i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything!
if i wanted him back, i would tell him i wouldnt care if he knew i was desperate. just come out and tell him you made a big mistake and you miss him really bad and you want him back before he gets interested in another girl (that would suck) you better do it fast before you run out of time. time is tickin good luck *Bethers*
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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?
believe me..you will find that person. i thought i wouldnt find that person til i was like in my 20's or something, but i found out about 1 year ago i found my person that i am gonna be with for the rest of my life. u will feel so different for this person that youve never felt before. its just a good feeling. you will know believe me. good luck and keep me updated *Bethers*
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What do you get a guy thats like obsessed with dirtbikes for valentines day? were going out but im shy around him and i dont think hes getting me anything but i want to get him something, so help please. nothing too cheesy.
get him some fox racing stuff. their shirts and jeans in fox racing magazines are so cute. if he likes dirt bikes hell like that..go for it.. *Bethers*
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(17 yr old female)so theres this guy i really like. Hes my best friends cousin. She set him up with me one day over christmas break and we hooked up...well we just made out. His mom found out and got really mad and said that if he ever talked to me he would get grounded. Ive tried a couple of times since then to get togeather with him but it just never seems to work out. Hes and awesome guy and i know that he likes me alot. What should i do, should i keep at it or just forget about the whole thing?
wow..well first of all your 17 and your about to be an adult. so i would def. not listen to her. and another thing i think his mom is crazy. dont listen to her. i mean your gonna be with who you want to be anyways. whats gonna happen if yall get married..i mean she cant stop yall. and if yall get a house together everytime yall plan to do something his mom cant just rush over there and say stop. she needs to understand yall will do it anyways. i would tell her to get over it or try to be nice to her and find out her story and the first time she hooked up with somebody. i bet is was before she turned 17. another thing is she is just afraid that her little boy is growing up. how did she find out anyways? well..good luck and keep me updated. *Bethers*
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my boyfriend and me have been together for 6 months...we love eachother alot...and are a really happy couple...but lately i dont know...hes been really weird...all his friends have turned on him and now their telling me hes cheating on me...i dont know if its because their just trying to get back at him and take me away from him or if its true..ive asked him and he promises me that he would never do that and stuff and i seriously cant picture him cheating on me..ever...what do i do?? i dont know who to believe anymore... :(
well..your just gonna have to trust him. i mean, he is your boyfriend. i would always believe my boyfriend over his friends. i wouldnt get mad and upset about it until i asked him and had a long talk with him about it. if it isnt true, he should have a little talk with his friends if he really, truely loves and cares about you. he wouldnt let you even begin to believe it. so i hope you take my advice and use it for your benefit. good luck and keep me updated *Bethers*
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There is this guy that i really like. My friends tell me that he likes me too because of the way he acts towards me, and that its obvious that i like him, so i know he knows how i feel about him. But, i just want to come out and tell him how i feel about him, and i want to ask him how he feels about me so i know for sure...but im not sure how to do that with out making it all awkword and all...PLEASE HELP?
i would flirt with him a lot. and then ask him what he is doing the following weekend and ask him if he wants to hang out. it should come naturally to you. and you would know if he likes you back because when guys get older they flirt by being nice and gettin all close to you. i mean just come out and tell him and be like i dont know how you feel, but i feel this way..and if it feels aqward, then hes not for you because you should feel comfortable with him. good luck keep me updated *Bethers*
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i don't know what to give my boyfriend for christmas. the only thing i know he's interested in is video games and i don't have money like that. what could i get him with about $20 or $30??
if i was you, i would go to the mall and find him clothes like cute shirts and stuff. i went to old navy yesterday and got my baby a shirt. he was excited about it..lol..idk just find out what ur man is interested in. and if you want to get him some cologne, get diesal plus plus! that stuff smells SO good or Mambo! good luck! *Bethers*
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i get depressed like really easly.. like today at school i was really hyper and happy and all that but now im really up set and want to cry over nothing. i just randomly melt down.. is there anyway to stop this or is there a reason im like this?
