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I NEED HIM
Okay i have a problem. I am in eigth grade and i only had one boyfriend more than a year ago. he wanted to hook up but i wasnt ready, but now i am and we broke up and i want a boyfriend! and i want someone i trust to hook up with, and i just want someone to hold me and i have really bad taste in guys, they're always jerks, so what do i do!!!
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Wow your in the eight grade and you think your ready.Are you ready to take the next step? Can you handle a serious relationship.I think not.You have your whole life to find the right person.This is the time for slumber parties,going to movies as a group,finding out who and what you are.What do you want out of life,to set some goals.There is a whole world out there and you will make your mark in it.Give yourself some room to grow and see how far you can take it.When you have completed school and college,had time to find your(niche)got yourself settled in some sort of a career-doesn't matter what you do as long as you like it-then you can think of settling down and having your 25 kids.You will make a great mom but not right now.
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Don't rush into anything. I know you may feel like you 'need' a boyfriend, but really, relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be. And rushing into something will only end up with you getting hurt.
Second, if you DO decide to begin dating (or whatever you're calling it), find a good guy (obviously). What I mean, is don't just hook up with the first guy you meet. Don't hook up with a guy simply because he called you pretty or said nice things. Take your time finding somebody who makes you happy, who you can trust. Find a guy that you're comfortable with, and whose comfortable with you, too. Ya know?
Really, not having a boyfriend isn't a big deal. You're still young and you've got plenty of time left for guys.
-Laura. (15-f)
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You really need to think about hooking up very seriously. Your virginity is not something to be taken lightly and once its gone you can never get it back. The person you choose to hook up with needs to be special and you need to care about them. Don't rush anything, find a guy you like, get to know him, and then if you think you are ready talk to him about it.
Hope I Helped.
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If you're ready for that kind of stuff, great but you shouldn't just want any guy. The right guy will come along and just be patient with it. Start talking to some guys as friends and see how things go. Don't be in a rush, you have plenty of time! .. & girl I know what you mean about guys, most of them are jerks and it's hard to find the right one.
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Honestly, you just have to wait for the right guy to come around. Even though you might want a boyfriend right at this moment, wait and see what comes along. Don't push it.
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