Hey! I'm Melaur-F 16 5'7 111 pounds! I've been through some tough times in my life and I have heard that I give really good advice. I LOVE helping people out no matter what age.. oh, and I can be kinda bitchy sometimes about stupid people that write LyKe DiS.. I'm not saying I always use correct grammer but COME ON lets atleast speak the same language people! I love to help on long complicated problems... they make me think! I'm an EXTREMLY deep thinker as well, sometimes I get so bad I have to see a doctor about being crazy.. which I'm not, I promise :o) Well anywhoooo... ask me absolutly anything, I promise I'll answer as long as I can read it! Take care!!!
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Whats the best way to lose a bad slut reputation that isnt true?!? I try to be nice to people but there so mean to me cause of what they hear about me...i need to fix this. Any ideas? (link)
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A slut isn't known for being mean sweetie. I know lots of sluts who are extremly nice. If it's not true then fuck whoever started it, karma. You don't need to fix it if there's nothing to back these rumors up.
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im fourteen and going into the 9th grade. i dont think im ugly, not georgeous or anything, but not ugly. im not fat, but i could tone up a little. for some reason im always feeling insecure though. in school, i dont talk much in class && everyone says im really shy. now once i get to know people they'll tell you im the loudest person they know. i love to talk && gossip. but it takes me awhile to get to know people, i want to know how people act and what they like before i start talking about random things to avoid making them mad if they dont agree with me on something. well anyway, i just moved almost two years ago and i havent quite adjusted yet. ive made new friends but it seems people still see me as the new girl, and me being shy doesnt help at all. once in our developemental guidance class they asked my friend amy who she usually hangs out with, and she said me. than this kid matt says something about how we both never talk, than our friend kristen starts laughing and says we never shut up. i wish i could be more social with people i dont normally hang out with, and that way i could also make more friends. also, everyone thinks im a goody-good. which theres not anything wrong with, but im far from it and i dont want people to look at me like that. how can i learn to be comfortable around everyone? (link)
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The best thing you can do is to first be comfortable with yourself, your body is the BEST thing you own, and you have to love it to have other people love it. Your mind is your own and it's okay if people don't agree with everything you say, that's why we're all different. I'm sure all the people in your class would love to hear from you, you dont have to be the loudest person in the class, just voice your oppinion. At first it might be weird for you, but youll get used to it and so will everybody else! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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today has been the worst day of my life. Ok, so i've liked this guy for over a year and i found out that my (one of my best friends) is moving in on him. She's after him and i think he likes her. she knows i like him, but doesn't care. My other best friends says we cant be best friends anymore. Everything is ruined at school for me now, what am isuposed to do? HELP
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People in Africa are DYING. Kids are loosing their parents and ending up either being BEATEN by their step parents or living out on the streets untill they DIE of AIDS or DRUGS.
174,302 to 183,083 innocent people in Asia and Africa DIED from a tsunami. People are left without HOMES and FOOD and MONEY and not to mention FAMILY MEMBERS.
People like you make me sick.
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Tomorrow, i have a Persuasive essay to turn in, which I will later have to read to my English class.
My topic is on book-banning, and i've typed up my essay, and it's all set.
My problem is, is that my last reason for why book-banning from schools and libraries isn't right, is because books are sometimes banned because of homosexual characters.
At first, i felt strongly about stating my opinion through an essay on my opinion on homosexuallity (I'm for gay marriage), but now, I'm having second doubts. Can someone please tell me how they think this will go over in my class, and is it appropriate? (This is Advanced 8th grade Eglish by the way) (link)
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I think its a great idea, if you really feel strong about the subject the duhh do it! and if its advanced english then the people in that class should be more mature then regular so yeah good luck
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A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?
thank you
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people start to respect you when you get good grades in highschool, they may still think that your life is perfect, but why do you care what they think of your life? does that affect you even alittle? not really. just keep up good work in class and im sure in the end youll be happy
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I dont have enough friends in school. how do I make more? (link)
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you dont need more then 1 or 2 good friends, i used to have a ton and i never had somebody that i could honestly say i actuall LIKED because you cant get to know alot of people very well. Also when you got alot of friends, like half of them will spread rumors about you and the other half will believe them and not talk to you. People suck. Friends suck.
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ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high! (link)
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School is to get a good education and go to college. Its there for your brain not your heart. and if your in highschool, then it's really hard to make up classes and tests or grades, i think you should go to school and when you see that guy dont say anything to him, just smile.
