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Hey everyone! My name is Michelle and I'm fifteen, sixteen in a month! I'm a junior in high school. I've been in too many relationships, and I'm finally taking a break from boys. I'm a dancer and bowler. Ask me anything :) Thats why I'm here.


xoxo, Michelle

advice

when you're giving a hand job, don't you pretty much HAVE to use some kind of lube or lotion? i mean, won't it hurt them afterwards or even during it if there's nothing to help the girl move up and down smoothly..... and please don't say use saliva or your mouth!!!!

It's fine without it, but its a lot more enjoyable for them if you use lotion.

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this might sound really stupid but how do you know when your in love? i really really really like my boyfriend but i wouldn't wanna say i love you if i didnt mean it...thing is, we've only been dating for like 3 weeks, for anyone in a relationship how long did it take before you said 'i love you' please dont tell me "you'll know when your in love" cause that doesnt really help...tell me anything about your relationships...thankss.

I knew I loved my boyfriend after a couple of months. It can take longer than that, or shorter than that. It all depends. And I know you said you didn't want to hear it, but you really will know when your in love. You feel like you would do anything in the world to make the other person happy, you care about their feelings, they are constantly on your mind, they give you butterflies, they cheer you up, they make you smile, and you always want to spend time with them.

When you love someone you can look them in the eyes and honestly say that you love them without feeling guilty or not meaning it 100%. Love is one of the greatest things in the world, and trust me, you'll know when you are. (:

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Ok, so here's the deal...im a 21 year old female and i live in Winnipeg,mb. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 years and we have a beautiful 2 1/2 year old babygirl. in the beginning it was great we went out and did stuff(movies,dinner ect...) now we stay at home and do nothing, like im totally fine with staying at home and watching movies and playing video games. heres the problem i think he may be losing interest in me, he doesnt show no affection towards me(hugs, kisses, cuddeling)....sometimes i think about breakin it off but i dont want him to hate me, i would stil love to be friends with him ad hang out and stuff..i dont know what to do im sooo confused!! somebody plz help me!!

Well, the truth is that once you have a baby this is what usually happens to relationships. I don't think you should break things off, especially because you had a baby together. I think you just have to talk to him about how you would love to go out more. Find a babysitter, and make plans. I'm sure all the feelings he has for you will come back, you just need to spend some time together. (:

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My girlfriend ask me a question like this

" Baby you know that i love being in love with you but sometimes i get a little nervous that one day you'll fall out of love with me so just be honest with me and tell me something."

How can i keep your attention and interest?

Then she imply's " You say you will always
love me but what will keep you in love with
me? So tell me and i'll leason.

We've been together for seven years now. Don't
get me wrong we've had our up's and down's when
didn't see each other for a year. Doing the
years of break up's and makes up's she dated
another guy while i was single.

I just want to knoe what would make her ask
this question wheni tell here almost everday that i love her.

Girls are just like this. They need to be reminded that you love them constantly. It sounds like she loves you so much that she is afraid to loose you. And I can't blame her. I would feel this way also. Assure her that you truly love her, and she doesn't need to worry about you "falling out of love with her." She will understand and stop saying things like that (:

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I'm 18. Should I go out with a 26 year old guy?

Sure. Age is just a number. Your 18, which is considered an adult. You can make your own decisions. If thats who you want to be with, then thats your choice. (:

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So me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary is coming up. We're both 14. But in a very mature relationship. We mess around and stuff; but out of love. We want to get married and all that good stuff. This isn't a stupid immature young teenage relationship, trust me.

So, I wrote a 365 reasons why I love you, memories, etc thing. I was thinking of making it into a scroll but that wouldn't be very cute. So I thought of like a binder/scrapbook type thing. But I'm trying to think of anything else I could do with it. Any ideas?

And besides cooking, buying him clothes, etc. What else could I do for him? Make it age appropriate. He wants a handjob and we are going to mess around more. So I've got that covered. But any other ideas about what I could get him or do for him. I kind of want to surprise him because I know he has a ton of surprises for me.

Thanks in advance!

Me and my boyfriend just had our one year anniversary a couple of months ago, and we are both 14 too.

The 365 reasons thing is very cute. I was going to do that for my boyfriend, but i couldn't think of enough. Opps. Anyways, putting them together in a scrapbook with a few pictures would be adorable. That way, he will have it forever and will always remember your first year together.

Secondly, you shouldn't have to do anything else for him. You don't want to overdo it. Just let him know that you love him and want to be with him. You don't need to buy him all kinds of stuff to prove you love him. Sometimes less is more. Good luck! And have fun.

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I have never kissed anyone in my life, I really want to know how so when I do kiss someone I wont be HORRIBLE!
:]]]

Kissing is one of the greatest things, ever (: When you find a person you finally want to kiss, it will totally be natural. Don't think too much about it. And i also agree with the person that said people who are unexperienced is a turn on. I was my boyfriends first real kiss. The fact that he was so shy about it was really cute. It's a good way to be more comfortable with your partner. Have fun and don't stress!

