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My boyfriend has a friend thats a girl, and theyve been friends for a couple of years. They have pet names for each other and talk all the time. He doesnt talk about her all the time, but, when he does I just get mad. I dont know why, I just do. Hes always concerned or worried about her. I really dont like it when he talks about her but I want to help him because hes always worried about her. Am I just being jelous? What should I do? I'm so confused.

Jealous? I would say that you are a bit. But I think I would be in that situation too. Just try to remember that they are friends, but if you still cant help but be jealous, make sure you go talk to your guy.

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What do most people define as "hooking up"?

My opinion...a one night stand.

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I'm 15.
So I go to church every sunday but we recently got this new priest like afew months ago. He's like 50 and he's really HOTTT! He's so funny and the gospel always makes me laugh. So like a lot ofnights I go to his house and I look in the window. I watched him pee one time and it made me like... get turned on. And like I always blush when I'm around him. HELP!

Um gross...

Stop! Find a boy your own age!

And if it gets too bad, suggest switching churches to your family because you dont like the new priest. (even though I guess you do)

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ok whoever has a promise ring.. type thing.. i dont know if thats what everyone calls them.. if you have one, how much did you get it for? and for anyone wheres a good place to get rings?

thx :)

Well, you can basically just use any ring that you have, it doesnt need to be specifically a promise ring.

I got mine 4 years ago and I rarely take it off.

I think I got mine at a Christian store and I think I paid $15 for it.

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This is going to be super long...

Me and my boyfriend of about 7 and a half months broke up at the beginning of the week because he's leaving for a 9 month missions trip to Africa in 2 months. We were taking it way too seriously emotionally, contsantly disagreeing on things and just generally not doing too well. The breakup was mutual because even though we agreed the decision sucked, it is what's best for both of us right now. We resolved to be friends until he returned from Africa and try being together again when he gets back. So I turned around my claddagh ring (an Irish promise ring that kind of shows what your status is in relationships, I got one from him for Valentine's Da), put everything he ever gave me (cards, roses and other flowers that were now dead, poems and a few other things) away where I couldn't see them and basically cried until it was time for me to get up to go to work the next day. The next day I felt just kind of numb inside. Two days later he called me and then came over for a few hours to just hang out. We were having a great time, laughing and acting like the kids that we keep forgetting we are, like we used to. But the whole time I kept getting those painful stabs of missing him and I had to keep reminding myself that we weren't together anymore and that I couldn't randomly kiss him anymore. Everytime we've said goodbye since the breakup he kisses my cheek or my forehead or my neck and it hurts even more. There will be those moments where I'll catch him staring at me or vice versa and we both know what the other one is feeling and thinking, still even then. Since we've broken up we've hung out two or three times and the whole idea of being best friends again is going really really well. I have no problem with it at all I guess I just need help with getting used to it. Anybody have any suggestions?

Well, hmm...you know who I am...or at least I hope you know who I am.

Surround yourself with friends. And tell yourself that when he comes back, you can be together again. 9 months may seem like forever, but once he is gone, it will go by pretty quickly. Even though you think its obvious that he knows how you still feel, let him know anyways.

Now if you do know who I am, you know that I suck at giving relationship advice, and now you can see that I suck even more at having to type it out. Theres a lot Im thinking about saying, but Im afraid that if I type it out, you may take it the wrong way and get mad or something.

So if you are who I think you are, talk to me on AIM, or call me if you need me.

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I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him?

First off, let me just tell you...Im 16 and Ive never been kissed. My first boyfriend was way too shy and in my second relationship, I was way too shy!

Its possible that he is just shy about the whole kissing thing, so if you are comfortable with it, go ahead and ask him about it.

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Hey guys. I'm pretty pissed off. This guy I like hung out with this other guy that lives next to me, and they both came to my house and dumped a bag of mulch on my porch, just for a joke I'm guessing. Anyways, I'm kind of mad he would do that because my family has aenough porblems without him messing around with our yard. I;m just asking..is it ok to be mad? Or should I just be like oh right haha good joke? Will he think that I get mad over the stupidest things? please help.

Wow! How immature!

If you are mad about it, dont worry...I think I would be too. How rude of them!

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ima 14yr old female and i just broke up wit my bf, and that same day my friend asked him out. I kno im the one who dumped him, but i still like him a little, and it sorta bothers me that their goin out. and she is 2 yrs younger than him, so it seems weird to me.

What is wrong with your friend?! How dare she go out with your ex the same day you two break up! It should bother you. You need to talk to her about it. My rule, I dont date my friend's exes...its not fair to the friend!

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