About ammo
"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^
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alot happened between me and a guy..he end up taking my v card and its been 2-3 years, he ended friendship for no apparent reason..i have a opportunity to talk him again on facebook, like now i can add him and message he blocked me in the past..he hurt me alot. i used have feelings for this guy,and almost over him. i will always care for him tho. but in a relationship now with a new guy who treats me well and stuff. i feel guilty at thought of this..should i add the old guy and be friends again or let my heart ache little longer and get on with life eitherway with the new guy?
Although you deserve some answers as to why he may have treated you in the way that he did, I can't help but think that no answer will justify his actions and sometimes guys can just be jerks (that was the lightest way I could put it). If he broke things off with you not long after taking your v card it can be concluded that maybe that was all he was interested in?
Now as for adding him to talk to him and try to be friends... if he was after friendship I would think he would have come back and spoken to you and made some kind of effort before now. You still clearly have some feelings for him and this is bad on two fronts. Firstly, your feelings for him could open you up to be emotionally manipulated by him. Although you after friendship in your heart I detect that you feel a far deeper emotion for him than just friendship and if this is true you need to ask yourself, if he was to show you any kind of romantic or physical interest would you be able to resist it and tell him no thanks I have a guy I'm with? If you have any doubts about being able to do that then it will probably be in your best interest not to message him at all because you will then not only risk your own feelings (if he does mess you around) but, secondly, you will be putting at risk your current relationship.
What you do really does depend on how strong you feel you are on this. If you are painfully waiting for this guy then what's to say he has changed? He may well end up messing you around again but this time instead of just hurting you he will also end up complicating things with your current relationship. That is, unless you feel you can handle any outcome or situation it may present in which case you can message him and see how it goes from there and if you feel something isn't right, you can just as easily block him and just move on.
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thank you this helps alot i will think long and hard before i make a final decision but probably wont contact him
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