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Co-worker always starting shit... dont know who to trust
Well this girl I work with has been friends with me for the time I've worked there, which is almost a year. I have a boyfriend I have been dating for a year and a half. Now me and him had some hard times when I first started working there. Note: He works with me too. But things are better now and that is ironically causing the problem. My friend was always wanting me and him to break up. Her reasons were that she thought he is an ass and is going to do nothing but hurt me. He is very flirtatious and she goes to school with him and has supposedly seen him flirt with other girls. She likes to think of herself as a watch out for me, since I dont go to his school, and cant see what he does when I'm not around. Problem is... I never asked her to do that, and everything she tries to bring to my attention is something not worth making a big deal in the first place. Like this girl I know he is friends with put her arm around him and walked him to class and he told me about it. Later that night at work she goes up to me and says, "Your boyfriend had this girl ALL over him." I asked her to elaborate and she was said that she had her arm around him and that I should watch out. I was completely annoyed because it wasn't even a big deal and it seems like she is out to break us up. Maybe she is just jealous that I have someone... or maybe she feels like we don't hang out much because I have a boyfriend. Whatever the case, what should I do about this because I am sick and tired of her trying to get me all upset over stuff between me and him that isnt even a big deal. I'm a senior this year and then my boyfriend and me are moving after highschool, so we both don't need to deal with all this high school drama. Should I stop being friends with her? Should I confront her? If so, what should I say? I don't want to start anything because I work with her, so if I say something it has to be discreet and to the point. Any suggestions?
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Say to her thanks for looking out for me and making sure he isn't cheating but i trust him 100% and i know he wouldn't cheat on me (tell her that if you trust him).
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Ok tell her that you dont need any more drama in yourlife. Explain how your guy always tells you when he is hanging out wit some frenz. I would definately confront her, and ask her why she is trying to break you guys up. You never know, she may have a resaon. And you can say that you dont want a spy on your guy, because you trust him. I would just be nice, and say thankz but no thanks,i can handle my guy, and we are doing just fine, but lately you have deen bringing in all this drama in your relationship, and you sont like it. Hope i helped! :) Good luck!
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