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I was married almost 4 years. We had our problems he stole from my son (his step son) would sell his video games and say he just found a bunch of money he stole a generator from my father and sold it and got caught he got two years probation. He walked out 2 weeks ago took all our money our only car my driver license.( i dont miss him or anything i think our marriage died along time ago) Left me with two children (we have one child together) and the bills i had a full time job but couldnt get back and forth to work i was walking 6 miles with my two kids back and forth to work. I got off work at 10 pm. My brother finally came and got me I didnt have any family there. I moved (12 hours away) I havent talked to him he hasnt even tried to contact me or his daughter. My sons father who i had a child with at the age of 15 (22 now) came with my brother to pick me and the kids up. Hes been great with my son who he hasnt seen in 3 years. He always asks if i need something. He texts me all the time to check on me on the kids. He texts flirty texts. He asked me if he should hate me. I said do you hate me? he said no it feels like we were never gone ( i was gone 5 years) he said it feels the same as before. I said what does that mean he said i dont know. he said he missed me. He has a girlfriend they have been on and off for a few years mainly off. She doesnt like my son my sons father thinks shes jealous of him. Not really a question I am just seeking advice on what you all would do in this situation.
You file for divorce and fight for custody, You also fight for child support.
Here is where you start - You must first begin with contacting a lawyer.
Once you do, Get yourself into counseling. Talk to someone who can guide you. Get your children into counseling also. As much as you may not see it now, His children will end up resenting him in the long run and it will all backfire one day.
(Rating: 5) I can not file for divorce until my children are residents of the new state which takes 6 months