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I just recently realized I like my friend, Chris.
Tomorrow we have school & I want him to know that I like him.
What sort of things can I do to let him know?
What flirty actions or things can I say to him?
Thanks in advance!
ps. I NEED TO KNOW ASAP
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How weird is that
i used to like a guy named chris
*but this is about you
******so anyways
just tell him but if your to shy just
drop small hints
you lnow be flirty
start small talk
ask him what he likes if you like the same stuff
agree youll find something in common and
youll have something to talk about have a meaningful conversation
if not iy wil just be awkard
kay hope i helped
luvzit Laters gorgeous !
*muah
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HI
Im 13 years old and have never had a bf. All my friends have and they have all had their first kiss i still havent . Im worried ill never get a boyfriend when i talked 2 my mate she said to try flirting more but i dont know how
please help
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chick theres nothin wrong w/you
youll find a guy that likes you for who you are
not for bein flirtatious
or whatevr
but yeah if you want a guy that doesnt dig you
i suggest you flirt around !
or like jeez you have all your life to fall in love
roght now just like have fun
you dont need a guy to make you happy !
but whatever floats your boat !
*keep it zen
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I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?
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girl chill theres nothing wrong
*same here *HIGH FIVE
you probably just havent found the right person
*if your shy:
open up more and be more out spoken
go up to a guy and start a conversation get to know them then maybe sumthin will stirr up in a big pot of good ole love!
*keep it zen !
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In class yesterday I was sitting next to a girl who I don't really know, and she rolled her sleeve up and I saw she had cuts all up her arm, and that some of them were bleeding. She didn't know that I saw. Now I don't know this girl at all, but I do know one of her flatmates a bit. Should I speak to her flatmate and see if she knows this girl is cutting herself? Cos I think her flatmate could help her much more than I could.
Thanks! (link)
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woa thats hard but no fear *great advice giver ZEN is here
u should tell a counceler about that
and if there is any reason for this girl to be doing that to herself she does need some help
there is other things you can also do if your school has like sum hotline nuber you can call and tell them *sum people dint ask for names and stuff
keep it zen *
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I'm very shy. I'm so shy that I don't even want to get up to go turn in my paper because people stare at me. I don't even raise my hand to answer questions in class because I'm scared that I will get the wrong answer and people will make fun of me. If a person is shy (like me), are they always going to be shy for their whole life or do you eventually stop being shy? If so, how? (link)
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you really shouldnt be so shy
theres no point to it
what do you get by being the one thats always quiiet?
the one that no one really knows?
just stop caring about what other people think and dont be afaid to be wrong that way ull never learn anything
i suggest to open up more socially
u wont be that way for the rest for your whole life unless you choose to thats totally up to you
i guess what im trying to say is open up to people more and it will make life and school alot easier and more fun and interesting
*HOPE i helped yo !
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ok im 15/f :) my best friend and i ride the bus. she met her boyfriend on the bus and now shes trying to set me up with her boyfriends best friend. she made sure that i sat next to him while her and her boyfriend were right beside us. she kept telling me to talk to him and i was like i dont even know him. so i asked him a few questions like his name and grade and some stuff. he seemed pretty nice. and hes pretty cute! but i didnt want to seem like an idiot. the rest of the way home tho i ran out of things to say and it was so awkward...how do i \"talk\" with him without seeming weird like because we dont even know eachother. and how do i talk to him casually so he wont think im crushing on him! im pretty sure my best friend and her boyfriend are gonna try to keep making us sit by eachother, so what should i say to him? and also, when my best friend gets off, and her boyfriends best friend gets off, its just me and her boyfriend. i never say a word to him because i dont know him and its awkward, but how do i talk to him without seeming stupid? because my best friend is like what did you and my boyfriend talk about and im like nothing and shes like you should talk to him more! please help thanks! (link)
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just like dont be scared to act like an idiot but dont seem desperate talk about things u think that both of you would have in common
guys like girls that arent shy to be themselves !!!
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I've liked this guy for about 10 months and he went out with me for sympathy because he felt sorry for me. Should i just give up and move on or should i keep trying to get him? (link)
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guys like that arent worth liking if he doesnt like you
* dont try to force a relationship with him it would just make things awkward
*and if hes low enough to go out with you because he fells sorry for you hes not a real man he should have had enough of a pair to tell u straight up
*he just hurt your feelings even more by doing that
*theres plenty of many guys out there he just happened to get in your way!
