ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high!
JadedinNowhere answered Friday March 11 2005, 6:14 pm: Go to school, you have to confront him sooner or later anyway, so.. why not sooner, than later. As for running into him things will run their course, let him do the talking for the moment unless you have something to say.. I know that was sort of vague advice, but I think you'll have the most success with it. If you need anymore help look down at my link. :)
russianspy1234 answered Friday March 11 2005, 3:22 pm: im sure hell be flattered that he makes you so nervous that you cant speak straight. go to school and talk to him again, hell probably ask you out, or ask him out yourself. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
nocturnalkid answered Friday March 11 2005, 1:50 pm: You'll be fine! I swear. Go to school and be confident when you go. There's nothing wrong with being shy, but don't let it affect school or anything of real importance. If you run into the guy, smile, say hello, and be casual. I know it sounds hard, but just take a deep breath and you can do it. It's starting a conversation that's hard, but once it starts rolling, everything falls into place.
teengoddess12 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 11:02 pm: being a guy, he proly doesn't even know that you like him, so i wouldn't worry. and guys like it when you're confident and stuff, so just randomly say hi to him and smile. he'll notice you. it's like a pyramid, really. you gotta build your relationship up. like, first say hi with a smile, and act confident, 2nd, ask him waht's up, 3rd have a real conversation, 4th ask him to do something with you just as friends, 5th just wait, he'll be after you if you sport your cutest clothes. **DON'T BE CLINGY! LET HIM COME TO YOU, TRUST ME, HE WILL, JUST BE PATIENT!!** [ teengoddess12's advice column | Ask teengoddess12 A Question ]
lilrocksta13 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 10:08 pm: Don't be mad at yourself. Talking to boys can be difficult especially since you have no idea how they will react to what you are saying. IF you run into him, tell him that you feel bad about what you said and you can try again by thinking about something else that doesn't make you shy. Just go to school and act normal. [ lilrocksta13's advice column | Ask lilrocksta13 A Question ]
i3ARBIExLOVE answered Thursday March 10 2005, 7:36 pm: Are you honestly telling me that you are letting a boy get in the way of your day tom? Wow, you must really like him and feel imbarrased. Well i would go to school.. if yuo bump into him no sweat just either tell him and get over your fear or walk on and move on with your day.
Always there..
Donna [ i3ARBIExLOVE's advice column | Ask i3ARBIExLOVE A Question ]
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