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I'm 17 years old, i've been through alot, but it means i've got the expirience to help those going through the same or similar so that they don't end up lost like i did, i've been lucky enough to have alot of wisdom past on to me and i'd like to use this to help people so if you've got a problem c'mon =]] Let's hear it and i'll get back to you asap

NickyBwoii .x.

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help!

Take control and say to yourself "STOP" look around if your boyfriend is going to be a jerk who needs him i think you need to tell him to clean up his act and that if he does not clear up his act that you are dumping him you have to be nasty to be nice sometimes........
i wish you good luck and plz rate me.....
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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx

have the best of both i mean why are other peoples opinions important to you only your opinion should matter if you are happy with the way it is then leave it to work itself out i wish you good luck with your problem and plz rate me thanks,
AskNick

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My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.

Don't break his heart because ther chances are that if you don't love him now that you won't love him later so let him go and find someone else i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me.....

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ok so this boy likes me but he wont ask me out. i see him every day in school, hes allways staring at me. do i have a crush on him to? how can i talk to him if i have nothin to talk about? i rate

Don't get nervous and go talk to him pick a subject to talk about with him it could be the weather or anything.... i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks...................

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what do you say to a guy when you want them to fall in love with you?.. irate 5s.

You don't say anything at all you just make it clear to him that you like him then you tell him on a special occasion eg: valentines day but only tell him in person and when he's on his own..
I hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks............

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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!

You need to tell your mom how you feel and that she can't protect you always you have to have space to grow up tell her how you feel and tell her to stop over protecting you i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

You need to be honest if you don't like this guy anymore and you have any respect for him you will tell him so that he can move on in life.
remember sometimes you have to be nasty to be nice
i hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me thanks

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this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high.

Well guys like to play the cat and mouse game to see if girls like them he obviously likes you so carry on acting the way you do and things can only improve i hope my advice has helped you. plz rate me thanks

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see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?

Well before you get any move seroius you need to talk to your freind about chad then decide whats best after that i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks

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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?

---TinkerBelle---

Tell her exactly how she acts and if it annoys you tell her not to do it in front of you i hope my advice has helped plz rate me thanks

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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?

You need to tell your friend because if you tell her later on in life she may not forgive as now she is still a kid and she will forgive you i hope my advice has helped you please rate me

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Recently this boy has been walking me to class with his arms around me. Everyone is starting to think that we go ouy but we don't. I tell him I don't want his hand around me but he still does it. But the bad thing it thatwhen I am not around he makes fun of me and calls me bad words. See if I tell someone about this they may think I am unpopular or whatever and I can't afford that to happen. So what should I do.

Tish guy needs to be told whats what tell him you don't want him to put his hands around you, and if that don't work tell your parents and the school and the reason for this is because it is invading your personal space...
i hope my advice has helped and please rate me....

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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much.

This guy is obviously a user he dates girls just for a bit of fun and you should not feel guilty about loving him as it was not your fault you dated him just try and look at the positve's and try to move on i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped please rate me thanks.

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well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do?

I f i was you i would go and tell him whats what i mean it's obvious that he used you to have sex and you are not to blame because you did'nt know about his intentions and i think that you should play it cool for a while them get rid of this boy...
I hope my advice has helped and please rate me thanks

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ok so theres this guy that i "talked" to for a few weeks, and we went on a couple dates, then one night it went a lil further...then the next day he stopped calling me as much and stopped texting me, and we never hang out ne more. But wenever i see him at school he comes up and gives me a hug. Which sucs cuz everytime i see him he like takes my breath away...but for the past week i've been trying to play it cool and pretend like i dont like him, n wenever he gives me a hug or talks to me...i just pretend like i don't care...but the truth is I'm insanly attached to him, and i miss him sooo much. So i still call him like every night, n he used to pick up and we'd talk for a few hours, now he doesnt even pick up...I dont know what to do...he broke my heart, n now he said he's back with his Ex..how do i get over him...he drives me insane,I just want to be with him, but i know i can't.
-broken hearted-

this guy has done a very bad thing it is clear that you had something between you and he has not valued that but at the same time if you don't show that you like him then he will not calll you because he will think it is pointless so tell him how you feel the only reason he is back with his ex is because he wants you to want him and be jealous ..........
I hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me.....

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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help

well there is no reasom for you to take your own life or hurt yourself your best freind is a total bitch if she is treating you like this and as for your boyfriend he has got what he wanted from you and that was sex and now he don't care but you do so tell him and tell him he has to change or you will dump him but if he gets angry get out of there incase he turns on you and hits you.....
Please Don't Kill Yourself You Have Done Nothing Wrong..............
I hope my advice has helped

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Ok, theres this guy that went to my church last night and he was SOO cute and really funny! and his eyes are VERY pretty, they arent blue or green they are brown but SOO pretty! lol anyway, we have a youth group place and we went to the worship place and its where we like stand up, then sit down and then stand up ya know and when i looked at him he was staring at me! im only 13 and i guess i should know what that means but i dont! haha everytime i looked he was staring at me! and when he first did it, he like jerked his eyes away quick and i did the same but later on we would take like 2 seconds glances, like i dunno! what does that mean? does he like em or jsut think im cute! please i need advice before i make myself look stupid! haha

I think that there is something between you and him he probabily likes you because it seems to me he looks away because he is shy just play it cool and don't make any drastic advances untill you are totally sure he likes you i hope my advice has helped you.........

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The other day, I told my ex boyfriend's best friend that I sometimes still care about my ex. I am going to guess the he told my ex this. Today, after english class my ex walks up to me. He said my name and I said what. Then he said "I don't hate you." Do you think he said this because he still cares about me? Or do you think he said this just to let me know that he doesn't hate me. I find it ironic that he's just going to walk up and tell me this. Thanks. Good answer, good rating.

your ex-boyfriend is saying he cares about you still because guys don't walk up to people and say i don't hate you unless they care for you very much maybe you could take a chance and date him again... i hope my advice has helped

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what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship

Your friend should not be allowed to treat people like this i mean is she is really your friend she will thank you later and as for this guy i think you should tell him about her plans because your friend won't be the one that gets hurt this guy will..... I hope my advice has helped you.....

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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out?

Guys like to be surprised so take him by surprise nut only try to make a move when the time is right this means not up town where there are other people watching because he may think you are doing it to make people jealous so pick a time when you are alone and take him by surprise go for a goal.... i wish you good look with your problem and i hope this advice is usefull

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