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how do you grind? like how do you grind in a way that guys won't think you're a bad dancer. also, how can you practice? other than against a wall.

There's really no wrong way to grind. You just move to the music and rub against the guy with your butt. Haha. You don't really need practice with it. But try it on a friend for fun!

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I was wondering how to make out with someone?
i know people say its supposed to come naturally, but im really worried about it..
what do i do with my tounge and stuff?

This question is asked a lot. Honestly, don't stress. It does come naturally. The first time I did it I had no idea if I was doing it right or what was going on but you get used to it. And heck, if you do mess up and look stupid then it gives you and your partner something to laugh about and have fun with. Have them take the lead. It's not as complicated as you might think. (:

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okay, so on the 12th of May I will have been with my boyfriend for 1 year..
It's not my longest relationship but it's the longest he has ever been with someone.
I was just wondering what to do?
Presents... going out etc
What would you do?
I'm never very good at this stuff..
But i wanted to make it a nice day.. so I was just wondering about presents and stuff..
So please help!
Thanks x

I'm having my one year anniversary too! On May 28th. I know he's planning on taking me out to a nice dinner at my favorite restaurant, and then we are going to get promise rings for each other. I thought this was a cute idea. But just think of what he likes and what he would want to do. You dont have to go out and spend all your money, it's the thought that counts. Maybe since you've been together for 365 days you could right down 365 reasons why you love him. Anything thoughtful he'll love. (:

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My boyfriend is physicaly abbusive i know this bc He broke his moms ribs, hits her, threw a plazma tv at his 12 yr brother [hes 15] and beat up his dad so bad the cops came and was prod of it. so far he never hurt me ever. idk if he knows i know stuff like that about him but we never talk about it. My friends say hes also emotinaly abbusive. i dont think so but is he?
Whenever i tell him how i feel about somthing about 'us' when im angry. he doesnt respond. for days. even weeks. till im like okay im sorry i overreacted [evn if i wasnt] then a week l8tr he'll text me hey and pretend it never happened. he always iggnores it. i've cried over him so many times, i dont think he knows but whenever we have a prob he stops talking to me till i say sorry for even bringing it up. One time i think he knew i was crying. he didnt do anything about it. Just avoids me for awhile. normaly even when i say sry he doesnt contact me till a week l8r. his friends say he does it 2 evr1.if he doesnt want to deal with somthing he wont. so its not just me.
hes not emotinaly abbusive right? i mean he just doesnt want to deal with it not trying to hurt me..right?

Wow. This is a tough one. It seems like he might have anger management problems. When he's home and has a issue, he takes it out on his family. So whenever he has a problem with you, he knows he has to stop talking about it and avoid it to make sure he doesn't hurt you. Does that make sense? I'm not sure. But I don't think he is emotionally abusive to you at all. He just needs to learn to deal with his problem and not run from it, or take it out on anyone physically. Good luck with him. If it gets to much to be with him, then leave. Never stay in a relationship if you are afraid of being abused. Always get out before it's too late.

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Ohkay, so i like my best friend.
yes, it's a guy. (:
but i've like him since 5th grade.
but we are so close i'm afriad
that it would ruin our friendship.
i always read the same old thing
"just do it, what do you have to lose?"
but i have my whole friendship to lose
and it's not the easy to just do it.
oh yeah, and a lot of people have told him
i like him but he doesnt believe them
& i told him it's not true.
&+ i never told those people i liked
him so i'm afriad it's getting obvious.
HELP! (:

I would just talk to him about it. Sit him down and say "I really like you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship because of it." This is exactly how I felt when I fell for my best friend. I was really scared, but I took a chance on it and now we've been together for a year (: And it's honestly been the best decision I've ever made. It's hard to think about ever breaking up with him, and I don't think I will. Just go for it. (:

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Well me and my boyfreind have been going out for 1 year Im only 14 and I haved had qute a few boyfreinds. Well are 1 year aniversy is on the 1st of next month and latly he had been pushing me to have sex and I just dont think im ready. Yes I love him but once you do somthing like that things just change. Im pretty sure on are aniversy night hes really going to try. So what should I do give in or not?
thanks in advanced
peace

My one year with my boyfriend is on the 28th of next month! And I'm 14. So I can definitely relate, lol. This topic has come up a lot. He told me he wanted to have sex with me on our one year, but I told him straight out that I wasn't ready. He respected that and knows now that we have to wait until we are both comfortable and ready. If you know deep down it's something you are not ready for, then don't give in just because he wants it. It's actually a turn on for guys when you have to make them work for it. Don't ever give in. Do it because your ready and you want to.

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Okay so im a freshman in high school, and over the summer i met a Junior that goes to my school. We had a thing over the summer (2007), and well into the school year. We would hang out and hook up and everything seemed great. Before him i was in very serious relationship for about a year 1/2. When i met this other guy he was about the only one who i let myself open up to. Well at homecoming everything changed and he told me he didn't want to fool around anymore and that since we wern't even dating it wasn't like we were breaking up. I got really hurt and cryed all night. After that night me and him never talked, and eventually never talked... ever and would occasionally would see each other in the hallways. Well its been that way for about 3 or 4 months. I eventually became really good friends with his best friend, and he likes me and i kinda like him, but i dont have all the feelings im looking for. He asked me to prom, and we went 2 days ago. Well my "he" was there, and we all danced and everything, i had a lot of fun and we talked a WHOLE lot. We have been texting a lot and he told me that my hair looked good, and we should go shopping, and today a bunch of our friends went to lunch including me and him, and he said that being in the car with me and everyone and how nice it was today that it reminded him of summer and how we all hung out..... I don't really know what to make of everything because i still like him... a lot, and everytime im around him im afraid to say the wrong thing and i get butterflys in my stomach. I just don't know if he likes me again, if theres even a little chance, and i don't want to get my hopes up, getting all exicted he likes me again only to find out he dosen't and i was over reacting over exictment. i just need some help. Really if anyone can help me understand ANY of this, please respond, i need whatever you got. Thanks. :]

It seems to me that he's just looking for a piece of ass whenever he finds in convenient. I wouldn't fall for it. If you did the same exact thing would probably happen. If your really that into him I would talk to him and see whats on his mind. If he's in it for a fling, or looking for something more. In my opinion, I would let the whole thing go. He hurt you once, don't let him hurt you again.

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my bf and i love each other but we are having a lot of problems because i feel like im not a priority because he never has time to talk to me. well right now his phone is broken too but he doesnt email and occasionally IMs. its just we used to talk so much and now we dont. we is super busy with school because its getting really tough and i know he wants to talk but he just doesnt have time!! what should we do because i keep getting hurt when he says he will call me and then doesnt. dont say understand him because this is serious. i am getting so upset and feel like their should be a way he can make time for me. and he cant do anything on fridays and a lot of times i cant on sat. or sun. and we cant on school nights. we go to different schools and im moving in 2 months so i want to spend every second possible with him. he does too and i know he wants to but he just cant seem to make time. i want to come up with a solution and stuff and i just want him to make me feel like he truly does love me and cares about me. if we cant solve this in a week (he asked me to give him a week to prove himself) then we are going to take a break(or breakup depending). he didnt want to call me today (like he promised!! he promised he was going to fix everything and make it all right and that it would OK and that he would call) but he didnt because he said it feels like i am upset with him (i AM...but i still love him) and he doesnt like going and talking to me when i am upset with him and unhappy with our relationship (he said). PLEEEASE what should i do? i dont even have a way of contacting him on a phone because his cell isnt working and hes getting a new one soon but idk when and he doesnt have a home phone. i have his dads # cause he has been calling on his dads cell when he had time to talk so should i call his dads phone?? thank you SO much...you dont know what this means.

i am so upset and sad and scared because i love him but i cant keep getting hurt. please help and i will rate thank you!!

I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I only get to hang out with him twice a week at the most. It's really hard, but it's something I have to deal with to be with him. So honestly, make the best of it. Plan special times together so when you don't get to see him for long periods of time you have something to look forward to. Me and my boyfriend also have a notebook. I know it's totally corny, but he'll write in it and give it to me and I'll write back. It's a great way to communicate, when it's not always easy to. He shouldn't be breaking promises though, so I would talk to him about that. Good luck,

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Are you insecure about your new relationship about your new boy/girl friend? Do you know if there cheating on you, but they might not or might be?

I'm not insecure now, because I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. But at the beginning I was. I think you always are when somethings brand new to you. It goes away with time though as you build trust with the person.

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okay so i saw alot of pictures of people kissing in which the girl kisses the top lip of the guy's, is that what your suppose to do? im never really romantically kissed a guy before so im really unsure. please help, thanks.

Honestly, there's no boundaries to kissing. You can kiss his top lip, bottom lip, both lips, anything. Do whatever feels right. (:

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im 15yr old guy and my penis is almost 6 inches long is that average do girls care?

Honestly, it doesn't matter to me. It depends on the girl. But its perfectly normal (:

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Okay i have a problem. I am in eigth grade and i only had one boyfriend more than a year ago. he wanted to hook up but i wasnt ready, but now i am and we broke up and i want a boyfriend! and i want someone i trust to hook up with, and i just want someone to hold me and i have really bad taste in guys, they're always jerks, so what do i do!!!

Honestly, you just have to wait for the right guy to come around. Even though you might want a boyfriend right at this moment, wait and see what comes along. Don't push it.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for eight months now. its really nice but i think hes getting tired of me. everytime i mention taking a break he goes crazy though. i dont want him to stay just because he thinks i wont be here later. what can i dooo.

I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, exactly today actually, and I know exactly what you are talking about. If he's getting tired of you it just means things might be getting boring to him. If you are just in the routine of things, that may be your problem. Trying hanging out at a new place, or trying new things that you haven't done to each other before. This will spice up the relationship, and make it more interesting so he's not tired of you.

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