About ammo

"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^
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Recently I added a question but did not register im extremely bad about that. So ill retype my question and hopefully someone can help....so here it is...kinda embarrassing
Im slim thick I have a big breast and a huge butt boys seem to be way to attracted and its killing me they make dirty jokes about me, and touch me the way I dont wanna get touch ...I wrapped my self with a jacket on my waist like all over me. I have no idea what to do. I cannot talk to my parrents about it ...its embarrassing. Im 13 in 8 grade! I dont need this! Gosh im so shy to speak
up I just want to kill myself its like everywhere. I dont want to be a slut. Im really too smart forthat. What should I do to help myself. I really dont like my body for all of this problem. I never earn any respect. ( forget about the sentences underneath having problems with my phone)
Igo.I dont want to be a slug.
First and foremost there is nothing wrong with you or your body and certainly don't think about killing yourself or anything silly like that. Firstly the guys who make these stupid jokes are just being childish. The best thing you can do is ignore it, unfortunately there is no way to stop people thinking stupid thoughts. As for being touched though - this is something that is NOT acceptable. No-one should ever touch you in any way which you are not happy about or have your permission to do. I know you said you are a shy person but your body belongs to YOU and so if anyone touches you in a way you don't like, make sure they know about it. If it's as big a problem as you have said I think you should speak to your parents about it so they can bring it up with your school and the teachers there because its behaviour you shouldn't have to put up with or need to deal with when going to school. This kind of behaviour gets ignored because others who are probably in the same boat as you probably think the same thing and so also do nothing about it - so in the end nothing gets done about it.
Respect is important and it's a great thing that at your age you understand this and don't want to be seen as some cheap woman. Sometimes you have to fight to get that respect and in this case coming out of your shell and telling someone about it (even if its a teacher if you can't talk to your parents directly) would be the first step in doing that. Never think about wanting to kill yourself. Every problem in life can be dealt with one way or another without having to resort to hurting yourself. Good luck.
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Thank you so much I feel so much better and I will take that step :) thxs
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