Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


every thing is ruined


Question Posted Thursday March 17 2005, 2:23 pm

today has been the worst day of my life. Ok, so i've liked this guy for over a year and i found out that my (one of my best friends) is moving in on him. She's after him and i think he likes her. she knows i like him, but doesn't care. My other best friends says we cant be best friends anymore. Everything is ruined at school for me now, what am isuposed to do? HELP



[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?


Sporkster answered Monday March 21 2005, 6:34 pm:
If the guy you like likes her, there's really nothing you can do about it but watch it happen. I'm sure this guy knows how you feel, but if he doesn't like you, why should he hold back from liking a girl just for you? Like the first person said, there are other guys in the world. Maybe this guy isn't the one for you. Tough luck, but wouldn't you rather go out with someone who loves you instead of someone who doesn't really like you? Wait and the right guy will come to you. As for your other best friend, is there a reason she doesn't want to be your best friend anymore? And how is everything at your school ruined for you now? If you simply are having this one problem at school, it can't be entirely ruined. Feel free to ask for help if you have any more problems.

[ Sporkster's advice column | Ask Sporkster A Question
]




UHOPKINSON answered Friday March 18 2005, 8:02 pm:
kick her ass!

[ UHOPKINSON's advice column | Ask UHOPKINSON A Question
]



Melaur1001 answered Friday March 18 2005, 5:20 pm:
People in Africa are DYING. Kids are loosing their parents and ending up either being BEATEN by their step parents or living out on the streets untill they DIE of AIDS or DRUGS.

174,302 to 183,083 innocent people in Asia and Africa DIED from a tsunami. People are left without HOMES and FOOD and MONEY and not to mention FAMILY MEMBERS.
People like you make me sick.

[ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question
]



redxroses answered Thursday March 17 2005, 5:51 pm:
If your friend moved in on the guy and she knew you liked him, she probably isn't a true friend. There's nothing you can do about the guy except tell him you like him and how backstabbing your friend really is, but you don't have too (since that's kind of big). If your othr best friends are saying they can't be bestfriends with you than ditch them and find new friends, because real friends wouldn't do that to you.

[ redxroses's advice column | Ask redxroses A Question
]



AskMegan answered Thursday March 17 2005, 4:51 pm:
What a bitch. Tell her so, and you know what? Tell the guy you like that she is a sneaky little rat. Who would want to date her? Try and woo him, and like JET says COLD HARD BITCH.

[ AskMegan's advice column | Ask AskMegan A Question
]



karenR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 4:46 pm:
A boy isn't going to know you like him unless you talk to him.She shouldn't have moved in on someone you liked that is true but, if you don't talk to him someone else will.So go talk to him,okay.

As for staying best friends, well, thats up to you. If he likes her though there's not much you can do about that.If you were dating the guy and she moved in on him I'd say ditch her but if you just liked him without doing anything about it...that's a little different.

[ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question
]



HeLpFuLhUnNiE916 answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:43 pm:
Your in a bad situation right now, but ahve no fear, I'm hear to help you out! LOL! Well, if I were you, I'd try to win the guy over before your best friend does, because if you wait to long, you might not be able to get him back if she moves in on him before you do, and with your other best friends, if they don't want to be best friends with you anymore, that's there lost, and you should just forget about them and find new ones! I think everything will work out good for you though in the end! I hope I helped!

[ HeLpFuLhUnNiE916's advice column | Ask HeLpFuLhUnNiE916 A Question
]



lostinside answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:31 pm:
I don't think she's a great friend if she's doing that to you. That doesn't seem right to me. I would confront your friend, tell her how she's making you feel. If she still goes after the guy you like after that, I would try to move on. You can find better friends than that! You seem like a nice, caring girl! If she was a real friend she wouldn't hurt you like that..

Hope I helped!

[ lostinside's advice column | Ask lostinside A Question
]



MiZzAdViCe16 answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:23 pm:
nicely confront your (supposibly) best friend and ask her would she is doing this to you and tell her how much this really hurts you

hope i helped

please rate

[ MiZzAdViCe16's advice column | Ask MiZzAdViCe16 A Question
]



xxASKAWAYxx answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:19 pm:
Ask your friend why she went in on the guy you like remember that know true friend would do that.

ASKAWAY

[ xxASKAWAYxx's advice column | Ask xxASKAWAYxx A Question
]



buckems answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:15 pm:
Help obveiously...oo and grow up!! Come on they must not be very good friends if they just say we cant be freinds any more!! Stop Lieing To Your Self!!!!!!!!!! It does you no good you need to get ovet the guy theres plenty more and find real freinds because the other ones were not your freinds! Truth hurts!! Sucks Ehh..

[ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: help
Next Question >>>

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker