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my boyfriend and i have been together for eight months now. its really nice but i think hes getting tired of me. everytime i mention taking a break he goes crazy though. i dont want him to stay just because he thinks i wont be here later. what can i dooo.
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You don't say why it is that you think your boyfriend is getting tired of you but my advice would be to discuss your feelings with him. If he 'goes crazy' to the possibility of taking a break from the relationship I don't think it's likely he is tired of you. I feel it's more than likely a case of worrying about nothing - but talk to him!!
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get a gym pass, work out, buy some nice skimpy clothes...you'll be surprised how things change when you're body is more firm and wearing some nice revealing clothes. aint no joke. do a different hair-do to change it up too...like have bangs.
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I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, exactly today actually, and I know exactly what you are talking about. If he's getting tired of you it just means things might be getting boring to him. If you are just in the routine of things, that may be your problem. Trying hanging out at a new place, or trying new things that you haven't done to each other before. This will spice up the relationship, and make it more interesting so he's not tired of you.
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Are you getting tired of him? If you are, then take a break and tell him it's for the best.
However, if you are just assuming that he's the one getting tired of you...I don't think he is if he's going crazy every time you mention it. He probably likes you and it would kill him to take a break.
I'm not there to see the signs if he actually is tired of you so I'm going by my interpretation of what you wrote, but give him a chance. Try not to assume he's bored with the relationship because that might not be true. Jumping to conclusions will leave you with regret in most cases.
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