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Hey im a freshman in High school, and would love to help you with any questions you have about life and dont worry all if this is confadetial.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I love dancing, that is my thing (even though i am not the best at it...), i feel like i am free and that what ever i do it is all good and no one will judge that. I also am am into art, mostly 3-D, i love working with clay and doing models out of ne thing. I am also involved with the drama department at our school. My first year at dawson my friends got me hooked, and im not saying that is a bad thing.
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Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.)
Omg that is so cute. you realy like him.... go for it! if you like eachother and will be there for each other then you should go farther then friends! and by what you told me your mom is rasist... (not to be rude)... like she says, she is not the one dating him, YOU ARE! if you realy like him then it will turn out for the best... and you are only 14 I hope that the people in your school are not that childish to talk behind your back about the choices in guys. go for it girl! i am here to to be some moral support and so is Darrel and your friends. hope i helped and if you have any more questions just ask :)
Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!)
im 14 and i just had my first bf a little while ago. it was so nerve racking. you just have to have him make the moves... just have fun and act like it is one of your outings. dont change just bc you guys are going out it would deffenetly hurt the relationship. Also if he starts to make the "moves" on the first date i would reconsider going out with him... ne ways there is nothing to worry about if you act like yourself everything will be fine, yeah on the first date that is going to be acword but it WILL get better... i promise! good luck, have fun. hope i helped!
Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do?
ok first of all if it was me i would not feel coforatble with a guy that does drugs. but if you realy like him, when he calls you the next time and you have plans just sugest another day to go out with him that is good for you and him instead of just saying i am busy and hanging up. make sure that whenever you see him in the hall say "hi" and tell him how you feel so he will get the picture. good luck and be carlful around thoughs kinds of people, thake care of yourself! hope i helped!
I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks
Im shy around people, It was hard for me to brake out of my shell moveing to a new state but you gata do it. it is hard and when i was trying to make a convorsation I was always worreid about saying somthing stupid. but you have to look past that and go for the guy you like. you will soon get the hang of it... i promise! No one will say, "omg that girl is so stupid," when you try to say somthing. but what they might say to you now is "she is realy shy and i dont no much out her." just go for it take chances and maybe make some mistakes but you will get it! hope i helped!
hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
omg! im so sorry. This is sad but true, long distence relationships do not work know mader how much you do love eachother. he is coming down for oregon for a little while but you have to keep in mind that he is going to leave agian. so i would start this realationship with Eric. I am not saying that when you ex does come to viset dont talk to him! no you should, but i would hang out just as friends. hope i helped!
there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone.
This is a tuffy... You should tell her how you feel and that you dont feel the same for her, she might be heart broken but you dont want it to interfear with you relationship with you girl at your work. IF, she still is hanging around you then you might want to consider just being friends with her, who knows you might end up likeing her. but i would not sugest it because she does not sound like the best girlfriend. Hope i helped! good luck and dont be to harsh. :)
Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15]
if you dont want your parents to no that you are dating then just ask them to drop you off at the movies and you are meeting some friends there (by the way i am not encuriging this behavior, just giving sugjestions). or just download aim of the computer! here is the site it is kinka long, https://my.screenname.aol.com. Good luck! hope i helped.
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I always look at the people around me, happy with their boyfriend or girlfriend. I sort of want a boyfriend, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it's the right time. I have a few guy friends, but not many. I don't hang out with any guys after school. There's one guy friend that I talk to a lot, but I don't like him like that (and he has a girlfriend anyway). So I need advice on what to do? I know you will all say "You're only 13 you don't need a boyfriend", or "Just wait until the right time, he'll come", but..I just feel so lonely sometimes, and I want to know that someone will always be there for me.
it is realy up to you to try to get more friends. you have to put yourself out there and be ready to be rejected once or twice but you will soon get the hang of it! and no you are not to young to date. i consider it just haveing a boy that you are really good friends with. if that does not work dont try to look at other couples you have your friends to look after you! good luck and dont be shy! hope i helped you.
HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do?
I feel you should first get to know this girl before you decide you love her. Start a convorsation with her so she can see taht you are a good person. become friends then go from there. but dont chace her off again by saying you love her. good luck! hope i helped.
do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?
Girl the world is not rotating around a guys desision if he is shy go for it and if he is not then go for it. we have to get away from the idea that guys are the only ones that ask girls out! good luck and i hope i helped!
hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.
If you realy have feeling for her you should try to help her. i am not saying that it is going to be easy but she is worth it! and if she likes you she will take everything you say to heart. try to work through it. at this age there is so many good and bad things to try out unfortunetly she chose the wrong thin... just help her. I hope i helped.
Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level?
you should just talk to him, get to know him more, find out if his intentionas are good ;-). from what you told me they do. then talk to him and tell him. guys dont always have to make the first move. guys are affraid of rejection as much a girls are. go for it girl! hope i helped.
I am a 14 year old female
ok, my boyfriend and i have just started going out so the relationship is still a little akward. He is really shy so we dont talk much. But his best friend; who hooked us up, i think likes me too. b/c he is always talking to me n flirting. I whink i could have a better relationship with the other guy(not my boyfriend)but i dont want to throw away a good relaionship b/c he might just be a little nervous. I am so confused.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im sorry its so long!!
you should fist give your boyfriend a chance to loosen up and show his true colors. even if you have to go up to him and start a convorsation... whatever it takes for him to feel conforatable in the relationship. and if you find that does not work and you still have feelings for the other guy then get to no him. you are 14 have fun. but dont flirt with the other guy while you are still in that relationship, and deffenetly if you do brake- up with him still be freinds dont throw that away! hope i helped.
Well I've got a boyfriend and he keeps telling me he that he takes drugs like he injects himself with heroin and sniffs canaBIS and stuff and steals cars also he says he's got a daughter and I don't know if he's telling the truth anyway he flirts with my friends which gets on my nerves and I've told my parents and they told me to keep away from him and to have nothing to do with him but I really love him and if I dump him he might start being nasty to me and I don't want that to happen what can I do please help me if you can !!
First of all i would try to sit him down and ask him why the heck he is doing this to you because if he loves you he should respect your feelings. if you feel the right move is to stay with him then do that. But make sure that he is treating you in the way that you deserive to be! and if you love him you should help him get some help because doing drugs can hurt him and your relationship with him. hope i helped