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should i just give in
Well me and my boyfreind have been going out for 1 year Im only 14 and I haved had qute a few boyfreinds. Well are 1 year aniversy is on the 1st of next month and latly he had been pushing me to have sex and I just dont think im ready. Yes I love him but once you do somthing like that things just change. Im pretty sure on are aniversy night hes really going to try. So what should I do give in or not?
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If he loves you he'll respect your choice. If he keeps trying to have sex with you then he's not worth your time.
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My one year with my boyfriend is on the 28th of next month! And I'm 14. So I can definitely relate, lol. This topic has come up a lot. He told me he wanted to have sex with me on our one year, but I told him straight out that I wasn't ready. He respected that and knows now that we have to wait until we are both comfortable and ready. If you know deep down it's something you are not ready for, then don't give in just because he wants it. It's actually a turn on for guys when you have to make them work for it. Don't ever give in. Do it because your ready and you want to.
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You should not give into something you don't feel you are ready for. If this boy really loved you as much as he says he does then he would accept your decision. Giving your virginity away is not to be taken lightly and once its gone its gone. Sex is also alot of responsibility and you shouldn't give in until you think you are completely ready for all that responsibilty.
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Never give in to something like that. If you are not ready, don't do it. The most common thing is to think that you are in love and you just give in, but then something happens between you two, and you gave him something you can never get back. Just wait. Tell him you aren't ready. Compromise with him, do something less and a little more comfortable. Work up to it in the future, if you chose to do it with him when you are ready. But never let him set the standards. You are your own person, and you know what you want. If he really loves you, he will be willing to wait. Hope that helped. Don't worry, you'll be ready someday, never push yourself to be ready for something like that.
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DON'T GIVE IN!!!
If you aren't ready, then you aren't ready. It's as simple as that. You already know that you don't want to. Listen to YOURSELF! It's YOUR body and YOU choose what to do to it, NOT your boyfriend or anyone else. If you go through with it, I'm 99% sure you will regret it.
Make sure you tell him how you honestly feel. If he truly cares about you, he will understand and respect you. You should never do anything unless you feel comfortable and ready to.
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If this is a question of 'giving in' OBVIOUSLY NOT!
He shouldn't be 'trying' anything anyways. You should be able to tell him, straight up, that you don't believe you are ready so it's just not happening.
Don't put yourself in an uncomfortable position where you have to make a snap decision. You already know what you decision is, so speak up loud and clear in advance, so that he knows it as well. Then you can avoid the whole problem that evening and just have a sweet time togeather.
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