who wants to show her off to the world when she's in sweats, who will hold her hand in front of his friends, a guy who thinks she's the prettiest when she's not wearin any make up, the one who will turn to his friends and say "Yeah, that's her..." Just sweet talk darlin, and make sure you mean it. Don't ever tell a girl you love her unless you mean it, that is very important! Only tell her she's beautiful once...trust me, well not just once, just not every day, every second of the day, when she's supposedly at her worst, and when she gets dolled up for you...and when she least expects it. She has gorgeous eyes, her small hands fit perfectly into yours, you love the sound of the beat of her heart, you've never met anybody so beautiful inside and out...and remember, make sure you mean it, the last thing you want to do is hurt her...Good Luck, Be Sweet!
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Jessie
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
Talk to her...Be a man! lol Just apologize to her for everything that happened in the past, and tell her you'd at least like to be friends, and ask her if she'd consider it. Somewhere in the conversation, mention that you're a brand new man! Cuz after 2 years, I'm sure you are, and we all change for the better! Good Luck, let me know how it goes!
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Jessie
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ok well im a girl and i went out wiht this guy for like 5 months and i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him (that was an oopies) but anyways i kno im in love with him cuz its been like 6 months and still i havent gotten over him... whoah thats a long time. and he got a girlfrned like a month after we broke up. and he didnt cheat on her but he only wnet out wiht her for a day. and then he had another girlfrend a while later. and he came to my house and we madeout on newyears and everything while he was going out wiht her. and he just recently had a girlfrend and he slept at my house and we held hands and cuddled and see i had a dream about us going back out and having sex. and i told him about it and hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream. and he used to say he wont go out wiht me again and then he just sayd i dont know .. thats wutt he says now.. but when he dumped his recent girlfrned we just wnet to a movie last friday and he like got mad at me for no reason.. like he does this sometimes but i thot he started to like me again. but i dont know. my frends just thot it was just a thing around his frneds but he wouldnt talk to me or sit by me. i told him that i love him and that i love him more then his recent girlfrend did and hes just like ohh ur soo sweet!
i wanna kno... does he like me ? do you think we will go out again ? why is he being like this.. ? i need major help on this stuff and wutt do i do??
please help me or just IM me on deEply iN l0ve69
thanks andrea*x0x
Well he sounds a lil insecure, and scared to me. I think he does like you, and after datin you for so long, and those other girls for only a matter of days, it seems that he felt you 2 were gettin serious, very very serious, and he might be afraid of a more serious committment than what you 2 had, and felt he had to go out and just experience lil things before he gave himself completely to you. He seems to be sendin mixed signals. I think you should talk to him, tell him that you've expressed your feelings, and that it's his turn. Ask him how he feels bout you. Hope he gives you the answer you're lookin for! Good Luck, and let me know how it goes...
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Jessie
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ok i need help theres this guy i like him alot and he likes me too we want to be togethr but theres just something stopping us i know what it is but yea umm can u just tell me what i should do bout this guy.. i love him sooo much~samantha~
Well Samantha, I'm not sure what it is stopping you exactly but if you 2 really wanna be together, and if it's meant to be, then it'll happen. I'm in a very similar situation, and I know it hurts alot, but what doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger! Everything will work out for the best I promise, all you have to do is be strong, and if u 2 are friends then just continue the friendship and things will move along as they're meant to. Hope everything works out for the best, good luck, and ~*Don't Worry, Be Happy!*~ :)
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Jessie
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically
Well most people would love to start where they left off, cuz it wuz great last time they were together. I say spend a lil time talkin, get caught up, and if it isn't the least bit awkward, then just get back to where you left off, and have some fun. Let me know how it goes! Leave me some love in the inbox! lol
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Jessie
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female
If he just smiled then there's a chance that he's not sure, but definately leanin towards a yes that he does...He possibly smiled cuz after not talkin to ya for a while, just the thought of you made him smile. Which is always a plus! In my opinion, you should go up to him, and let him know that you still have feelings for him, tell him he's been sendin you mixed signals, and you just want to know how he feels bout you. Don't send all your friends to talk to him though, he'll think you don't have the courage to come talk to him yourself, also he could get annoyed with all of them askin him the same thing over and over again. Once you've talked to him, no matter what happens, you'll be glad you did. And if it doesn't go the way you hoped, it'll only make you stronger! Good Luck! Hope it all works out! Let me know if any of this helps, you can leave me a message in my inbox.
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Jessie
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