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Whats the best way to lose a bad slut reputation that isnt true?!? I try to be nice to people but there so mean to me cause of what they hear about me...i need to fix this. Any ideas?
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You have one of two choices. Either ignore the sad, pathetic people that are giving you hassle or you can stick up for yourself and tell these people that you have grown up and it sounds like they're in desperate need of growing up too!
Best of luck!!!
x Steph x
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You sit. And you watch who is going to stick by you and show you some support, and who is just going to be a sheep and follow the crowd because they dont have the guts to say it to your face. Look - if the stuff isn't true, you dont have to explain yourself or be nice to anyone - be civil. You'll find who you're friends really are that way, as opposed to sucking up to people who think badly of you, how does that get you anywhere?
One of my best friends, who is in a different school, well this bastard she used to date started spreading rumors about her and it got all around her school - and her two closest friends in that school believed the guy! Her ex, instead of even ASKING her if they were true. I didnt believe it, because that guy is a nut, but anyway, she found that a lot of people jumped and believed the rumours, and only the people who truly cared/are friends chose not to believe them based on her word.
And of course - dont do anything that gives people something to talk about. Good luck, because I know how hard this can be.
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A slut isn't known for being mean sweetie. I know lots of sluts who are extremly nice. If it's not true then fuck whoever started it, karma. You don't need to fix it if there's nothing to back these rumors up.
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umm dress conservatively and try hard at school/wark.
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