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I'm just here to help You and Anyone who needs it...soo...if I gave some good advice please RATE ME!!!
My Name's Kelly...I go to school and am actually pretty good at it! I'd like to say Hi to my BFF Ally and Scott! I fell head over heels in love with Scott but He knows it but yeah!!!
I Love Music, I like to go out I like to chill, go to the movies, check out guys, flirt, and just be a GIRL!!!
I took this weird Quiz on this Magazine and I want you all to hear the story I got for some reason
U Will B a SiNgEr, MaRrY ScOtT N have 6kids. U'll Drive a white convertible and own a Pool w/Jacuzzi, Have 3 houses, 1 in LA 2nd in England 3rd in Paris. U'll live in England but then get a house in LA and raise your children there, Have a a Puppy named Tweeky...and be BFFs w/ JoJo. And U'll live Happily Ever After!!!
That is so weird and funny...
Hope I didn't scare yah Scott if yah see!
I'm pretty funny for my group of friends and people who love to hear my lil' stupid acts and everything, It's like I'm one of a Kind for a girl name Kelly who is her indivisual self...
My Personally pretty much is like JoJo, a cool 13 y/o singer, here's what it said
Like JoJo, you're adorable and Sassy. Sure, you're cute, but you're also really strong and not afraid to say what's on your mind. And that's what so cool. So the next time someone does you wrong you can sing "Leave, Get Out" just like JoJo does...but I am my own self mostly...
That's just a lil' bit about me
if you want to know more go down and it has my AIM name that you can IM me anytime!!!


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Website: My Xanga Page
E-mail: musikluvir@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Central California
Occupation: Grade School
Age: 13
AIM: Vi3tBaBe3gUrL2o9
Member Since: November 7, 2004
Answers: 64
Last Update: January 4, 2005
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now. We dont get to see each other that much because we go to different schools, but im going to his school next month so things will get better. Well this weekend he wants to do somthin, but its up to me to find out somewhere for us to go on our date. We went to the movies last weekend so i want to go somewhere new. So if you have any good date ideas, please help. (link)
umm...you can always go to dinner N a walk in the park that is so romantic N sweet....or wells you can always hang out at the mall N check out stuff N if there's an arcade then ya'llz can play a game of something there!
Hoped I helped
*Kelly


i like this guy stevie. a few days ago, i found out from lots of people that he likes me too! i was really happy but he knows i like him too so i dont understand why he wont ask me out. lol i never really asked out a guy before cause i think its more right for him to ask me hes really sweet around me and hints all the time but like i dont want to ask him. should i or wait? (link)
Be Patient!!! He'll come around...His just shy PROBABLY to ask out a girl he likes or something...Hoped i helped
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Kelly


Alot of people are starting to say that my boyfriend doesn't care about me very much. He is always putting his arm round me and hugging me but he can be really insensitive whenever I'm upset. He says it's just because he isn't good in those situations but other people are saying different. What should I do? (link)
I think they are just saying that..don't go for whatever they say just go with whats in your heart...He cares for you but probably on when your upset he doesn't really know how to comfort you in a way!!! All boys do this usually!!! they'd back off when your depressed but then again they're some that just comfort you hug you and all but he can do that stuff he might not know the words to say to comfort you!!!
Hoped I helped
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Kelly


so my best friend and i have dated before and we broke up because me and his guy friends didnt get along too well.. he REALLy likes me now and im starting to like him a lot and me and his 'guy friends' are actually really close this year. i guess imjust scared to get hurt again cuz i really put myself out there last time... help?? (link)
You should go for it...but being scared of getting hurt happens alot...It's just life...Just don't put yourself out that much just take it show and see what happens next...hoped I helped
Kelly


I had a boy very close to me,but I moved
now I miss him ,I'm really sad,
nothing is wrong with me, I think
in my high school almost all the girls have
boyfriend,I feel really lonely.
every time I watch them do their boyfriend-
girlfriend things I cry.sometimes I just want to
kill myself .being alone is killing me please
I really need to know what I should do,because
I think guy are scare of me but I'm pretty,smart
and I have a medium body why is this happening
what can I do?
I'm desperate