yes. when your around a group of people or friends, all you are worried about is talking to them. then when you get home and go to your room you dont have anybody to talk to and you start to think. most of the time you think about bad/sad things and i think that is what gets you that way. i know how it feels. your not the only one! *Bethers*
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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
if you guys are best friends, i wouldnt take that chance. i mean..you can if you want to, but i did take that chance. i was best friends with this guy named brett and i liked him since the 7th grade and he liked me since the 7th grade. im in 10th now. well i finally got single and he asked me out. that was a big mistake. we were way better off as friends. it was weird. i love him to death, but once i got with him i found out that it was not that KIND of love. it was the love that i would do anything for him bcuz he is just like my big brother. now things right now are kindof weird but we are still friends..but not as close. so if i was you i would make sure it was the LOVE LOVE that i thought it was. Good Luck and Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?
ok..i got you on this one. NO, it is not ok to flirt with someone while you are with someone else. you can mess/play/joke around with them (AS FRIENDS) but NO flirting. that causes trouble. when you are tempted, ask youself "Would I Want My Boyfriend To Be Doing This To Other Girls" you should know what to do from there. It always works for me and my boyfriend. besides if you really liked/loved your boyfriend, then you wouldnt even think about other guys or flirting with them. sorry. *Bethers*
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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?
well..i would say this boy def. does not know how to handle, treat, or be with a girl. if you are with somebody, you should be proud of it and tell as many people as you can. obviouslly he just wants to see what he can and if he can get somethin out of her. dont let him get to her! why would you go out with somebody you dont want anybody to know about? hmm..tell her to dump him before she gets hurt and embarass him and front of his friends! *Bethers*
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Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18.
i had the same problem, cept im only 15. well, i had to sneak to see him too. and i found out after i broke up with him that he was still smoking weed after i asked him not too and stuff. so he pretty much LIED to me the whole time we were together. (8 months) my mom told me i could be with him when i turned 18. but that was too long away. i told him i was gonna stay with him, but it got really hard. ive heard around that he will *F* any girl that was willing. and that made my trust for him go down even more. well..i finally broke up with him and just today he told some girl to tell me he thought this girl named corin was cute and sweet and was thinkin it would make me mad. and i told him i didnt care and good luck and if he thinks it makes me mad then f himself. SO DONT GET YOURSELF IN THIS SITUATION. do whatever feels right! you will be 18 before too long! SO just let your heart tell you what to do. and if it makes your mom mad, i dont know..just follow your heart! Good Luck! *Bethers*
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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??
i would def. tell him because you never know he may like you. i let every boy that i have ever liked know about it, because i dont see how they didnt know anyways. anybody can tell who you like. i mean its obvious. so go ahead and tell him. it might even turn into something. if not, keep it on a friendly basis and it may turn into something later! good luck! *Bethers*
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this is a really fast question. how do you get a guy interested?
o goodness..FLIRT!!! act really interested in him and just invite him over or to hang out after school or work or whatever. good luck! *Bethers*
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Thnx sooo much for your advice on my friend liking my boyfriend, she is now dating one of the other guys she like and i'm really thankful that you gave me that advice
Lata
Lizzy
no problem hun! anytime. have any more questions? hit me up! lol *Bethers*
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is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?
yes. age is JUST a number. because i am 15 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19 and i love him very much! so just dont worry about it, if you like them and they like you..go for it. good luck! *Bethers*
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theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/
ok. yall were immature back then and im sure he would understand if you just came out and told him. if he felt the same, he would tell you im sure. just ask him to hang out! thats the best way to start it off! good luck *Bethers*
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OK ive been going out with my bf for a week so far but I'm still kinda nervous around him cuz I like him so much. I want to surprise him and kiss him in like an empty hall tomorrow when we're walking together to show him that I really like him but I need like a game plan here lol can anyone help me out ? Thanks so much!
aww..how sweet. you should never be nervous around your boyfriend. just surprise him and kiss him! you would take a lot of stress off his shoulders prolly. it will be more comfortable for you AND him from now if you go first. maybe he is thinking about it too. just go ahead and do it. i kissed my boyfriend first and he loved it! lol good luck! *Bethers*
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me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?
just dont do anything you wouldnt want him to do!!! that helps me a lot! (Me-15 Boyfriend- almost 19) try it. *Bethers*
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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
to me, hook up means dating, being together, going out..and all that other junk..*Bethers*
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