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Ok I am new so just bare with me here... There is a boy at my school that I like but doesn't like me back. He wants to keep our friendship but he doesn't know it hurts me so much. And just today he asked out my friend. Please help me. Oh I am 13 and so is he. (link)
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hehehehehe. flirting isnt hard... is just talking and teasing the guy.. oh and about your problem, dont worry about it, in about a week you'll start liking another guy, dont rush you life your only 13 stay a kid as long as possible!
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my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do? (link)
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dont tell!!! if your not in it then you have no need to be worried- if they want to cheat and they don't get cought then good for them. but don't tell on then because
1. thats mean
2. they'd all hate you
3. you'd have no friends
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People keep making up rumors about me and I dont know who it is and I want it to stop. I could just start a huge fist fight but thats not the way I want it settled. What do I do? (link)
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Ya, I got rumors going around about me, but if you tell people that it's not true, and they don't believe you then I wouldn't concider them people I would want to hang out with, so I guess you could say this was a good think. It shows you who your true friends are.
When somebody tells you the rumor, ask them who they herd it from then trace it back until the person says "Im not telling", thats usually the person who spreads it, good luck :o)
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hey i work as a cashier at a grocery store for 6 hours a day. it gets really boring and i feel like screaming!! can anyone please give me some helpful hints to get through the day without wanting to scream?( its so boring and i need help passing the time..) (link)
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Wow, yes geeze this is an amazing question. I know many many ways to pass time!
Ha
1.count things.(although this could start a disorder if you do it to much, happened to me)
2.look around, find random words you see and put them in alphebetical order ( this also improves your memory)
3.talk to the people your ringing up, ask them how their life is going, OR find something in the news thats debatable, and ask them their oppinion on it, thats always fun
4.change your accent evertime a new customer comes up
5.talk to other workers
6.play the alphabet game with food products around you.
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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing. (link)
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When you see her in the hallway, smile at her.If she smiles back, then next time say "hi". If she says "hi" back, next time be like " hey, whats your name? ive seen you around alot" and then get in a conversation. Every time you see her after that, talk to her! then eventually ask her for her number and things will all be good :o) haha well atleast thats worked for some of my guy friends good luck :oP
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to... (link)
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YES!!!!! awww he seems like such a sweetie!
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ok this kid I like like, we knew who each other were since the begingig of the year but we never really started talkin til like Late October.. well now like everytime we talk, we flirt. and well ive grown to really like him. but these girls dont like me bc one of them likes him i guess but anyways i guess he was testing my jealousy bc he was messing with the other girl at lunch one day and thats the place where we really talk and i stopped talking to him for a day and he never went back over there to talk to her.and like.. he live up the street from me and my friend lives near him.and we were walking down the street and we saw some other boys we knew and they were like yeah uhmm we were gonna play football and ur boys the last stop.and im like ok and sarah, my freind goes and gets him
BUT she tells him that I wanted him. and he comes down the steps like what? and im like i didnt want u! and he jus looks at me.and im like anthony and Roman wanted u.but they had gone around the corner to get someone else.and I looked really stupid jus standing there.but anyways,ever since that day..i guess he found out that I liked him alot or whatever but ever since that day, he always finds a reason to give me a hug a least once a day.and like now ive really fallen for him.
Does he like me? How much longer should I wait for him to make a move? Im jus really into him and im kinda confused.
I rate 5 for anything!!!!!!!
*crazy in luv* (link)
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aww!!! i think he likes you! it sounds like it! ah enjoy every hug you get. and hang out with him after school more often, like one day during school ask him if he wants to go on a walk or something maybe hang out at your place and watch a movie.. im betting then hell make a move! and dont be scared to do stuff with him but dont do so much that he would think your easy and then hed use you (experienced it my self) aw i wish you the best of luck!!
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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??
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no no no no no never ever ever not good dont do it- unless hes the love of your life and you guys are going to get married and die old together then dont do it
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i always seem to go for the wrong guys and get hurt in relationships. how can i stop that (link)
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oh man same here i ALWAYS find the wrong guy out of everybody, have your friend find you somebody - that worked for me! good luck
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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do? (link)
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sounds like your too mature for this group, im guessing your in 7th grade? you should meet new people because you seem almost too good for your group.your not being picky, because you dont want to be stuck dating somebody you dont even like! whats the piont of that right? try telling your friends you want to be dating a person that your truly like instead of the first boy that asks you out.. have fun and be safe!!!
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