(link)
Well, don't be depressed go out flirt, guys like outgoing girls not depressed if always depressed then the guy wouldn't wanna deal with her cuz well they want a fun loving relationship so SUCK up and be happy, flirt with guys get to know them if you like them that bad and they are single then ask them to the movies and see what goes from there!!!
Hoped I helped!
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Kelly


ok, i just transferd to a new school, but in the same town, because im a lil behind on my highschool credits, well i really like this girl, shes my age, and uuuuuunbelievably gorgeous!! not to mention funny and pretty dang smart.well, i flirt with her and she will flirt with me back, not to mention even when i dont see her coming she will walk up to me in the hall and like playfully nudge me and keep walking and just grin. but then again, she doesnt give me a whole bunch of attention in class, so my question to everyone is, what in the world do i do now? should i go for it, or just leave it be? (link)
Go for it Man before someone gets something good before you like that, cuz it sounds like she's just the perfect girlfriend, so go for it!!!
Hoped I helped


srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee

how can i get them 2 stopp?? (link)
Well first of all...there's nothing really to do...if they don't understand why you like a shorty thwen deal with it...I was a inch or so taller then my 5th grade bf and everyone made fun of me and him being together but we liked eachother and did almost anything together nothing nasty since we were only in 5th grade...but yeah...
Just DEAL with it..you'll get over it..and those people will find something else to make fun of...It's just all gossip and making fun of shit...that's life...So Hoped I helped Please RATE!!! - Kelly


I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal? (link)
Technically yes, but he is close enough and if his turning 18 soon but a few months after then NO but if noone really knows then it won't matter much!!!
hoped I helped


ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover (link)
Well you should tell him how you feel be honest and truthful...that always works in a relationship it should too and if he really loves you then he'd understand how you feel so go with your heart tell him...be TRUTHFUL and HONEST...
hoped I helped Please RATE me!!!
Kelly


okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!

aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon (link)
Welps just tell him...your busy...always works for me when some random guy calls to talk...
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Kelly


alright this guys..lets say collin and he and i are best friends. but when im not around he'll go around and ask my other friends where im..but when i get there he'll like ignore me! then last night we were at a party and he was flirting with me..then the next minute hes flirting with this other girl..but looking at me well doing it! i mean does he like me or not?! cause i really like him..but i dont kno if i should keep liking him! also he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 5 months..but they havent kissed or anything. (link)
He maybe likes you but wants to see if you look while he flirts around...and if he has a girlfriend and hasn't done anything but hug and hold hands then that's I dunno CRAZY...maybe you should keep lkiking him or not don't matter much!!!
Flirt with him give him more clues...go out to the movies or dinner thhen movies...and see what happens
Hope I helped!
Kelly


i like two people. lets call them billy and bob. i really started to like billy. and one day i got someone to tell him. well my best friend told BOB that i like him. i didnt really but then i started to again. i didnt really hear much from billy but bob was starting to like me now. i talked to bob and he said "well i like you but i really want to get to know you more first and well see what happens from then." all of the sudden one day like 10 people come and tell me billy likes me. so now i want to go out with billy, but i dont want bob to think i dont like him and have him not like me anymore so if me and billy ever broke up bob would think im running back to him. i dont feel like waiting for bob and have billy not like me either. what should i do ? (link)
Well go with what's you feel is right!!! like what goes with your heart, just choose one and be friends with the other one...tell him your really really sorry but I feel like I have more of a future with him or something like that!!!
hoped I helped!
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There's this guy who I've been in love with 4 like more than past 6 months. He knows I like him but it seems as if every time i try to IM him he'll either sign off or seem not too interested in talking to me. The only class I have with him is study hall but we never talk there. I really want to talk to him more because maybe if he got to know me better than he might start liking me. I also want to get to know him better. There's no time tho where i could really talk to him in person and i dont know what to say. I really want to be with him and have conversations and stuff. What should i do? please help! (link)
Welps you should go up to him talk say Hey, what's up? and get to know him, ask him questions, what his interested in and evrything and if so give him teeny hints that you like him...nut like huge big hints but teeny ones so he can get the point...then you can ask him if he wants to eat some Lunch with you or to the movies on Friday or something
Please rate! Hoped I helped *Kelly


