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I am kinda siily, but thatz wat people lyk about me! I am kinda loud, but i am kinda smart. Isnt dat funny. Music is my boyfriend, and people say i am random, but i am concentrated sometimes. I lyk 2 speak spanish, because you can yell at people in spanish and it sounds so cool!I lyk dis guy in my skool, so i may dump music , you never know. And i am as cute as a button! Supoosedly...i am boy krazy, but i just think i am boy crazy. Oh yea i love to dance. I can dance for like ever. And i love pizza!I hope i help you with your problems! Enjoy! Oh yea, i love cartoons, especially donald duck as a baby.
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Ok, 13/F. All my friends have had a minumum of 3 boyfriends before and I havent had any. Now, I really like this one guy and some of my friends says he likes me but I cant tell. Like Ill say simple things and theyll be like thats a good sign and Id be confused. Like, everytime I wait outside his class (cause we are in practically the same classes and all my classes are right after his so im always standing there outside the doors) hed spot me and give me this huge smile and playfully stick out his toungue and id act all shocked and he'd laugh a little. Whenever hes around us during recess we always talk and stuff privatley also we always like joke around. Hes put his arm around me a few times and defends me whenever someone calls me a flirt or a looser. We email eachother and stuff. I think were good friends but my friends say its something more is it? Im very confused!
I dont want to sound negative, but it just sounds like he is a really close friend. There is always a possibiblity that he likes you. Y not have a friend ask him or one of his friends if he does. Dont get caught up in all that stuff about not having a boyfrined, cuz this stuff takes time. There is nothing wrong with being flirty, it wont hurt your relationship. But you can drop some hints, around him to let him know. Dont rush things! JUst figure out if he is interested or not. Hope i helped!~ Love ya! :)
help! here the thing. I liked this boy who has a crush on one of my friends. He asked her out but then before she could say anything he went with me! I was so happy but then the next day the girl he asked out heard a rumor that we were going out. so she said yes. Then i get asked out by boy 2. He'snice but i still like boy 1! My plan was to make boy 1 jelous. i think it's working but should i dump boy 2 and wait for boy 1?
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Boy crazed
Ok, it is not really nice to use some one just to get a guy to like you, even though it can be fun, and to your advantage. But if you really want to be with Boy 1, then i would dump boy 2. I hope Boy 1 he asks you out, like you wanted! And make sure when you break up with boy 2, you hav a reason, whether it is the REAL reason, or the bending the truth reason. Good luck! :P
Ok, im 13 and never have actually had a boyfriend before. A few days ago this guy asked me out (be his gf). See the problem is hes a year younger than me and a bit.....rebelious. He has an older brother (2 years older than me) so I think thats kinda why he is a bit. I know for a fact he drinks and I think hes got high before, (Not sure), but hes a nice kid. Hes pretty shy and stuff and is really nice to me. He hates my younger brother though, they are the same age, and im not sure if I want to. Everyone at my school lives in the country and he actually is like the only guy hat lives in my town and goes to my school. I told him id think about it and I heard he really likes me. I dont want to be mean but im not sure since I haven't had one before. (Im popular but 3 girls more than me so they are always asked out). Some of my friends say I should give him a chance. Should I?
I think it is ok to go out with a guy even if hez younger than you, as long as your comfortable with it.But you dont want to be with a guy who is immature, becsause you will feel more like a mom than a girlfriend. Now, i would make sre he doesnt take drugs aymore because you dont want oto be with a gu like that. And it may be awkward if he hates your brother, especially if he is the same age as you LITTLE brother. Um... i probly wouldnt, but if you feel you really like him, then go for it. But make sure you know him first ! Good luck! :)
15/f. i'm sorry if this is confusing or long, but i feel so helpless and i have no idea what to do. every year my school has a 9th grade assessment. it is a really big project that takes about 2-3 monthes to complete, and you need to be in groups of 4 people ONLY. here is my problem. i had a group with two of my other friends. we all agreed, but then that day one of them texted me saying that they found two other people to work with. so i was stuck alone. i asked my other friend jenn if i could be with her and kelly, but they thought they were with two other people. it turns out that they thought that the two other girls that they were suppose to be with found other people, so i was in a group with jenn and kelly. we then found another member to make four. but then today jenn told me that her and kelly were going to be in a group with the two girls that they were suppose to be with in the first place. now i'm stuck again!
i've asked basically EVERYBODY, and everyone already has a group. the problem is that you need to sign up in groups by monday. i know i could go to the teacher that is organizing the project, but them he would put me with the losers that didn't have a group and i'll end up failing the project. i don't want to be in a group with just ANYBODY because this project and huge and if you fail it you have to go to summer school.
this is making me so upset to be ditched TWICE. i feel like i have no friends now. i feel like i'm about to cry. what am i suppose to do.
i know this was long, but it has really been bothering me so any adivice will really help me.
thanks.
oK, UM...MAYBE YOU CAN GO THROUGH THE YEARBOOK, JUST TO MAKE SURE YOU ASKED EVERYBODY, AND IF YOU DID, YOU CAN ASK THE TEACHER IF SHE CAN MAKE ONE EXCEPTION IF YOU CAN BE IN A GROUP OF FIVE, IF SHE SAYS NO, THEN ...UM...EXPLAIN TO THE TEACHER THAT YOU DONT HAVE A GROUP, AND YOU DONT WANT TO BE PLACED WITH LAZY PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT YOUR GRADE, AND YOU WANT TO DO WELL ON THE ASSESMENT, AND YOU NEVER KNOW TEACHERS CAN BE UNDERSTANDING(SOMETIMES)AND SHE MAY MAKE AN EXCEPTION JUST FOR YOU! HOPE I HELPED,IF I THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE I WILL ELT YOU KNOW. GOOD LUCK! :)
Well this girl I work with has been friends with me for the time I've worked there, which is almost a year. I have a boyfriend I have been dating for a year and a half. Now me and him had some hard times when I first started working there. Note: He works with me too. But things are better now and that is ironically causing the problem. My friend was always wanting me and him to break up. Her reasons were that she thought he is an ass and is going to do nothing but hurt me. He is very flirtatious and she goes to school with him and has supposedly seen him flirt with other girls. She likes to think of herself as a watch out for me, since I dont go to his school, and cant see what he does when I'm not around. Problem is... I never asked her to do that, and everything she tries to bring to my attention is something not worth making a big deal in the first place. Like this girl I know he is friends with put her arm around him and walked him to class and he told me about it. Later that night at work she goes up to me and says, "Your boyfriend had this girl ALL over him." I asked her to elaborate and she was said that she had her arm around him and that I should watch out. I was completely annoyed because it wasn't even a big deal and it seems like she is out to break us up. Maybe she is just jealous that I have someone... or maybe she feels like we don't hang out much because I have a boyfriend. Whatever the case, what should I do about this because I am sick and tired of her trying to get me all upset over stuff between me and him that isnt even a big deal. I'm a senior this year and then my boyfriend and me are moving after highschool, so we both don't need to deal with all this high school drama. Should I stop being friends with her? Should I confront her? If so, what should I say? I don't want to start anything because I work with her, so if I say something it has to be discreet and to the point. Any suggestions?
Ok tell her that you dont need any more drama in yourlife. Explain how your guy always tells you when he is hanging out wit some frenz. I would definately confront her, and ask her why she is trying to break you guys up. You never know, she may have a resaon. And you can say that you dont want a spy on your guy, because you trust him. I would just be nice, and say thankz but no thanks,i can handle my guy, and we are doing just fine, but lately you have deen bringing in all this drama in your relationship, and you sont like it. Hope i helped! :) Good luck!