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short back story, im in love with a friend. im 19m she is 18f
she talking to me, asking me on advice on whether or not she should break up with her boyfriend because she has feelings for another guy. what am i supposed to tell her? im generarly pretty good at giving advice in these sorts of situations but im worried anything that comes out of my mouth, or rather keyboard, will be serving my best intrest and not hers, and im not even sure how to do that. i just told her to see how things work out with her current bf and not to rush anything. any better advice i could give her? (link)
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If I were you I would take this oppurtunity to tell her that you like her. Perhaps the other boy she has feelings for is you. You could say, "I want to give advice to you on what to do...but I'm afraid anything I say wouldn't help." and she would probably say why? and then you could say, "because I like you." just an idea...:)
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the other day i met this guy.. all of my friends knew him.. and i had heard alot about him and i finally met him. he was soo sweet.. hes been talking to me online and stuff. and.. he doesnt really like to date girls that go to other schools (i go to a different school than him) and i think that if i saw him on weekends and school vacations and stuff..if maybe it would work out. he seems to like me.. either that or hes a huge flirt. but i really need to know what to do (link)
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My boyfriend goes to a different school than I and we are still great. You'll have to make some sacrifices to see him, but with all good relationships there are sacrifices. Just keep in touch through the phone. Also, just because he goes to a different school doesn't mean you can only see him on weekends. Just plan on a day that you don't have much homework...or do your homework together:)
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How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him? (link)
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It doesn't have to be anything fancy, the words are special enough. Don't get nervous about it. While you are alone and comfortable just tell him everything that is on your mind.
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ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him. (link)
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I've been in the same situation. My boyfriend was really shy, but I am only a little shy. I knew he would never make the first move so I gathered up all my courage and just pretended that I was comfortable with him...even though I wasn't. Try saying something like, "Wow, are you as uncomfortable as I am?" because then he will know that you are on the same playing field as him. Hope I helped.
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Okay, well last night i had a dream that my crush asked me out ..so i invited him over except "my house" wasnt really MY house! It had a pool which i dont have and i had a different family. so anyway, the whole time we never hung out! He just hung out with these boys i think were my cousins (and i dont even have boy cousins!!) And didnt talk to me..then all of a sudden were outside and we start talking when a landmass happens and the only people left are me and him on this little peice of land that somehow DIDNT fall!! ?!? Then he says i want to break up withh you!! After all that ..what is this telling me? do you think i shouldnt ask him out cuz he will dump me fast? Im so confused ..i rate! sry about the length! I really need to know so plzz dont delete! (link)
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I think that your dream just reflected that you are worried he won't like you. Dreams reflect your feelings. So, go ahead and ask him out!
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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
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Couples like that are made out of pure luck. All of my boyfriends I would have NEVER thougth I would have been with. One of them was this kinda dorky guy who turned out to be really sweet and nice...and my current one is more the jock of the school but he's also really sweet and funny. Look in the most unexpected places anc you'll find one. Hope I helped!
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ok theres this guy and weve just become friends and lately hes been taking pics of me alla the time sitting with me at lunch hgging around the neck and we both runa nd hes on my team and like he goes around to differnt places to watch me run nd the other night on the way home he sat by me and he was like putting his head on my shoulder what would you think (link)
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Sounds to me that he likes you. Touchy - feely stuff is the biggest giveaway when seomeon likes you. Hope I helped!
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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
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Not at all! Take your time. Don't let your friends pressure you into doing something you aren't ready for/dont want to do. Hope it all works out!
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ok, my boyfriend dumped me. but i have no idia why. he told me that he just didnt want a girl friend.. but i know thats not the reason. ive herd that way to many times before. i cant stop thinking about it. his name is all over my binder in sharpie.. i dont no what to do. im lost. it seems like there are no guys on the earth but him. does anyone know any ways to get my mind off him, or get over him? (link)
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I know how you feel. Sometimes I still wonder about my ex's. First get a new binder or do something to get rid of his name. Doing that will remind you a little less of him. Take him off your buddy list on AIM so you won't be tempted to try to mend things. Focus on other things right now like school or your friends. I had two songs that reminded me of my ex and I stopped listening to them. You know you are over him when you can listen to a song or talk about him without wanting to get back together. Hope I helped!
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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!
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Taking a break doesn't officially break you up with the person...it is pretty much a nice way of saying give me some space. Breaking up is ending the relationship. Don't worry, I sometimes get them confused too! Hope I helped!
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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This is pretty serious so I wil get right to the point. You need to get over your fear and tell your parents and him. Probably your boyfriend first. If that is too much you could get a friend to do it with you to tell one or both of them. Have you thought about abortion? Adoption? You have your whole life in front of you and a child probably isn't what you need right now. Tell your boyfriend and your parents...you can't worry about how they will react because there are things more important than that you need to get done. Hope I helped!
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I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14) (link)
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I wouldn't. It's a little too early to be sharing things like that, plus if you don't know him to the very last bit you might be wrong. It might also kinda scare him.
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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If you don't want him to tell him no, and if he can't deal with it then it is his loss, not yours. Personally if a guy kept asking me over and over I wouldn't let him touch me because if he can't get it through his head the first time then I'm not sure when he ever will.
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i have a boyfriend that ive been with for two months and we started having sex right off the bat. this guy is my ex boyfriends best friend. im not even 15 yet and i dont want to have sex anymore, ive tried to talk to him but then he just breaks up with me. should i just not be with him? and do you think im too young to be having sex?
age:14
gender: female (link)
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If this boy is just all about having sex I would dump him immediately. I do think that 15 is a little young to be having sex and you shouldn't have to be forced to do it when you don't want to. Talk to him and see if the relationship can go on without sex and if not dump him. Hope I was some help!
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why do guys find thongs so sexy? (link)
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Honestly, I don't know. Having a string up your butt doesn't sound sexy to me at all. They probably like it because they think it shows that the girl is probably willing to go further than kissing (not in all cases, but some). The best advice I can give you is to ask a guy.
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I just wanted ideas of things I can do to keep myself busy this summer. I was dating this guy 'sonic'(we have been on and off since january, he was my ex)and tonight we 'broke up' (we weren't really OFFICIAL but dating) even though I have feelings for him and i feel kinda sad i'm ready to move on. any ideas?
I'll rate (link)
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You can become a counselor at a camp. I'm not sure if you can expect to be paid on such short notice but if not you could get communuity service hours to be used towards schools. Hope I helped!
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are glasses a throw off to girls? (link)
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Personally glasses wouldn't throw me off but if you had the choice of glasses or contacts i'd choose contacts.
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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o( (link)
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Don't cut yourself...It's not worth ending your life for a boy.
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There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away? (link)
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I don't think your parents are being very strict. He is 5 years older than you and probably much more experianced and such. He probably wants more sexually from you than you are willing to give. I think sometimes our parents are right...it would be wise to listen to them. Hope I helped!
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':. (link)
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Sarah-
Don't worry! I don't know your definition of a real relationship is but if you want to have a boyfriend go ahead! My only advice is when you do have a boyfriend don't go crazy and rush things. Take things at your own pace. Have fun!
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