I like this guy that I went to school with last year and went out with him last year and the beginning of this year. I'm 17 and he is 16. And I don't know if I should tell him that I still like him alot because I don't know how he feel anymore. We still talk and he gives me hugs when he sees me, and we're still cool and all. But I have no clue what to do anymore. I want to tell him but I'm scared to because I don't know how he will react. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I'll rate really good!!!!! Thanks in advance!!!!! Blessed be!!
~Candy the Wiccan (link)
I think you should like flirt with him more...give him teeny weeny hints...that you still like him...get him to understand...talk to him one on one...maybe ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you as friends...and see what goes from there...hoped I helped and please rate!!!


Hi, i asked this kid to a football game 2nite and my friend who was wit me, sed he looked sorta excited whjen i asked him, he sed he didn't know if he cud make it to it or not and i was like ook ad then jjust forgot anout it hten at the game tonite, i saw him there. Do you think that he was perposuly ditching me? or he really wasn't sure if he culd make it, and he had no way of reacing me when he realized he could go? He didn't have my # or anything either. (link)
Welps give him some clues and he maybe the nervous or shy type so get him to open up to you
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hoped I helped
*Kelly


okay i find out my friend asked this guy i like if he liked me. and so the guy said did Britney put u up 2 this and she was like no! so she said he was smirking i guess when she was denying that i asked if he liked me1 so does or should this give me a clue? and also i din't tell my friend 2 tell him so what should i do? (link)
That's a clue that he likes you in a way...you should like flirt with him...maybe hangout and if he likes you he might ask but if his too shy too then you could as him out to the movies with friends or something....
Hoped I helped Please RATE!!!
Kelly


Hmm well.. I'm in highschool and so is this guy. He looks good & okay we don't talk really but every time i see him we do the eye things, just like the other day i was walking he was lookin straight at my eyes n i was lookin back in his.. it was from accross the hall wen i was about to leave & so we followed eachothers eyes, me looking back and him lookin back at me.. We do it everytime we see eachother pretty much but we haven't talked & I reallly wana get to kno him but im not jus gona walk up to him n be like yeah whats up haha.. so any suggestions? i really wana get to know himmm. (link)
You should really like go up to him introduce yahself, ask him questions bout his life and what interests him and everything, something like that hope I helped and PLEASE RATE ME!!!
~Kelly


ok well i have a swim meet this week n the kid i liek is on my team n he is obviously goin 2 b there heh so eya i wanna tell him i liek him but im sure how 2 exactly do it or even fi i should? if i do hwo shoudl i do it like i dnt juss wanna b liek yea i like u! lol i juss dk i need advize pls help! (link)
Just talk to him at the Meet tell him if he likes someone...tell him what you like about him and then afterwards ask if he wants to go out to eat or hang out!!!
Hoped I helped *Kelly


i like this boy name tory shirley very cute, sweet he's not mean, he doesn't look at you no different if you weren't like him. he likes me also but he told my friend he was with somone, and its really nothing he could do. and its like every time i see him i feel both of our sprits pull together. i know he likes me and i like him. why can't i have him. Can i have him? (link)
Yah ypu can have him, but if there's that other someone imvolved well that's just hard!!! it's not like you can have him when his with someone...but he did tell your friend but did he tell you his with someone...what if that someone could be you and you not know it...Just talk to him tell him who that someone is...and see what happens
Hoped I helped !kelly!


I really like this guy, and I thought that he liked me until today. My best friend (who has been has friend for a long time now) told me that he got back with his ex girl friend that he missed. Now, I feel broken-hearted even tho no one broke my heart. I am afraid to see him again, because he knows that I like him.. like him. I feel ashamed. What do I do? Please give me good advice. I really need the help. (link)
Maybe yah should like go out meet other guys and show him what he's missed and don't feel ashamed...I had many crushes on a guy...and They'd always find a girl or something...it hurts for me to see them but it's lil' crushes...
Tell him how you feel or just be friends with him...and or show him how much he missed out...I hope I helped yah out abit *Kelly*




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