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Should I go out with him?
Ok, im 13 and never have actually had a boyfriend before. A few days ago this guy asked me out (be his gf). See the problem is hes a year younger than me and a bit.....rebelious. He has an older brother (2 years older than me) so I think thats kinda why he is a bit. I know for a fact he drinks and I think hes got high before, (Not sure), but hes a nice kid. Hes pretty shy and stuff and is really nice to me. He hates my younger brother though, they are the same age, and im not sure if I want to. Everyone at my school lives in the country and he actually is like the only guy hat lives in my town and goes to my school. I told him id think about it and I heard he really likes me. I dont want to be mean but im not sure since I haven't had one before. (Im popular but 3 girls more than me so they are always asked out). Some of my friends say I should give him a chance. Should I?
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Drinking and doing drugs are both very bad things to do, excpetailly at such a young age. If I were you, i would say no because when you are with someone for a while, there personality rubs off on you. You may start doing these things as well, and you don't want that.
I think you should calmly talk to him and tell him that you don't want to be involved with someone like this. If you truley like this boy, then tell him that if he ends is with all this that you will go out with him but for now you can't because of this.
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Going out with him is like going out with your bro - feels sick??But if you like him try ir but what your popular mates - you could lose them and dont go out with somene just because youve never had a boyfriend before, because they're gonna get hurt. wait for someone special
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Well, you're only 13, don't be so crazed into wanting a boyfriend. Don't just go out with someone because you heard they like you. Go out with someone because YOU like him too.
This kid sounds like trouble to me. I think that you're brother is more important and going out with someone that dislikes your little brother is kind of mean and ignorant. Andthis kid sounds like a lot of trouble and you probably don't want to get involved with him too much.
And do you really want to remember your frist boyfriend as the kid that was a year younger that drank and got high (if that is true) that hated your little bro and was rebelious?
Nah...doesn't sound like a pretty story...but the key thing is: follow your heart. Do you truely want to go out with him or do you just want to go out with him b/c you are naive to get a bf?
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I think it is ok to go out with a guy even if hez younger than you, as long as your comfortable with it.But you dont want to be with a guy who is immature, becsause you will feel more like a mom than a girlfriend. Now, i would make sre he doesnt take drugs aymore because you dont want oto be with a gu like that. And it may be awkward if he hates your brother, especially if he is the same age as you LITTLE brother. Um... i probly wouldnt, but if you feel you really like him, then go for it. But make sure you know him first ! Good luck! :)
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