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The first impression one may get without speaking to me is that I'm the stereotypical girl in today's society. I am anything, but the typical wordly girl. From past experiences, I have come to a realization in my life that nothing will fullfill your life, except God. Throughout these times, I have grown up quite fast and act on my future, not my present. In life, I follow the direction that most people tend to forget. Many people are oblivious to the importance of life. Coming from a less-than-picture-perfect side of life, I try to correct my life and set a purpose for myself. Through the many disappointments I've encountered in my life, I steer away from being a "victim" from my past. Thus, being a stronger, wiser, & more independent person. I live the clean life, and don't fall to anything other. I am learning to be comfortable in my own skin. I have made a commitment, to live a life of purity and with a self image that is based upon God's design.



There's a time in your life when you realize that everything in your life was a test to predict your future. I've held bitterness to a lot of situations, but have come to realize, that forgiveness is what shapes an individual to be a better person. I may have been hurt & disappointed by many, but I still continue to pray for those. I still care about them. I can't hate anyone because that's not who I am. Hearts have been broken, tears have been shed, but you realize what you wanted and hoped for, wasn't meant to be; it wasn't how your life was planned. A simple clich�???????????�??????????�?????????�????????�???????�??????�?????�????�???�??�?�© : I do forgive, but I don't forget.



I find myself learning to deal with constant criticism. Many people find ways to think and say negative things, but none of it soaks it. I strive to be a better & more independent person each and every day. One of my main focus' in life is to show girls, you can be sexy, but classy, and have morals and high standards at the same time. I love and life for God, anyone who disapproves of my beliefs will only be ignored. People tend to find trust in me quite quick because I'm genuine, and hide nothing. I accept my imperfections, which therefore, guides me through life on an easier route. This is me, and everything is sincere.




Other than that, I have a fiesty & protective personality when I feel I am being provoked or judged. I immediately put up a wall. My first approach is "kill them with kindness", but if it continues, I'm a spitfire. I am very protective over my family & friends. I do anything I can to protect them. Typically with guys, I find it hard to get along with. I'm not the girl who loves to flirt and see how many hook-up's I can get. I don't need it to boost my self-esteem, I get enough attention without. Anyone who isn't aquainted with maturity, will annoy me to death. I'm a fun girl - don't get me wrong, but I'm wise beyond my years. I'm at the point where I feel I have already fullfilled my teenage years, and I'm ready for "The Real World". Life isn't a competition; it is not a popularity contest, or a game to see how many people find you attractive. It's a priveledge God gives you, that many take advantage of.









advice

do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious

honestly no because i know alot of people that are in that and honsetly i dont stereo type them as that so no your not

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I was wondering if any of you knew where a good website is to load music from CD's onto to make a URL so I can put it as background music for xanga or myspace.

PLZNTHANKS.

I'll rate.

HEY HUNNiiE TRY ANGELFIRE OR STREAMLOAD.

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can someone give me some break up songs or some songs that say your mad or something. please...i rate 5's.

since you been gone by kelly clarkson

behind these hazel eyes by kelly clarkson

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i went on that site and found it but all it does is play the song... how do i get the code?

okay well when your on the site the site should have the thing where you click on to play the song instead of clicking play right click go to properties && get the link to it.

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does anyone know where i can find a simple plan t-shirt?

try simple plans website im sure they have them orr try hot topic. ♥ carmen

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Hmm, this is kind of random, but I'm not sure what CD I should buy next. I like classic rock mainly, like Pink Floyd.
Any ideas?

possibly the eagles? rolling stones? maybe you can buy a classic rock compilation cd with your favorite artists on there.
♥ carmen

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what are some places you can download music to the ipod.. i cant use iTunes because i dont know how to download the songs and i dont have an account

try using limewire it downloads music to there && always gives me what im looking for. =)*

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