hope i answered your question
(damn im good i cant believe im only 14!i rock)
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I was in a relationship notice i said "was" it seems like that now, he came across as sweet and caring in the beginning, then after awhile he became demanding, manipulative, controlling and then finally he just stayed around for the sake of torment. I got out of it by the only means I knew how and he wanted to sit there and watch as I took a knife to my wrist and sliced away, do you know what it felt like? Numb.It was far better to do that to myself then to constantly listen to the verbal abuse everyday,i shut myself away and figured hurting myself for getting myself into this situation in the first place was my own punishment for me to constantly remember how overpowering someone can be on you.Guilt at first was mine for not having the strength to walk away and tell him to go to hell...now i hear that he still verbally abuses about me to anyone who will take time out to listen to his sorry ass. am i glad i am not talking to him anymore? i guess i shud be glad im still breathing and he has no knowledge where i am. im safe for now but i dont know what to think anymore about people. (link)
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im sorry that the only way that you felt that you had to cut but plese dont do that anymore its not the way
abusive people dont deserve the light of day
im just happy that youre safe now
but i agree w/that other columnist you should see someone professional i dont want to be wrong
goes to show you cant trust everyone
keep safe
and thanx for acctually making the time that i answered this question meaningfull
theese kinds of questions are what convinced me to join advicenators
luv*lots
hope everything works out
zen*pshyco
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theres this guy ive had a crush on for a while. we always talk, and weve even hung out outside of school once or twice and i even think he likes me alittle, but none of us have ever broughten it up. today he signed my yearbook and he said "i hope you find the perfect man this summer" which i find wierd because normally guys dont write that kind of stuff. anyway, im going away this summer for 2 months and i wont be back for a while. im debating telling him i like him just to get it off my shoulders cause i just want him to know already and i wont be seeing him for a while. should i do that? or do you think it will freak him out and he wont want to start any relationships this summer?? (link)
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Ithink you should go for it hey
why not i mean its now or never
good luck
ZEN*PSHYCO
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does anybody think its tacky to tell somebody you like them over instant message? it just feels so much easier to let everything out that way than in person. (link)
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ITsort of depends if you know the person you want to tell that you like them then no its NOT tacky
but if you dont know this guy personnally then yeah i kinda think it is
BUT im a new version of an old skool chick i do stuff the old fashion way face2face but thats me i dont know
7ROCK7ANGEL7
STAY COOLIO
ZEN*PSHYCO
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Thirteen Female; My life feels boring but its not at all. There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is. I use things as escapes like reading writing music sometimes even pot but those things ware off while I'm in school. I have no clue what’s wrong with me. I'm always frustrated, tired, tense and sketchy. I have tons of friends and my family life is perfect with the acceptation of my father but I can't blame everything on him. I know what your thinking-shrink. But see I’m not aloud to go to a shrink because of my father and issues so what do I do. My friends are all upper class richies who could never understand. I feel as if everything I do is inflicting pain on me and I can’t stand to even breathe anymore. My friend went to a hospital for depression but she’s fine. I just want to know what to do because all this makes me so out of it all the time and I really miss my friends and family. See there a rip in all this though because when I'm with this one guy I forget everything and I am all myself but at the same time I can't remember what I have to tell him but that's okay because he makes me feel okay. This is also a problem because we talk less and less every day so now I’m like dying. I rate high. And I really am not insane. Believe me. (link)
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u know what this is practicaly the age wher your thoughts start to change and your perspective on life is also very different it doesnt mean your going insane
drugs arent the answer to anything not ecehn if your really extremly bored dont ever use that as an'escape' cause it just comes back and bites you in the ass
fuck that shit go and try to get help your dad dont have nothing to do w/it if you dont want to just try to tell your mom shell be glad no matter what
try to get closer to your ton off friends and spend time w/them instead of dwelling in your saddness get out of that black hole as fast as you can
***trying to get help doesny mean your going crazy it just means that you want help***
if that guy makes you feel ok um you might want to spend time w/him tooand try to keep in touch
luv
if you still dont feel like i answered your question write back !!!
7ROCK7ANGEL7
LUV LOTS
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I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions? (link)
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Start up a conversation and try to get to know him better and find similar interest
and if you like him nothing is ever ridiculous!
if this dontr work out i dont know what will!!!
hope everything goes badass between both of yall
suggestion:
go bowling everyone loves bowling even if yall dont know how its always a fun experience for everybody!!!
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I'm 14/f...I like my best friend and unfortunatley its a girl (no offense to anyone). I want to tell her just so I can talk to her about it but she seems like she could care less. So what do I do? Do I just blab it out or not tell her at all? Thnx in advance.
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dear Duckie,
I really dont want to offend you in any way so dont take any thing the wrong way because the last thing i want to do is offend you.
I understand how liking one of your best friends could be weird but if you do want to tell her that you like her, you should go ahead but you might want to know if she likes you in the same way because if she doesnt it might just push her farther away and thats the last thing wwe want aint it so fill me in on anything
luv lots,7ROCK7ANGEL7!1hope everything goes well!
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i just joined this advicenators thing and ive been on it for two days and today is cinco de damn mayo and i deserve some damn questions i know that there are some twisted weirdos out there but non of them are asking me for advice. (this is awkward im asking myself for my own opinion)what should i do ZEN*PSHYCO (link)
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well um u might want to tell some of ur friends bout it in school of e-mailing it to all of the people in your address book what evr you do just spread the word
ZEN*PSHYCO
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